WreckItRalph

I have had very good experiences on Secret Benefits - three long term NSA relationships with young women that were GFE, fun, friendly, dating-type relationships and were much, much cheaper than a provider if you look it on a per hour spent basis, plus, texting, emailing, talking, emotional support, friendship, if you are into that sort of thing. I've also had several 2-3 hour liaisons that were pretty much the same as time spent with an escort, but included a meal or drinks, lasted longer, seemed to be very, very low volume, and wow, one of them was a competitive body-builder/fitness model, which, well, if you're into that sort of thing (I definitely was!).

Data breach and privacy laws are extra-territorial. It doesn't matter where the company is located, it only matters where the data is derived. E.g. the GDPR of the EU applies to every person collecting or processing data of an EU citizen. Therefore, US and Canadian companies that process or collect data on EU persons must comply and are subject to the GDPR, including fines and penalties. In the U.S. data privacy and protection is a jumble of mostly state law. For example, California's COPPA and the upcoming (1-1-2020) California Consumer Privacy Act (similar to the GDPR) apply to any person/company that collects data from a California person. I assume a few Californians are P411 members. In Canada, data privacy and breach notification is covered by both federal and provincial laws, and includes mandatory data breach notifications. Colorado's Consumer Data Privacy Act also requires mandatory notification of a data breach, and applies to any company with data of a Colorado person, regardless of where in the world they are located. FYI P411 responded to my email promptly, and changed my email, password and verification ID. They asked for a copy of the scammer's email. They are being very responsive.

Forgot to mention - P411 is subject to the same data breach and privacy compliance and notification laws as every other business. It appears this data breach is at least three weeks old, but no word at all from P411, which is odd because they are very good at providing notice when your account is up for renewal. They probably (rightly) figure not many people want to publicly announce that P411 was breached? Asking for a friend.

I also got this email two days ago. Clearly P411 has been 'hacked.' The method of hacking is irrelevant - could be a provider is doing it, a provider sold the data, a provider got hacked, a P411 employee is doing it, a P411 employee sold the data, a P411 employee got hacked, or P411 got hacked directly. All irrelevant. The data is out there. I sent P411 a notice email, and changed my P411 account email. Beyond that, ignoring. So the new owners of P411 changed the service, increased the fees, and can't keep their data secure. FYI: § 18-3-207. Criminal extortion – aggravated extortion A person commits criminal extortion if: The person, without legal authority and with the intent to induce another person against that other person’s will to perform an act or to refrain from performing a lawful act, makes a substantial threat to confine or restrain, cause economic hardship or bodily injury to, or damage the property or reputation of, the threatened person or another person; and The person threatens to cause the results described in paragraph (a) of this subsection (1) by: Performing or causing an unlawful act to be performed; or Invoking action by a third party, including but not limited to, the state or any of its political subdivisions, whose interests are not substantially related to the interests pursued by the person making the threat. 1.5 A person commits criminal extortion if the person, with the intent to induce another person against that other person’s will to give the person money or another item of value, threatens to report to law enforcement officials the immigration status of the threatened person or another person. A person commits aggravated criminal extortion if, in addition to the acts described in subsection (1) of this section, the person threatens to cause the results described in paragraph (a) of subsection (1) of this section by means of chemical, biological, or harmful radioactive agents, weapons, or poison. For the purposes of this section, “substantial threat” means a threat that is reasonably likely to induce a belief that the threat will be carried out and is one that threatens that significant confinement, restraint, injury, or damage will occur. Criminal extortion, as described in subsections (1) and (1.5) of this section, is a class 4 felony. Aggravated criminal extortion, as described in subsection (2) of this section, is a class 3 felony.

Señor Burrito - 1st and Broadway next to the Mayan. Best hole-in-the wall. Pinche - Josephine and Colfax. Best street taco upscale fusion and tequila queso.

My former ATF retired, but kept a slight presence. Then she contacted me and said she was still going to see just a couple guys sometimes and she wanted to see me. Yay! We scheduled for the next week. Then she went silent and I never heard from her again. Kinda sad, but it's her life. Or worse, something could have happened like an accident or health problem, or maybe she won the lottery and I'm not her one true love. It would be nice to at least know she is okay, but not being able to know is part of the deal.

Lie. I do. I'm not really a professional water-slide tester; but it is a good conversation starter.

Wait - are you saying she doesn't love me and want to have my baby?

I have had a huge increase in spam to my TOB email account, which used to get absolutely none. The spam started immediately after the hackers published the Ashley Madison database. LOL! I signed up with AM a couple of years ago and it was immediately apparent that it was a silly scam, and since they charge you a fee to (not) delete your account, I left mine open and for all I know it is still there. Suddenly, 20 sex-spam emails a day on my unused email account.

Have you ever been on Ashley Madison? There are a few people upset about this, and about 30 million fake women very upset that their fake profile data is going to be leaked to their fake husbands, fake children, fake dogs and cats, fake neighbors and fake lovers. For a dollar you can send them a message to see if they got caught and are getting a fake divorce. But it costs another dollar to open their fake reply. Hacking Ashley Madison is like hacking a Sims game and pretending it's real.

Okay - I'll "bite." BurgerFi on Broadway, City Grille on Colfax at Sherman, and My Brother's Bar on Platte - get the JCB.

Thanks Leigh; that is great information - I just signed up.

Pretty risky behavior by your burned neighbor. If "the other guy" had sufficient financial means and desire he could sue your neighbor for invasion of privacy -Intrusion of solitude: physical or electronic intrusion into one's private quarters, and public disclosure of private facts: the dissemination of truthful private information which a reasonable person would find objectionable. Possibly also "false light" - If the communication is not technically false but is still misleading then a tort of false light might have occurred. Also, it sounds like he illegally hacked into emails of the variety of men who were corresponding with his wife, which can put him in criminal trouble. In many states, accessing and telling the world about another person?s personal information is an invasion of privacy that may make the hacker liable for money damages to the victim. Revenge of this type might feel good for a minute, but it can be very, very expensive in long run. It also will not sit well with the judge presiding over his divorce case, and will undoubtedly be used against him in that try for sole custody,

Bought TracPhone from 7-Eleven for cash. Buy a new days and minutes refill card at 7-Eleven for cash every 60 or 90 days ($19.99 for 90-days)(all cash/burner plans require this). Used my hobby email for the Tracfone sign up and provided not one shred of personal information anywhere in the entire process. The phone works fine for this very limited purpose and usage.

AM: There is a possibility we are Doppelgangers, right down to countries lived in, etc. However, on this point I must disagree. Mtn Bikers, with all that padding (shoulder pads, knee pads, wrist pads, wrap helmets), suspension, fat knobby tires, mud to land in, hills to roll down, etc., are really softies. And half of 'em don't even ride up the mountain before they ride down it! Now give me a 20 mph slide across concrete in a skin suit and road rash that leaves scars for life - that's tough! Also, cars. Also, TRUCKS. On topic - chicks who ride are a good pool of fuck buddies - agreed. But chicks who ride horses are the horniest of all - get a horse. Only costs about $30k a year in hay and vet bills; totally worth it.

I have been and so-far remain completely monogamous to my one provider, who I have seen a couple of blissful times now. However, I suspect she may be cheating on me with other guys; maybe I'm just being paranoid, but her advertisements are making me suspicious.

Interesting statistical and graphical analysis of selecting and dating a mate: http://youtu.be/04awr1-KiBs

US, Canada, New Zealand, Mexico, Belize, Virgin Islands, Germany, France, Spain, China, Russia, Belgium, Netherlands, Austria, Switzerland, England, Italy, Caymans, Turks & Caicos, Barbados, Portugal, Finland, Mongolia (yes, Mongolia), and Chris Martin shook my hand once, so Gwyneth Paltrow.

I say you're good for a few dates without providing any more details, but before it gets too serious, you should think about revealing the truth IF the other two are close friends, and especially if they are not married. I think the circumstances of his relationship with the other two may be the determining factor. Old college bro buddies - you better drop the facts sooner because they'll let him know one night after a few drinks. Married to his sister, he'll never say a word. If the other two are married or in serious relationships, they are probably more worried about you talking, and would never say anything. If not, ya never know what might come out over shots of tequila some night.

Bless all ya’all; even the trolls and troublemakers. I haven’t had sex in a long time. No, I don’t mean 6-months, I mean a long time – more than 10 years. Wife got sick, other stuff, sad story, yada yada. I didn’t mind it so much at first (thank you Internet), but the last few years it seemed possible I could end-up living another 50 years without it, and that probably shouldn’t happen to anyone who is not incarcerated, unable, or makes that choice. So I’ve been lurking here for about 2-years. I’ve read every how-to guide for beginners, every article, nearly every forum thread. I researched the girls and researched the reviewers. I followed all the suggestions to have the lowest risk experiences. It took me a couple of months to decide who I wanted to end my celibacy, and that was a tough choice. More than once I decided on a woman, but before I got the courage to make contact, she quit or moved on. Some women never responded; many require references. I finally scheduled a rendezvous, I had to cancel, scheduled again, she had to cancel. Scheduled again, and yesterday I spent time with a sweetheart. I didn’t get arrested. I didn’t get robbed or ripped off. Everything worked. My tongue is still a magical machine of pleasure power. I can still unhook a bra with one hand in seconds. I met a surprisingly beautiful, sweet, gentle, doe-eyed babe who I would immediately chase in real life; the type of girl who you see on the street and know you have to at least say hello to because you might never see her again. Because of what I learned here, I knew how to handle all the formalities discreetly like an old pro. There were plenty of funny and awkward moments (thanks to me), like when I accidentally used my own real name and stuttered to my “hobby name” and then cracked up. And the air conditioner wasn’t up to the task and we (me) started sweating like a cage-fighter – which was funny, gross, and nice at the same time, because it made it like wild back-seat sex with your first girlfriend on a country road in the summer. Today I have my mojo back. I post here rarely, and I don’t anticipate that will change. But in addition to its obvious role in the world, this place also matters; at least it made a very positive difference to me.

That is an excellent point, Boink36. But in this instance, she didn't actually say anything; she just convulsed for awhile and then proposed marriage, so I interpreted it as a positive outcome.

Thank you for all of your work.

Why doesn't this board have a "Like" button, like Facebook?

I've been having the identical experience as "aperfectstranger." Newbie = no responses, no acknowledgment of existence = no love.