Thanks everyone for taking the time to respond, and for the helpful suggestions. Much appreciated... For Luce: I can definitely see how my post came off sounding that way, but no, I wouldn't be using anyone for a stepping stone. I probably should have proof-read it before submitting, that wasn't the way I wanted it to come out. I was just hoping to narrow the scope of my search as to avoid wasting people's time, and to find an accommodating girl that I would legitimately wanna meet.. Thank you for the advice, as well- it's comforting to see that the ladies are willing to reach out to the nervous newbies such as myself and offer honest feedback
