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"This sounds like an issue you have created and only you can change. Providers always hear “want this to be a regular thing” when the gentleman expects SO much. " I certainly agree it's my stuff. Didn't mean to imply it was up to someone else to fix me, but I did want to ask you what you mean by SO much. Do you mean going beyond the agreed time, or multiple contacts, to more emotional support. Do you find that some clients are needier or more demanding than others? I hadn't realized the "regular thing" was a red flag, and I'll be more careful in th future. Thank you and everyone else for your insight.

So here's the short version. My wife and I haven't had sex in 12 years. That's a long time. I saw a few providers for a couple of years but that was a while ago, too. In that time I've done the thing you do -- indulged in fantasy and masturbation. But as I'm sure you know, when you get used to that -- and when you spend a lot of time in fantasy -- it gets hard to enjoy sex in a more traditional sense. Maybe not enjoy -- it's difficult to get out your head and just enjoy the experience. But I'm getting to the point where I worry that I've broken myself, and I'd like to do what I can do to fix it. So I'm looking for a provider who can be patient, and willing to help me work through some of these issues. It would be a regular thing, and I imagine it would be frustrating from time to time, but I'm a decent enough guy who tries to be funny. If this has any interest to anyone, please PM me. Thanks