Hi everyone. Coming back to Denver after a long time away. I posted on TOB when it was just a babe...happy to be back.
Anyway, just my .02 on the sugarbaby thing vs an ASP.
In most cases ASP's are professionals. there are no emotional attachments and the fantasy remains where it should. I have had a few SD/sb arrangements. some were amazing, others, turned very ugly. I was extorted for quite a bit of money when I decided it was time to move on. So if you choose to go into the arena of SD/sb, go in with eyes wide open. With ASPs you are less likely to run into something like that for fear of exposing themselves. However an sb doesn't have that concern, it's all on you. While that sort of arrangement can be absolutely amazing like others have mentioned, there is a potential downside if you have a family etc.