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I may be relatively new here, but it seems to me that the quickest way to get yourself blacklisted from ever enjoying another session like that is to write a review with such graphic detail. I get the feeling that none of the ladies I’ve seen would want that written for all to read...or am I seeing the wrong ladies?

Someone, please clue me in. Send a PM

I had the pleasure of meeting MissMadison yesterday. If she is any indication of the rest of these newly independent ladies, then we have been blessed. Smart, sexy, skilled in her craft and just a lot of fun to spend time with.

There are some providers who are “newbie friendly”. Just do your research and look for ones that have a number of positive reviews, ie: a reputable provider. Follow their rules, be a gentleman, act like you have a brain in your head and enjoy. And most importantly, be patient. I’m fairly new but have had a few great meetings with some wonderful ladies . good luck

Well said my friend! I had several amazing encounters from BP.

On behalf of my gender, I sincerely apologize. NEVER an excuse for that kind of behavior. I like to think that most of us are decent people, but it just takes one fool to screw it up.

Welcome. As a fellow “noob” all I can say is do your research, be polite, respectful, patient and follow her rules. Also, whether you communicate by phone, text or email, use complete sentences...try to sound somewhat educated...it goes a long way. I recently visited a young lady and we had some good laughs over some of the messages she receives. Have fun and be safe.

My first was a beautiful Aussie girl named Tiny Tori in Co Sorings. She was an absolute gem. I couldn’t have asked for a better introduction into this. It was a sad, sad day when she left town.

I have to agree with Nina. Have not had the pleasure of meeting Nina, but several years ago I met with another beautiful Aussie woman who was also in Co Springs. I would have been happy to listen to her talk for the entire hour.

I’m one of these new guys and I’m trying to be patient while I work on some references. I joined at the end of March, right before the s**t hit the fan and the fallout sucks from this end too. I’ve contacted a few well known ladies here, some of who used to advertise as newbie friendly, only to be told that without references they won’t see me. I get it and I’ve politely said “thanks, I’ll try again when I have some.” Have also received no response from some. Can’t blame them, I’m sure they see more than their share of crap every day. I am persistent, if nothing else so I will continue to work at it until I either succeed or reach the “meh, it’s not worth it” state. Constructive advice is appreciated.

Searched her number and found a bunch of reviews on another site. I’m new here so I’m not sure if I can name the site here or post a link. Latest ones were from Dec 2017. Most agree that she is gorgeous, but service leaves a bit to be desired. Mechanical and business like. Too bad. Maybe things have changed...who knows.

Following up for anyone who cares. Scheduled a visit with Violet a couple of weeks ago. Very sweet woman, a pleasure to spend time with. Tried to post a review, but it was rejected. She has a new profile here on tob, maybe I should have linked to her older one that has reviews from a few years ago. some gems hiding among the muck. Violet gets a thumbs up.

Asian Violet 720-282-6977 Colorado Body Rubs Newbie here seeking info on this lovely lady. It's BP so that throws up a flag, but I thought I'd ask if any of you fine gentlemen here have seen her or know anything about her. Found some reivews on here that might be her, but they are from several years ago. Thanks!

That’s sound advice. Never been one to take unnecessary risks and so far, exercising caution and letting the big head do the thinking has worked well.

That’s exactly the kind of advice and wisdom I’m looking for. I take it that’s a vote for investing in a service like p411. I don’t know a lot about it yet, but is the idea that they basically do a background check and give you a 👍 or👎 and providers are able to trust their process in making a decision to see a client? That makes a lot more sense that giving my personal information to everyone. Thank you, Laci!

Great thread. Thanks to all who have given advice. As a new member on the board as of three weeks ago, I have many of the same questions about navigating the murky waters of finding out about services and costs. It’s much easier when there is a personal website to go to, but when there isn’t, how do you best approach the subject? No problem being a gentleman to the fine ladies here, (my mama raised me right), I can compose a polite introduction message or speak intelligently on the phone, so I’ve been able to at least get a response from people I’ve contacted. But with the new state of things, what kind of information should I be willing to offer for verification? I know at some point I should look into p411, but I’m still in that dabbling phase, so I’m not 100% committed yet. Again, with the shake up, do I need to be “all in” or “all out”?

Hi everyone. I've been "lurking" for a while and finally joined three weeks ago. Sure picked an interesting time to jump in! Just when I thought I had figured it out, it's back to square one. I'll try to be smart and will gladly accept any input on how to navigate in this new world as a newbie.

Appreciate the info. I’m hoping to set something up with her next week.

Those are the reviews I found. Thanks for the help. Anyone actually seen her?

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