MyraGold

Yeah I wish at least there was some kind of upgrade to the ad or site. Or even more featured spots. Or maybe being notified when someone shares their profile. But in reality we’re lucky to have this, in this day and age there’s not much left for safe tools. And of course people will complain if you raise your rate at all. There’s so many threads about it already.

Thanks for the info babe but they get no luck getting referrals because the guys who see their ads on these lackluster sites don’t have p411 or simply “don’t give reviews”. It’s such a struggle and I feel so bad for them.

My info is from friends who are providers who’ve been struggling to get on p411 and tob for years so it’s not misinformation. We talk about it every week. Maybe you should put yourself in less privileged providers’ shoes. Because you have no idea what they go through and the dangerous situations they get put in. They can’t get referrals from clients bc they cannot get p411 clients on the sites they can use. So it’s a vicious cycle and it hurts to see them go through it when I have the tools simply because I signed up before sesta/FOSTA. It’s not as simple as you think, and it affects them more than you know.

I have a friend out there and she’s wondering the same thing. And she hasn’t had any luck signing up for the p411 because they don’t allow new providers to sign up.

I try to keep my texts kinda vague if I’m late responding. But I also specify to let me know contact instructions in my contact form. If they don’t... that’s on them, right? I tried. Unfortunately not everyone uses the contact form.

Once I had a guy say “wow you live in the hood” and it made me so confused bc I definitely don’t... Some people are very sheltered I suppose. They are so fickle, it’s a little excessive.

Hey y’all just wanted to share that I’ve been receiving hostile and threatening texts from someone tonight and if you’re a provider(especially if you post in Boulder) and wanna know this number please let me know, PM me.

They’re not linked to any profile so not sure what mods could do. They can dm me as well if needed.

I also think p411 is invaluable for screening!! The okays and profile info are extremely helpful!

Y’all are like private investigators I swear lol

Love Dita Von Teese 😍 Seeing these photos is awesome. These women were boss AF.

Would it ease potential clients minds if they knew their info was encrypted? Burner, protonmail, signal are encrypted apps. If you’re using an encrypted form of communication to contact, then both ends are encrypted as long as your provider utilizes them as well. If you aren’t utilizing these tools already, I would highly suggest that you do! I hear FaceTime and iMessage are encrypted(but owned by apple) as well but I wouldn’t trust it at the end of the day, also whatsapp(Facebook). When I verify a client, I can burn all their info immediately, once I know they are safe to see. I can understand if you don’t want your rw info saved on a providers phone, but maybe you can ask if it’s stored on an encrypted app and deleted when you leave your appointment.

I hate this approach. We already have to do so much to protect ourselves. And most of the time we have given an ID to make a profile(here/p411/rubratings/Eros/massage republic- to name just a few.) Which I doubt is required on your end to lurk the ads.

The other day I got an auto-text from a provider I’d reached out to in September for a reference. Sometimes it’s technical issues ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I’d love to see guys in their twenties/thirties because it just looks like we’re hanging out normally(if an outsider were to see us together.) Sometimes they think they’ll get a discount bc they’re younger or will not comply with screening. Or they want to sext for free. Orrr they chicken out and don’t come see you. But it’s not always the case, it’s a nice surprise when they are professional like guys who’ve been doing this for a while.

I personally wouldn’t respond to that. I have my ID checked, pay for ads, a website and reputation. Sometimes I think this is a guys way of not wanting to be screened himself. For example: ”Hey can I see you?” ”Sure, can I see your refs/reviews/verified profile?” ”Don’t have any” ”Okay then I’ll need some rw info” ”Well let me see your rw info” Sorry but that’s not how this works. You sound more paranoid than me and that’s really saying something. If the providers reviews seem sketchy then you can easily move on. Maybe in time they’ll have more reviews and you’ll finally feel at ease. But imo it’s never worth the risk if you don’t feel safe.

Never knew this! Thank you Megan 🙏

Also been wondering this! Sometimes people tell me they wrote a review but I never see them. Never sure if they didn’t get around to it!

I’ve worked under some people, and regretted it. These people cared nothing for my safety and would punish me if I refused to see someone. Luckily those times were short-lived. But now unfortunately I can’t keep up with inquiries. I really hate it and it’s rare that someone follows instructions to make it easier on me. So I really understand why some providers go that route. But I believe a book-person/team and a pimp are totally different. But it depends on whom is working for whom. Also, I really get annoyed when boyfriends start “helping”/living off of providers. I’ve seen it happen all around me and it really disgusts me. A common theme seems to be they say rude remarks to shame the provider for what they do, yet have no problem taking their money. Some even quit their jobs and start living off them. And really they do nothing but smother them 24/7(also how is that helping since you have no alone/free time?), control how much their partner works and police their bodies, yet complain that they aren’t safe without them. Sorry but your wook ass is not a weapon.

Anyone else read it like “I’m not like the other providers... I’m worse”?

I think providers should charge whatever they think is necessary. What does anyone else’s rate have to do with you? They aren’t you. They don’t pay your bills. Maybe they can work more or have to work less. I think what’s priceless is having a safe and amazing time with someone with a great reputation. I’ve had ppl straight up laugh at my rate then harass me about it, but I just move on to the next inquiry. I wouldn’t want to see a person like that so they kinda filter themselves out. And treating this industry as consumable vs entertainment is a bit dehumanizing. We don’t all have one rate and we don’t all do the same things. We weren’t made in a factory, we don’t clock in, we don’t have benefits- so yeah I think we should define what our time is worth. If a provider’s rate is lower than what they feel comfortable with, how consensual is that? That’s gross.

See? I knew it 🖤

I think she looks fun but maybe y’all just can’t party and appreciate a pretty babe.

That is exactly how I’ve been feeling lately. Screening is hard to pass these days. Also a big F U to whoever let their buddy use their account. They should be banned.

Some people are just judgy. Or it might have nothing to do with you. I see people of all shapes and sizes with no judgement, sometimes though I do wish I knew ahead of time so I can adjust my massage table. Being petite, it can be very hard for me to reach over a full grown mans body. Which will make me work a little harder, the movements aren’t as fluid, and the last thing I want is for my guest to feel like I’m doing a chore. But I’ve also had plenty of people ask me beforehand if I like bigger guys, that may be a way to weed out people you won’t have fun with. Body shame shouldn’t be acceptable on either side of this hobby. It happens though and it’s disgusting.