SultryKitten

This is one of the few reasons that I do not answer any phone calls until they have screened. For one, I am not having a prospective client think he can convince me to see him without screening(and they try by calling me instead of filling out my form), also I only want to waste my time talking to clients whom I have already seen or gone through my screening because they are top priority, also yeah, it is to avoid the wives/girlfriends, and I really don't like being on the phone unless I have to. I have had the wives call, and I just act stupid like I have no idea who she is talking about or what she is referring to. Like you said, it isn't your place to be in the middle, and he has no one but his stupid ass to blame but himself. Drop him and block him. Make sure(just in case you weren't doing this) that in the future, that they pick you up somewhere generic so they don't have your address. Safety should always be top priority for your well being. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Dicks pics, guys stating they won't screen or lie about no references, constant nasty videos on their profiles, bragging about all the chicks they banged, writing about this business like they know everything- it is incorrect, bad grammar, going off on politics and it is based upon opinions not facts, girls who are fake(body, pics, etc), and guys who white knight-we get it, she is your ATF!!! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

UGH!! THIS right here is why fewer ladies are coming to Fort Collins...the guys get spooked by a few stings, and think even us legit ladies(that have regularly frequented your city) are too risky to STILL see. I had been going to Fort Collins for over 10 years, and this last year has been pretty sad with each visit. It has made me ponder going up that way again as it costs me precious money I just can't afford to waste, and I am not the only lady in this predicament. Also, I get the worst time wasters there too, and have heard the same from a few other ladies. The few that I still regularly see have been a blessing, and I am grateful they are still willing to weather the storm...thank you so much for being awesome clients. If you seriously want to see any of us ladies in your area, screen a lady of your choice and preschedule with her. She will be more likely to come up there, and you get to have the time of your life. Getting us to your city starts with you guys showing you want us there. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Dayum!!! Well that rules me out because I would love to fuck to "All Is Full of Love", and a few others of her unique music. Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Totally agree with most of those especially Amazing Grace. *shudder* Others are Wind Beneath My Wing, Somewhere Over The Rainbow, most Christian songs, Spongebob Squarepants, Friends theme song, Heart Goes On(Titanic song), Sold(by John Michael Montgomery), Blue, and this song. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

On another note, I also love it when guys show me their "gun". 😉 Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I am okay with it as long as I know about it beforehand, and it stays locked and in the holster. I grew up around rifles, and shot handguns a time or two back in my day, but I honestly was more lethal with a knife, and I used to have one under my pillow that I had for protection. I have gotten lazy with shooting and throwing knives so I am going to hone my skills this summer as I think everyone should know how to defend themselves. It seems the world isn't getting any kinder, and I sure am going to do my damnedest to keep our 2nd Amendment alive. Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I pay $79 for internet through Comcast then I pay for Amazon, Hulu, and Netflix to watch movies and such. I did add TV recently with Sling, but I only pay $56 for it and love it so far. I would love to find cheaper internet, but I think it is worth it to avoid going through CenturyStink, etc. Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Does that mean I get to wear my fluffy pajamas with lingerie underneath because I would be all over the idea of being myself. 😁 Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I will be general then. Anytime that someone tries to be nice, give a heads up, or wants to inform this board of things pertaining to this business...there are a few clients/providers that have to come on here and feel that because they think they know so much about this business that they negatively respond to the ops that are helping, and sometimes it would just be nice if instead of being negative, just be grateful that some people are thinking of others besides themselves and trying to make this business safer for everyone. I took the sarcasm and negativity as being mean to Bit, and all he was trying to do is showing compassion for what we have to do to be safe, and making sure that you clients are aware and be conscious of the changes. There really was no need to be asinine about it. Thank you for supporting us, and yes, the majority of you guys have been cool about the things we are going through, but unfortunately, more than 60% of clients are not as supportive or really have no clue as to the workings of this business, and if they do read this...it hopefully educates them on what is going on. I do apologize if I was harsh, and now that I have had my Snickers bar...I wish y'all a safe Memorial Weekend! Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I was being rude, but it is because you were not exactly being nice either. Your post insinuated that you feel his vague post was unnecessary unless he gave reason as to why we are tightening our screening, and there is no reason to be given just take the advice and be grateful someone was nice enough to give you a heads up. Next time, him or someone else might not be so kind. Every time someone tries to do something nice on here, a few have to always be jerks, and it is pretty sad really. Lastly, if you aren't a hobbiest...why do you care, and why post if you don't? You come on here a lot giving out advice, and in MY opinion, a hobbiest(someone who has partaken of this hobby with various ladies, and still does)is capable of giving advice that he has learned through his experience. Just saying... xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Basically, it is really none of your business, and it really doesn't affect you as to the reason. Also, when we have given reasons, someone tends to overreact and then has a conundrum over something that doesn't affect them. Us ladies are doing our part to not only protect ourselves, but our clients too, and when it comes to screening you clients will not be privy as to why we our tightening our screening. Also, if us ladies choose to relax our screening that is up to us to make that decision, but being an ass over it, or making a joke like we don't take our business seriously is serious douchebaggery, and is really not giving any of you "hobbiests" brownie points in your favor. We are doing our part how we see fit...every lady runs her business how she feels it works for her, and it isn't any clients place to tell her how to see her clients. Don't like it? Find someone else. Bit does not need to explain what the issue/issues are, and we are grateful that he is giving a heads up that we have a reason for being extra cautious during this crazy time. Take the advice, or find yourself enjoying the company of Rosie and her five friends. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

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I had a condom break one time(like 5 years ago), and the guy confessed that he saw another gal in the biz bareback so I freaked a bit. I went right away and got Plan B which I knew was the only thing I could do at the moment, and then I just waited about 3 weeks(which is when they tend to state is best to check) and got tested which luckily, everything was all good. The nurse told me that if I felt that I might have been infected that if I had gone to a clinic earlier than waiting they would have most likely prescribed something in advance so I can see the reasoning for the meds. Mike, you are doing your part in getting this resolved, but yeah, you kind of need to chill out. You made a choice to partake in this business, and you saw a lady that was sketchy...well, the reality is that getting an STD can happen. If you don't want to catch anything then you need to stay with your wife(if your married), be with a lady that you only see that shows regular testing(and even that isn't 100%), or go celibate. We all know what we are walking into in this business, and know that there can be repercussions if something happens. It sucks, but that is life. I do hope all of this is for nothing, and that everything tests out fine, but relax...it isn't the end of the world. Find out what is up and then learn from this accident. Good luck! xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Personally, I have only met a few clients that I enjoy fiv. The reason? A majority of clients shove their knobs up there like a doctor checking a guy's prostate. It does not feel good, and it can rip us or make us tender which ruins a chance of us being ready for another client if they aren't the only one that day. So a lot of ladies make rules on those kind of things to preserve their "money maker". We can't make money if we are out of commission, and our business is commission based. I can say that I don't see clients again if they are too aggressive...to me, I just can't afford to have to heal because some client can't figure out how to be gentle with their bodyparts, and I am including the mouth in that statement. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I agree Bit. The government want a share of our "pie". We want decriminilization, they want it legalized so they can have control. While they may protect us, it won't be without them getting something in return for the "favor". xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Hmmmm, for me it depends on the circumstance. If it was last minute, I would offer free time as I am the one canceling on the client and inconveniencing him, BUT only if it is a client that I have seen. Newbies I haven't met, and don't feel comfortable giving them extra time, especially if we don't click. To me, if you two communicated and are both on the same page then I feel it is okay. It is her time, and it sounds like you try to respect it, BUT keep in mind that not all providers think the same about this, and you may not get so lucky the next time. I would, in the future see if the lady offers up extra time, and if not then decide how you want to proceed to ask if she had to cancel or reschedule the time. The smart thing about owning a business is that if you screw up, providing an incentive gives you a more likely repeat clientele(as long as they don't try to abuse it). xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

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Well, I agree with Melissa. Be a man! Don't get me wrong there is nothing sexier than a strong, hunk of meat providing for his family, working hard at his job, watching a game, drinking a brewskie, and enjoying all the flavors that are out there. I will say that everyone has their type so if he is a metro, gay, trans, tall, short, black, yellow, white, skinny, fat, bald, hairy, blah, blah, blah....OWN YOUR MAN-NESS!!! We don't mind your PMS, tears, empathy, and passion towards us either just don't justify your choices, excuses, mistakes on someone else and think it is okay. A true man will own up to it, and grow to be a better man. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I have heard various things, but the consensus seems to be that African Americans tend to cause more trouble, and providers eliminate those types by trying to lower the drama. Also, they can be more likely to break rules or not listen. Personally, I don't care and have met nothing but great African American guys, but I try to do my best to screen well, and feel I have been lucky to get some good ones. I think it really comes down to culture which leaks into color because certain cultures do tend to be more problematic, and people can quickly start profiling people based on that. Pretty sad, but that is our society for you. I also feel that certain advertising, and how you present yourself seems to attract a certain type of genre more than others so that could come into play too. Also, take in consideration that some newbies hear horror stories, and make decisions on what they have been told so that can come into play too. Be lucky that you live in a city where you have lots of pretty providers to choose from. Go through and figure out the ones that are cool with all diversities of color, race, and religion then have a good time. xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

She is correct though. I have had days where I get nothing until after 5 PM so your ASSumption that you need to call us early in the day to be first is just ignorance on your part. Also, these days getting more than one appt a day is rare in Colorado due to all the ladies working in the area compared to the guys that play. I consider it a good day when I get two appts. I don't know about other ladies, but I am conscious about not tasting like condoms and lube so I don't make those kind of appts closentogrther to allow myself a break and to be fresh. I do like the taste of myself, but the back door is not happening. Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

Well, you will need an ice breaker like, "Pardon me, but do you have any Grey Poupon?" And then you can ask, "By the way, do you know any hot provider that are into XYZ?" That should answer your question quickly. 😁 Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I used to love when a guy would pop a Hall's, or a mint in their mouth and then go downtown. Man, is the orgasm super intense. Almost makes me scream. Good times! Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

In one town, I was seeing clients while there was a big sting going down on the floor below me. Didn't know until later that day after a very busy, productive day. Was checking out of a room and as I was leaving, SWAT was going down the hall. Heard later it was domestic. Had an appt set up, the guy thought about canceling due to the hotel I was in...found out his wife was the manager there. He still came, snuck in, and we had a great time. One of my first sessions was with a group. We got permission to get in the pool after hours, where we all got in naked(I am sure the staff enjoyed the view), and was fooling around. After a bit, we went upstairs to our room, and continued the fun until we all passed out. Vegas, I had this one client see me and we tried out every piece of furniture, the tub, shower, you name it...we even did it against the window overlooking the strip. So many stories... xoxo, Samantha Sheppard

I was about 15 and went to a friend's house where I was introduced to "A Kiss Before Dying" with Matt Dillon's fine ass displayed at one point. That sex scene...I fantasized to that for a while until another fantasy found its way into my dirty mind. *fantasizing* xoxo, Samantha Sheppard