So I don't do hobbying as much as everyone else on this site and I don't have 20 "up to date" references on P411. But when a provider states "newbie friendly" on her profile but doesn't want to fulfill the appointment request because one of my references supposedly got "caught" by LE... she refuses too see me as well? How is that linked too me again? If LE wanted to chase me down and arrest me they would have done it by now. But on top of that she was stating that my other reference is a year old? So I'm assuming a year old reference is like 2-3 years old??
What's irritating is that when a provider doesn't want to come clean about it. Just come clean if you don't want to see a client because of their ethnicity. Don't beat around the bushes and say this and that. It saves half the trouble when there are plenty of other providers I could have contacted and not waste my time with. haha:D
