As a provider I spend alot of time speaking with men, and getting acquainted with them to see if there is a match, and alot of the time it seems as a game to see how far they can push it. I just want men to be mindful that it takes alot out of us and that our time is precious, this isn't a game, tho it can be fun; and I wouldn't waste your time playing games, so please don't waste mine. I hope I don't sound like a whiny crybaby girl, its just truly frustrating. Any pointers??