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HOLY karmic IRONY Batman. Now it's the OP whose going to be in need of a second chance if he ever wants to see his ATF again. Or to meet the intelligent and sensitive hottie behind story #3 Grace is amazing. Good luck all

I get this request so often that I have I saved my answer as a quick reply so I don't have to type the same thing every day " Usually I would say no, but I really want to lose some weight and I've heard AIDS is a great way to do that"

Hunter Van Dyke Though we are very different people who don't see eye-to-eye on much I must say that Hunter came through for me in a way that literally saved my life. Because of a kindness that she offered me I am now doing soooo much better and my life is completely different than it was just a month ago. It was unexpected but not at all unappreciated

I handle things the way I do not because I'm not intelligent enough to find another way; but because I enjoy it!! Hunter remember when I emailed you a copy of my response to that ridiculous appointment request I received (with a list of demands like a VH1 diva had written it.)? We were both cracking up at my responses. I didn't take the time to write all that because I can't figure out another way. I did it because It was FUNNY. It provided me comic relief.. and if I remember correctly it provided you with some too. How I deal with the creeps that seem to be unavoidable when posting ads on BP amuses me.... Turn something that's really annoying into something that sort of funny it's like prank calling the person who's been prank calling you. To continue to insinuate that this somehow diminishes me as a provider or a professional is laughable I am not talking about clients I'm talking about Backpage trolls. I'm pretty sure my Karma's just fine

I'm not talking about clients who may have rubbed me the wrong way or didn't show up for the appointment or just didn't get along with for whatever reason I'm talking about men who text me consistently to harrass, insult and degrade me.( or send me photos that I express several times I did not wish to receive) The "gentleman" with the dick pics never even inquired about an appointment he just sends me pictures of him jacking off whenever he feels like it. My thoughts on that were ...time to turn the tables and rather than be upset at the situation I actually was amused thinking about how I hopefully got the better of him in the end... The other guy I mean lots of stuff happens in this business and I have never ever felt more degraded by a stranger's verbal abuse. telling me to lower my rates bitch was one of SEVERAL insulting messages this asshat sent. I didn't think I needed to go into all the details and quite frankly I'm not going to however believe me when I say he got exactly what he deserved. Period. It's not a surprise that some on the board want to play holier-than-thou and act as if I'm some sort of demon seed who's M.O. is disrespecting clients and playing games. But once again these were not ever nor would they ever be clients there men who tried their damnedest to upset and offend me because I'm just an internet whore. I will not regret ANY victory I can claim for the internet whores

I spend so much time alone and have zero social life SO I take these opportunities to think of creative ways to get these gentlemen back for their complete shit Behavior I had a gentleman that continuously sent me unsolicited dick pics even though I've never met him. (We ladies know this happens all the time we could fill libraries with unsolicited dick pics) however after I asked him to stop he sent me even more After ruining my appetite right after I had a delicious dinner delivered to my door I took his pics and his phone number and placed an ad on Craigslist men seeking men casual encounters section "men like my pics? please send me yours!! now HE will know how it feels to get unwanted dick pics for the next several weeks! Another example I had an incredibly rude young man offer me anywhere between $30 and $50 for a session several times in a month I declined first politley. Then adamantly. He said and I quote "Lower your prices BITCH" Guys like this don't expect me to keep their text messages but I always do. so the next time he messaged me I pretended I didn't know we'd spoken before; agreed to his session I told him he had to bring $50 cash and he had to show up in the next hour. I then directed him to the hotel next door that I share a parking lot with and when he showed up I gave him a random room number & watched him walk into the hotel . And very quickly watched him exit the hotel ! Iwas laughing so freaking hard at the expression on his face the anger and the frustration and I told him via TEXT I BET YOU WON'T FORGET AGAIM THAT IM THE BITCH WHO WONT LOWER HER PRICES Yes I know I could just block these guys because I'm sure somebody is going to feel the need to point that out to me sometimes blocking isn't as satisfying as the above-mentioned activities

I fell for this scam but to be fair another provider contacted me and recommended the guy who took her photos and did her website Long story short I hated the photos I didn't even use one and he didn't take any of my notes on the website let alone wait to meet me before he wrote a completely generic about me section I ended up doing my own photos and my own website Sometimes I think it was actually him writing me from her email address because she was so insistent how great he was and I know now that he accesses her email because he controls her web page

The title of the thread is don't be that guy! Everyone wrote something crummy that that guy does I did no different

If he removes the condom himself .. for cim for example..or removes it when I get up to grab the towel sometimes for whatever reason they get to it before I do and if I'm not keeping my eyes on it I've had the case of the really leave it in my bed without letting me knowI'm sorry I think that's rude very rude [Snip} I can assure you you don't need to apologize to my clients on my behalf they're very happy thank you very much I I should have known my answer would be picked apart. It's like a sport around here

That leaves the USED condom on my bed This just infuriates me.... Are you kidding me?

I I apologize! I misunderstood...it just SEEMED like you were irritated . I guess beccuz you wrote he rendered a tool that wenproviders use for safety null and void by mentioning it here in the forums .. but you're right that doesn't mean you were irritated at all. Obviously I'm mistaken How does a clients knowing about Mr Number make it null & void & and useless? A clients knowledge of it's existence doesn't change a providers ability to use it as she always had. And if he blocked his number he wouldn't be able to get through that's part of the apps function! Sure he can change his number or get a new one to break away from his old reports but I bet he'll change his behavior not to amass new ones..and isn't THAT the point?

I just watched that again the other day and I swear to God I had my hands covering my eyes like I was watching a horror film when it got to that point I keep thinking no Amy!!! don't say it!!! don't do it like I'm watching a slasher flick😂 that cracks me up every time though

So so then you must be pretty irritated with the person who started this post on Mr. number seeing as how it was started long before nookieMonster ever mentioned it publicly How does a clients knowing about Mr Number make it null & void & and useless? A clients knowledge of it's existence doesn't change a providers ability to use it as she always had. And if he blocked his number he wouldn't be able to get through that's part of the apps function! Sure he can change his number or get a new one to break away from his old reports but I bet he'll change his behavior not to amass new ones..and isn't THAT the point?

How does a clients knowing about Mr Number make it null & void & and useless? A clients knowledge of it's existence doesn't change a providers ability to use it as she always had. And if he blocked his number he wouldn't be able to get through that's part of the apps function! Sure he can change his number or get a new one to break away from his old reports but I bet he'll change his behavior not to amass new ones..and isn't THAT the point?

Men are like floor tile / lay them right the first time and you can walk all over them for years😉

Every New Year's Eve the cops tell us that they're going to be having drinking and driving checkpoints throughout the city it's not like they hide them and try to sneak them They let us know that they're going to be even using more tools than usual to catch duis hoping that that fear will create enough of a deterrent from drinking and driving I don't think Mr number should be a secret from clients or gentleman that contact providers hopefully it should be a deterrent to remind them to be respectful no matter who they're talking to because it's possible their conversation and treatment of providers like being flaky or cheap will be shared along with their phone number Throughout the provider community. This app isn't going to prevent a psychopath from being a psychopath so it's not protecting us from those types it's just more insurance that guys will mind their p's and q's if they know we're minding them too I've shown many gentlemen their reports on mr. number to let them know what their reputation is if they're known as a flake and I want extra reassurance, I show them that in the reports it helps back up my claims when I'm speaking to them "I'm not the only one who thinks this" I've also shown many men the reports to prove that they're lying when they say this is there first time ever! contacting a girl...And that's why they don't have any provider references Obviously it's not a reliable source of crucial and important info but it can provide us insight into whether somebody is a flake - whether or not somebody's actually in the hobby- if a provider has indeed met with him recently... It's just information maybe not great information maybe not a lot but as most community pooled unverified sources of information you have to eat the fish and spit out the bones To dictate to anyone who they can and cannot share this app with is utterly ridiculous

Yeah I hate small talk too

So. I post on Backpage to boost in biz and I've been posting there ALOT more since p411 changed their profile visibility guidelines (but that's another topic) I screen though and Backpage clients HATE that apparently so my appointment requests dwindle rapidly - more often than not I'm meeting Great clients, Some real gentleman who are very new to the hobby or very illinformed or BOTH. Talking to these guys I realize they have no idea TOB exists and NO REASON TO THINK THEIR IN THE WRONG PLACE ANYWAY.. : From a distance and to a newbie one look at the women for men dating section in Denver and there's no doubt about it - their in the right place! These guys assume the bait and switch bitches, the rip offs and upsellers are just an unavoidable part of an unregulated black market business. They don't see a need to look for a new online resource, and they may click on sites like Escortbabylon but they return even more convinced Backpage is IT. Many don't even know about review sites! They know as much as I know when I just started last April. On March 29th I thought escorting was just done in VIP suites in Las Vegas hotels or Los Angeles street corners..Somehow being even that ignorant I knew was Backpage was where to find Escort work. The news coverage has subliminally made the two synonymous, Im sure I'm not in the minority as far as that goes...and Google searches confirm their long marriage to one another. If I only needed to find an escort now and then I'd think Backpage was the alpha and Omega as well...but I dug deeper quickly believing there "had to be a better pool of clients somewhere ...please oh please" I'm always so happy to tell these guys I've met on BP that lots and lots of quality and affordable Denver escorts don't even post there! Ever. And that they haven't even really seen what Denver has to offer even if they've been going to Backpage for months now. Great clients are looking into the hobby or taking the plunge for the first time every single day ladies. And their doing it on Backpage One of my favorite all-time clients I met recently on Backpage and I'm so glad I got him when he was a newbie and now he's right here, safe Among Us. I only realized reading these boards that among the community here there was such a stigma about posting to Backpage.. so this experience is through completely new eyes on the situation and If we try to remove the stigma a little and try to look at it as a mission trip to BP. to bring a potentially great client over for us before BP turns him into a bitter prick TO us we could steal all of the business that's up in the air right now for one thing from Backpage but we can also have a lot of great new clients I think. In my experience they are definitely there lost for sure but there

I will say I did read a post last night wherin a provider got repeatedly attacked in post after post by forum regulars and moderators as well! Shocking as This website exists solely because of the services provided buy all of the ladies here. I couldn't help but notice that a remark made to a mod in defense of the provider was not tolerated nearly as well. Um.. If it weren't for providers no matter how you may feel about them individually there wouldn't be a board to moderate. It's not the other way around. Although reading the forums here some days I think many are oblivious to that fact or hell bent on changing it. I stand by my initial post 100% even so. Gentleman clients can flourish and explore here happily their whole hobby. And quite frankly that's all that we providers are here or anywhere for anyway. Drama , excessive oversite, judgemental attitudes and mob mentality aside. We're just here to do our jobs..serve our Clients. And Grow our Careers. And EVERYONE else is here because we do that as well as we do Xoxox

Clearly you already know what One must do to insure one does not find oneself a victim of Backpage. Kudos to you My post is SPECIFICALLY ABOUT gentleman who do not know there ARE steps they can take (let alone what they are) to verify and research providers" and they certainly cannot recite them like a school boy looking for a shiny red apple from a his hottie of a teacher either IM SUPER stoked you know how to cross reference reviews across different sites and compare notes in the forums .. But again these guys don't even know there are OTHER sites. That was kinda the whole point.

I in no way I'm serious about saving Souls..I definitely meant it tongue in cheek... I hope you know that LOL

I miss your smart mouth

Hello Lovely Ladies and Lustful...Lads, I have a newbie question... Is there a noticable spike or drop in this business around the Christmas holiday? There's logic that supports both statements and I'm trying to plan for the holiday myself...Should I plan on taking the week off and find something festive to do to occupy my time? Or is it usually a good time to make yourself available? Thanks ahead of time guys for any info in the last couple Christmas' activity. Xoxoxo 😙

So...I've been her almost 6 months now and while Im still Loving the comfort of aninimity while working far away from home I've got to say I spend A LOT of time I mean HEAPS AND HEAPS of time alone. Usually this is just fine . But sometimes, occasionally, once in a while I'd like to share a meal or a movie or a show or a freaking conversation with someone not about ...my job. Where are some places in Denver that one could meet...Open minded..cool ass people? I don't drink but if it must be a bar one wih shit to do other than drink..? See!! my social skills are dwindling..I used to be very articularticulate. 😞