gr8owl

If you are not comfortable seeing someone - for ANY reason including they have no references - why would you refer him to someone else? Obviously he attempted to use your name to lend some credibility - "oh, Olivia sent me so I'm OK." I'm guessing there are enough guys that play that lame game without your help. I assume you meant well but best to at most just point him to ad board where he can find newbie friendly ladies on his own. Just my opinion.

For the most part, yes. Can think of a very few that began there (Pueblo) but usually quickly moved north. As Mr. Funk notes, reviewed ladies sometimes visit. The good news for you is it is a short drive to springs, where there are many wonderful ladies and a variety at that - talking age, body type etc. Check reviews and/or search archive posts here. Good luck.

Assuming you speak of BP, congratulations grasshopper, you have taken the step to wisdom.

The smell of bacon while seeing ASP. YIKES!!!

red highlights - HUGE red flags!!! OK, you're an idiot! Kinda kidding, cause anyone that has suffered thru some of my posts knows i been there done that with varying results - happy long term marriage to royally screwed by con artist, and a couple points in between. Warning this will be TLDR for some. I asked how wide spread the willful con artist is in a prior post and got no real direct answer. My answer based upon experience and back channel responses - sadly it is VERY common. But to be clear, there ARE a number of ladies that would not even consider conning you - other than good acting job in session, but hey who's hurt there!! As 2Big notes (yes, I am agreeing with 2Big - he has his points quite often) the "I like you wanna be more than a provider" con allows access to MUCH more cash out of your pocket. On the other hand, love can and is found in some pretty crazy places, and it is possible if unlikely. So the kicker is how to tell the difference. I offer the following primer: Run like hell vs. maybe (yeah, only maybe) only calls when she wants money vs. calls just to talk calls just to talk day before calls for money vs. no, actually just to talk "i'll pay you back on ...." but never does vs. hot damn! actually does!! always money involved - help pay loan, make loan, blah blah vs. makes regular extended time for you no money exchanged can't/won't introduce you to friends and family vs. actually does - and without threats and nagging! always a dire need - somebody gonna get hurt lose everything blah blah vs. a real need proven with actual paper request for money help is a 911 emergency - gotta have now or Vinny gonna break legs vs. hey take your time and lets figure out over next couple months Never can make time for you (except to get money) vs. regularly finds time for, gasp, a date or something like it, extended time where could have seen couple clients. would like to quit but just can't (unless of course you can come up with really big sum) vs. quitting for long term relationship definitely on table - lets seriously talk about never answers phone when you call vs. frequently picks up and talks freely to you even with others in background. total one way street - you do for her, give to her vs. wow, she actually does things for you - no, not just free sex. cooks meals, remembers birthday, plans a cool date, helps your ass with an unexpected bill, etc. When you plan a date etc. something always comes up last minute so can't vs. she cancels shit to be with you gets pissed if you say you can't (as opposed to won't) help with money vs. understands can't means can't and has nothing to do with feelings, etc. shit she says always seems a bit far fetched, but can never prove one way or the other vs. always provable what she tells you The list goes on, but that's a brief first primer. Safest option if you are prone falling for a woman easily is ..... well, shit .... if you fall easily stay out of this hobby and you are probably doomed in "real" life too. There are treasures on the ocean floor, but sharks also abound - don't ever forget it. Apologies to the short attention span crowd - back to regular programming.

OK, now i guess i don't know wtf anyone is talking about - or even who they are! Based on my understanding of the story i stand by my comments, but obviously there is a whole behind the scenes game going on here i am not party to (and don't care to be!)

I think it is way cool. That said, note to Reuters and others - since when do mermaids have knees?????

I value discretion highly and have to. The last thing I am going to do is see a lady that has no concern or apparent care as to who she sees and no apparent screening process. If she doesn't care about her safety (legally and physically) she damn sure doesn't care about mine. That being said, no this list is way too much (what no credit report??). Bottom line, if you pick carefully and it is clear you are giving info to a legit lady you should be willing to provide SOME info. If you are unwilling to give any information then take the unknown BP crap shoot and I wish you luck .... you will probably need it or a good lawyer sooner or later.

Couple random thoughts. I prefer to find my Christmas present wrapped under the tree. The mystery and excitement of exactly what i will find when I unwrap it. Yeah, I know a pussy, but they come in all colors shapes sizes etc. Rather have the pleasure of the surprise. Secondly, makes the legal argument of "he was just payin' for my time" a touch harder if your pussy is in the ad .... just sayin'. Oh, and lastly i love pics of attractive pussies, yes I do. But there are sites for that. Lastly, when looking for an escort I assume they all have pussies (if you screen carefully at least!!) but I am usually looking for a lot more than just that. So in direct answer to question .... for lots of reasons I'm probably a bit less likely to call based upon pussy in ad. That's just me.

Actually, no not obvious at all. In fact I have no clue wtf you are talking about. The boss tried to hit on her, she deflected his advances, wife found out and demanded he fire her to prove his loyalty to wife. She did nothing wrong and got fired because boss is a sleaze and wife was jealous. Perhaps not illegal, but how pray tell did she "deserve" to lose her job and be waiting tables now? Enlighten me please.

Only if it says "or its free" !!! :D:D

oh, and another name and number in SanDiego http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=530217 and another in Dallas http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:Mkr1aDzwNtAJ:fortworth.fwweekly.com/FemaleEscorts/be-autiful-blonde-play-m-ate-21/22622639+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us Think i"m seeing a pattern here.

Well if you believe that she was in Cincinnati under different name and with different number just yesterday AND is legit, all I can say is anything is possible but I kind of doubt it. At a minimum the photos appear borrowed. http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:__eL31IDe34J:cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/i-to-p-l-e-a-s-e-23/11927821+&cd=20&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us

Let me see, BP .... says she's 40 .... "no one over 55" might be to guarantee she is the elder in the transaction.

I certainly never said "hookers" don't act, but that is NOT the main thing you pay them for - tip them for maybe. And good grief urfan, what have i ever done to you for you to call me a lawyer? That's low man, really low.

You mean women in general and "hookers" in particular don't honestly prefer creaky old farts to strappin' young studs? Holy shit, am I ever disillusioned now.

Hmmm. Lemme see, I have attended public and family events with both girl friends and "hookers" over the years and though I can remember being embarrassed multiple times by girl friends over the years I honestly cannot recall being embarrassed even once by a "hooker" in those situations - at least not until after they achieved SO or spouse status!!! So I would say know her first, choose carefully and should be no problem. (and i only use the term "hooker" cause the post i'm responding to did - don't much care for it, fwiw)

Two separate questions. Difference between porn and prostitution: in porn a third party pays two other parties to "act" out various activities which may include simulated or actual sex acts. The two parties having sex are not being paid for the sex they are being paid to act, and the only party paying is not receiving or participating in the sex. The "actors" are paid to act and consent to sex. And this is only legal recently to varying degrees in various locations - see People vs. Larry Flynt and many other cases and the whole "local standards of decency" thing. prostitution: one person provides sexual favors or participates in sex acts with another specifically and solely because the other party pays them to do so. The question you seem to really be asking, why the hell isn't prostitution legal?? : because apparently a majority of people still think it is bad and/or includes victims, etc. and should be illegal. If and when a large enough majority decides it should be legal it will be. Kinda like a certain substance that is burned for pleasure, gay marriage, etc. Pretty simple.

Guess I could have been clearer ...... the latter. I was still laughing too hard at the "redhead" with stolen blonde pics.

If i could put an eye out on the hip bone .... too skinny. If it requires a snorkel for DATY ...... too fat. Most stops in between ok from time to time as long as a smile is attached. But ideally tall and slender gets the motor running fastest.

If you have that rare talent for making it entertaining and/or enlightening, hell yes! If it were the self delusional drivel found in most blogs by men and women alike irrespective of subject matter .... well too many of those flooding the net already. So hard to say since i have no knowledge of your writing skills, but if you really feel driven to do so then maybe, just maybe you fit in the first category and more power to you and i wish you luck and success.

And vampires!!

http://coloradosprings.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-mature-blonde-arriving-friday-28th-2-9pm-37/12533427 "Please email your sign on (p411) so I can verify you" Can i send my credit card number and bank accounts too? plus stolen pics, no phone, and .... oh hell it has it all! LE or garden variety scammer? Can anyone produce a better one? You can always tell when i'm bored, huh?

What disturbed me was the claim of being p411 but I could not find any trace of her there, and especially requesting you blindly send her your p411 profile info via e-mail rather than thru p411 - something warned against by p411 REPEATEDLY. Then the large number of stolen photos - including most if not all on her Eccie showcase profile. maybe someone who is a member there can clarify what constitutes "verified" at Eccie - clearly not that the photos are real. Further checking indicates that she is also "Swedish Courtney, aka Debbie Dial" with three old reviews here. Maybe she is legit and if so I extend my apologies to her, but I am still not ok with the fake photos and asking guys to send p411 id etc. direct rather than thru p411. Melissa's advice above was short and right on. The ad set off alarms especially in view of some recent posts.