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Maybe some bling? https://www.more.com/fashion/vajazzling-crystals-your-crotch xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

You do realize that cops use I.D's now right? That is not foolproof. I know personally because I had 3 cops do my screening with an ID that was fake. If I hadn't of done my screening in a specific manner, I would have been busted like other ladies were. I don't use references as my main source of screening because I agree, it is weird due to not knowing what is acceptable to her will be acceptable to me. Otherwise, I do love it when I get references from ladies that I do personally know. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I got y'all beat! I drove for a short time the family TransVan complete with a mini kitchen(stove, fridge, cabinets), table, sofa that all laid down into one big bed...yes, I broke that puppy in! LOL! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

See, this is what pisses me off is when girls do this because I rely on this for you to come through my door, and I won't relent because I have been burned by being loose with screening. I would never do this to somebody because I would never want them to do it to me. Some people are just seriously evil and callous. Turn her into Adult Search, and make sure that if she advertises anywhere that she is held accountable there too. TNA, TOB, and other places still require reviews...make sure you write no, and if people ask, tell them the situation. This is the kind of stuff we need to stop in its tracks before someone gets hurt. Sorry this happened to you, and just know that there are good ladies out there that would never treat their potential clients this way. We are smart enough to know that it never pays to play dirty. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I have, in fact. It was a HOT ride! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Us ladies would be more than happy to answer any questions you have. I feel bad for ladies that don't screen. I did that when I first started and it cost me considerably...wouldn't wish that on anyone! It doesn't take long to screen if everyone is on the same page about it. I see a few problems with screening. Ladies have everything so vague that guys don't know if they are adult providers because they are afraid of being ripped off so they don't want to provide info. Then there is ladies getting ticked off that guys won't provide info and so they blacklist them which is EXACTLY what they were afraid of to begin with. We need to have a little more compassion towards the clients about this. If you have no info out there where they can get an idea of what to expect, you can legally write in a manner that they will get the drift. The reality is if a cop wants to bust you, he will get through your screening and find something that will incriminate you. Just be vigilant to make it harder for them, and understand that it is a reality that you could face, and be prepared for it. With bad clients, know how to defend and protect yourself, and if you want to know some measures...many ladies do different things to protect ourselves and you can talk to them privately about that. If you turn around because you are annoyed by their questioning and BL them, don't get all trigger happy and start writing every client that ticked you off. It is annoying to us ladies that see this, and it makes it harder for us to screen when we have to sift through the crap so be discerning on who gets to be on the list. If you are really that determined, then put it in an organized list that you have hidden somewhere so if he contacts in the future, you remember why he didn't see you and you can decide from that point if he is worth dealing with. Remember that we are all different, and what is annoying to you may not be annoying to another provider. Now, about compassion towards clients...understand that they are just as nervous as you and that some really are swimming in uncharted waters, have been lucky to find ladies that don't screen, or truly think they are Thor. Whatever the case, you find diplomacy in this situation by explaining that it is only for your safety, and give them what you feel safe enough to provide(like me I give out my website, and link to sites more detailed than TOB) and tell them that you hope to hear from them soon. If not, happy hobbying. Keep it sweet and simple. If he doesn't respond, then you got your answer, but without divulging anything that would make you uncomfortable. If he spouts off, you can be polite, but firm that this is how you run your business and you aren't relenting. If he starts name calling then you know what to do...get the word out. There is no reason to create violence over things said with a stranger...those things can only escalate into something dangerous, and this biz is already dangerous enough. I feel that we make this screening too big of a deal when it seems a no-brainer to me. Of course, we have so many different people that are in this biz, and they all run it differently so it will always be an issue as long as we all do things differently. All I know is that I don't waste any time on guy s that refuse to screen, and I make sure to roll out the red carpet for the ones that do. They will learn from it eventually and maybe then they will be worth my time, but at that moment...I have others things to worry about. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

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LOL! You crack me up girl! Reminds of joke I have seen in the past. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

The Sushi Train off of Hampden and I-25 has an all you can eat sushi for $15.00(if I remember correctly). It isn't the best sushi in town, but it will take care of the fish craving for a decent price. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Oh man, Megan, I am staying at one of the nicest hotels in Fort Collins, and I walked into an oven. My rooms windows were open with sun blasting in, and the AC was full blast showing 80 degrees in the room. I shut those curtains, and spent the rest of the day sweating because it took all day for it to cool off. It did make for some interesting cuddle sessions though... There is a nice 3 star in Avon, CO with free breakfast, AC, and comfortable beds right off of the interstate that I know is good. It isn't fancy, but it is a good location and works for what you need. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Also, I am growing my own herbs. They taste much better than the store variety. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

$.89?!?! I am thrilled when I find avocados for under a buck. My motto at the store is to not buy any produce that is over a $1.00 a pound. The only time I will break down is if it is for a dish I am making(and it is one of the ingredients), or if I want to spoil myself with like portabello mushrooms, or something. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Damn, I am a prude! I scan everything exactly as it is. Someone needs to corrupt me!!! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

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#1 is the one that is harder to attain because a good portion of guys don't have the dedication to learn, but when you do...you do climax just not out of your lingam, but you climax over and over again internally(emotionally)which is more intense plus it what a good portion of ladies can do over and over again that guys are SO jealous over. Don't knock something you haven't the patience to learn...the few that do, want it again and again. #2 is cool, but even if you don't learn the beginners, you will have no idea of what is really going on as you need to feel that energy that flows between two people in the moment. #3 is exactly as you state it. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Thank you Becky! Nothing annoys me more than when it is interpreted as a "prostate massage" or sensual play with ejaculation. The coolest experience I have had with tantra was when we used breathing techniques and there was no sex, but the energy flowing between us was SO intense and enlightening that I was on a cloud for days. The kundalini(six heights of the lingam) climax is mostly physical though, just a beginners lesson, and if you learn the breathing techniques for emotional and spiritual you really get to have some cool experiences that have little to do with getting off, but more about the experience between two people and their energy. I quit doing it professionally because they were really abusing it with just wanting to get off. I might put it back up, but for only regulars and only if they are serious about learning and truly doing it. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Why haven't I been this creative?! Nice one, Bora. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

You can use the ladies that "Ok'ed" you for references with ladies that aren't on P411. There are many forms of screening, and if they aren't willing to use them then on to the next provider. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Well, I am different than most of you. I do write what you will expect on my website, and my twitter because I can't put it anywhere else and I am not going to explain it over the phone again, and again, and again. If you are too stupid to avoid my screening, and go right into asking what I provide without checking out everything I have spent time writing then you will be ignored. It is simple as that. I am not going to hold your hand and teach you how to read my well-written English words on the internet, and show you how to get an appt. It is written everywhere in blogs, tweets, websites about protocols, and tips to set up appts with providers, and they are very self explanatory. This business is NOT rocket science people! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Well, I was in Cheyenne this weekend and didn't get very many new bites(thank goodness for regulars). Just like the previous lady said, the last time I went to Fort Collins I either got guys that were rude, wouldn't screen(and this one is pretty common), or not much of action from newbies. If it wasn't for my regulars(bless them dearly) I would be reconsidering going to those areas again. Guys complain there isn't a lot of action, but I see lots of advertising from various ladies in most areas, and am hearing from them that guys are either crude, won't go through screening, very little contact, want literally last minute appts, or ghosting. So what is the real problem? Who knows? Holidays are always different. If you want to see someone, it is best to plan because most of us ladies have families, friends, lives that we do like to enjoy during these times. If expect something short notice then you will most likely end up short in that regard because if they don't have any calls, they are going to enjoy their personal life. We, unfortunately, are not laying naked with our phone in our hand waiting for the next call 24/7, 365 days in a year. Figure out your basic window, get screened, make sure a couple of ladies know you are looking at a certain time window, and that you will confirm by a set time so that they are planning a possible meet, and keeping that open just in case it does pan out. If it doesn't then they can plan their personal life accordingly, and not miss out on something they wanted to do, or plan another appt. Nothing is more frustrating than last minute cancellations, or guys wanting last minute when you had plans or not enough time to get ready. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

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Well, gee, I thought you guys all LOVED my "duckface"! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I wish I could, but a good portion of colognes on me give me the worst headaches and can literally make me sick-especially if they are too sweet or musky. I know that I am not the only one that is sensitive to this. Oh, and clients...NEVER put cologne "down there". A real quick way to not get some extra attention(if you know what I mean). xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Duty calls for me. I am going to a birthday party, a graduation, and a wedding in one day total. Should be crazy, but fun. Lost of BBQ food. Then, I want to finish the weekend off with a "bang". LOL! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I have my google set up to ask me certain things if I ever use a different device as it recognizes the two that I use because I made them accessible. I do this so if I ever get anything like this, I won't be duped because if they see anything weird they notify me immediately of suspicious activity. I love that extra security. It also shows me my weekly activity so I can see where it was used. I would know very quickly if I was hacked due to that. It is always good to go into their privacy settings and familiarize yourself with how they work so you don't get scammed with anything. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard