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Ok, as stated in my other two threads, I am definitely new to all this. Though I visited this site many times I could find no answers as to how do I go about seeing a reputable lady, who isn't going to arrest me, kill me, give me wonderful gifts that appear in the nether regions 7-21 days later and all the other fears that creep in your head. Now you want advice on how to play the game after your in don't ask me, there are plenty of people who will attest to the fact that I don't know all those answers but getting through the door is difficult. Now I read the rules so I don't think I am violating any rules here, if I am I do apologize. Everyone here will tell you that getting a p411 account is your best route and it probably is, if you are willing to give up a few too many details. I have read a few threads here and it seems a lot of the men here have been doing this for awhile. Not sure if things were different finding providers in the ice ages but it seems scarier now for both the newbie and the lady (JK re:ice age comment) I know I have way too much to lose to give anyone my personal work information. Now odds are good that nothing will ever come of it if you used a reputable agency such as p411 or Datecheck, but still it's a gamble that many wont want to make. So then how do you get in the game? Being that this activity is not necessarily legal I personally would never do anything like this, so I'm going to tell you a story about Bob, (not his real name). Bob was horny. Bob was drunk. Bob was out of lotion. So I decided, er, I mean Bob decided to troll the Internet. Bob called a lovely young lady on Backpage, she had to be legit because they would never put false advertising on the Internet. Bob was robbed. Bob had to go find lotion. Ok this thread is getting too long. Here's what Bob did to finally move up the ranks: 1) looked at the reviews in this site and picked a dozen ladies who not only had above average to fantastic reviews, they had multiple reviews and their reviewers had posted multiple reviews on a number of ladies. Now this in no way makes it ok. But from what I read, er, Bob read in the forums up to that point, that was a good sign. 2)Next, call or text (Bob chose to text) everyone on the list and see if they were available. You may have to go back the drawing board and get more names. But in his first list Bob was rejected many, many times because he had no references, no p411 account and would not disclose his place of business. Finally, however he found a provider who had multiple reviews who would see him if he brought a check stub. The door was finally open. Bob was still scared, but I heard that walk to her door was excelerating. It was good, it was not a sting, she was like the reviews said, and there were no gifts left in his pants. Bob used that reference to get a date with a second lady and, though still a novice he was able to parlay those two references to land him a date with a stunning Goddess. Now with three names under his belt, sorta speak he was able to get that p411 account without using any personal information. Oh don't forget to use a fake name, new email account and a burner phone preferably. After all, they aren't giving you their real info, why should you?! I do apologize about the length of this thread, and the men on this site are very helpful and some are even hilarious. But had I seem something like this when I started maybe I could have been called up to the majors sooner. Er, I mean Bob.

Thanks for the feedback all, but I think the perspective from the women is more what I needed to hear. But I think what I really should do is just ask my ATF!

Thanks gr8owl. Yeah I started rethinking my post hence the feedback. But it's not here for the providers or those who have been at it long enough to be able to pick up the phone and make a date with no real issues. It's for the new people who really want to go out and do this but don't know how and maybe even to afraid to ask questions. If you look whose on line you see there are usually a few dozen members and a couple hundred guest. They probably don't even want to ask questions. So I just did a step by step on my process to try to help others. I tried to interject a little humor in it though. Guess it didn't work:)

DISCLAIMER!! just because it worked for Bob does not mean it will work for you. So if you get arrested, beat up or an STD by following the steps, Not advice, that he took, sorry? Bob holds no responsibilty for consequences.

Believe me when I say I appreciate the advice I am receiving. I ask questions in order to achieve the full enjoyment of this past time. Some of them may seem dumb but to someone new to all this im just learning. I will use all feedback, suggestions and advice to ensure I don't foolishly go down the wrong path. Please also take my posts with a grain a salt, I like to inject humor in everything I do. I mean really, did you not think that I did not expect this type of response when I said ... Think with my heart. And Av8r, how cool would that be if you went to King Soopers and there was a "provider isle:)"

The heart comment was a joke based on the feedback I was getting from the other thread. Trust me, I am not a stalker, I am not delusional nor do I think it meant more to her other than ensuring I had a good time. I only ask that question because a did visit a FBSM provider a while back and we did text a couple times, nothing overtly crazy, maybe a few here and there. Sure I will make mistakes as a dabble in this. I only started really in February. So I'm just getting all the ins and outs in order to best enjoy he experience.

I prefer text, or emails over calling. I only had to talk to one over te phone. For some reason I just don't like doing that. Of course the same goes for everything. I would much prefer talk to fiends or family via text. Easier to multi task.

I prefer text, or emails over calling. I only had to talk to one over te phone. For some reason I just don't like doing that. Of course the same goes for everything. I would much prefer talk to fiends or family via text. Easier to multi task.

Perhaps "Variety or exclusivity" better characterizes the choice that you're contemplating....dunno. Ok, good point. That's a better word choice. Hell, I think I eventually will go variety, I'm just impressed that my very first thred post ever has received so much feedback with lot's of sound advice. 1) I will difinetely see her again. 2)Depending how long I choose to entertain this fun, I probably will seek vatiety 3)When/if I ever get into another long term or committed relationship I will stop this fun and quite addicting habit and give my SO my loyalty (this time right word) 4) A lot of people have commented that I'm way over thinking this after one visit, let it be clear, though mini-me has a lot of input as to where it chooses to play, I am quite clear as to what is really happening. I understand that this is a transaction, for lack of a better word, she is very dedicated and quite good in her hospitality profession and it is her job and objective to make me want for no one else. She would surley win employee of the month. But I am all clear on that. I know the minute the door closes reality sets in again. As I mentioned, I am quite new to this whole thing, but I think I can handle it. And if not, it will be a fun and wild ride. 5) Only give her my PIN number of my debit card if she asks nice (JK) 6) Go to Urban Dictionary and see what ATF actually stands for Really appreciating these forums, feedback and tips.!!

I 100% understand your POV av8r, and I have thought about that, but when you know you like roast beef, why take a chance on sushi. I know I will definitely see her again, we well see where my preferences lie afterwards. Who knows, on top of everything she has to offer, maybe I'm just a bit too lazy with having to set up an appointment, get my references in line, or direct them to my p411 account. Also, I met a beauty that I know is true to her pictures, and not going to put me in handcuffs ( well at least if I don't ask her to). I'm also hoping the second visit will be better than the first, though that would be a difficult task. I know there are things I'll do differently to enhance the experience, not sure what she can do to improve it:) ill keep you all posted. Who knows, maybe a little roast beef an sushi at the same time may also be a treat!

Thanks, yes it is very easy to forget what is actually happening. I had to keep reminding myself. It's fun to live in the fantasy an the what if, but I am keeping it straight. It's hard though thinking with te right head. I am very new at this. Only been with a couple before her and they were really good at what they do. But I had no problem getting back to reality after them. This time is it taking some effort.

Thanks for your perspective. I don't know what I would do, should I remain active in this long term, but I can't stop thinking of this lady! I know it's all fantasy, but I can't stop thinking if this lady! I am not expecting the same results as in "Pretty Woman," but damn that would be awesome! I want to see her today! But I also wan to wait a bit longer to ensure I have the drive, stamina and desire to enjoy the entire date!

Freebies to a couple clients who will review:) If you don't charge that kind be illegal. Have him buy you dinner first though! If you need a date ... just saying Good LucK!