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  1. Posted

    On 11/24/2017 at 11:23 PM, Gregorysymph said:

    But when it does- I love it, and I consider it way out of line to ask for extra session time. When the lady is in your car it feels like an extension of GFE, and sometimes you can get the wife experience- getting scolded for exceeding the speed limit, going the wrong way.

    OMG :D

    You know, sometimes that's actually needed to remind me of the "deficit" the little man suffered during the later marriage years.

    Still, to the OP, my two cents on the whole thing...  you probably shouldn't have offered to pick her up and re-scheduled since she couldn't figure it out.  Even so, 35 min drive...  that's over 2 hours additional time with her?  I would assume that would not have been in awkward silence.  You really had no reason to ask for more session time.

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    Trust is a big factor here.  All I'll say is if you're not on P411 or DateCheck or some other verification service, then her request is not out of line to be able to confirm your identity and ultimately (through other due-diligence methods) determine if you're legit and safe to see, or a time-waster.  I'm sure you've done your research on her up-front before contacting her and believe her to be legit and not going to waste your time, so your request to know her real name and see her ID is IMHO out of line.  Her response is not unexpected.

    Don't be a dick.

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    6 hours ago, Melissa Sterling said:

    Ok so I can't just ask my dentist this question.

    I have my very first cavity ever annnd I have to get a root canal it's so bad. My questions for those with experience in this matter is, how much pain should I expect and more importantly, how long before I can start giving French again? 

    I would be really surprised that you need a root canal due to a cavity.  But if you've been in a lot of pain before seeing a dentist, then that's not unusual.. the pain is because bacteria has gotten into the pulp cavity and to the nerve inside the tooth.

    I highly highly recommend you have a root-canal specialist do the root canal.  Have your dentist drill and do a pulpectomy (remove the inflamed pulp cavity), then put a temporary filling, then go to a specialist (oral surgeon) who does only root canals.  They have better equipment and experience for the job and will get _all_ of the nerve out of the canals all the way down to the bone.  The difference in pain you'll feel afterwords will be less than a day versus many days.  And if the dentist doesn't get all the nerve (happened to a couple friends), you'll be in pain a lot longer and still risk an abscess, which means you'll lose the tooth completely a little later.  One friend lost the tooth anyway and now has an implant (more pain and $$$).  The oral surgeon is a bit more expensive, but the risk of losing the tooth completely is much lower.

    You'll still need a crown to get the tooth back to being a what it was, but you can start performing French the next day if all goes well.

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  6. Posted

    On 6/5/2017 at 5:39 PM, Laci French said:

    Price for the La Quinta today is 175...that's not cheap. 

    FWIW, Hotwire and Priceline can get you half that most times, and even better if you want to roll the dice along with the clues provided on betterbidding.com.  Of course YMMV and it does lock in the days.

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    38 minutes ago, Lucy Kitten said:

    I have only ever used to pay for things because with all the credit card drama a lot of adult sites are only taking bitcoin. To be totally honest I think it's too complicated for your average provider, I'm pretty smart and find it to be confusing at times. My big concern is it's varying value, I don't think that any provider is going to be dealing with enough money that it would be a huge deal but it's definitely one of those things that adds to the confusion. I was also reading a while back on Reason.com I think about one of the bitcoin wallets being under investigation of sorts. The gist was that they were looking for those that transferred large amounts without claiming the funds. That isn't really a problem for providers but from what I understand those in charge of the investigation wanted user lists that could potentially have some serious impact.

    I don't know how I really feel about bitcoin. I am hesitant about it not because of what it is but how it's viewed by those that control the money.

     

    All valid points.  I don't find it any harder to use than Walmart pay .. both are based on scanning QR codes in all the latest wallets so it's simple, but understanding what a Bitcoin "wallet" is (really just a long acct number stored in an App protected with a password) and how the transactions are processed is a hurdle to get over.  But it's not much different than a credit card transaction in complexity.  And then how to convert it to (and from) USD with your bank account via ACH (electronic check) through an exchange is an additional layer that can make it hard to use for everyday stuff.  (coinbase.com is a legit exchange FWIW.)

    The price fluctuations lately have been straight up.  Exchange rate right now is $2818 / bitcoin.

    I would *love* to use it for the hobby because of it's cash-like anonymous nature, but I know I'm in a minority (if not the only one here).  As a provider perhaps you'd love it because it can't be charged back (reversed) like Credit Cards, i.e., it's like cash, once the bitcoin transaction is confirmed and in your account, it's yours, no charge-backs.  That's nice for those deposits you're talking about since I would not expect you'd be getting those in cash.  Anyway...  my $0.02.

    PS:  I just renewed P411 with Bitcoin.

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  10. Posted

    On 6/5/2017 at 8:13 PM, Lucy Kitten said:

    Venmo is worth considering. PayPal unfortunately is not provider friendly. Do you know anything about Gift Rocket?

    You providers need to take Bitcoin !  It's easy... and insane how much it has appreciated in value this year.

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  12. Posted · Edited by cuddlybear99
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    18 hours ago, a_happycamper_12 said:

    How long do you wait, when making an appointment via P411 do you wait before she doesn't reply, to make an appointment with someone else?is 4 hours long enough?

    I have had no response on P411 for a week then all of a sudden have a positive response the day before the appt I requested, so there's something with the site where there doesn't seem to be an "accept" button to let us know it's acceptable (or at least tentative).  Or maybe hitting the button costs money... I don't know. [Edit... Aha, reading other posts, yup, delayed messages would cause this..]

    IMHO, 4 hrs is definitely not long enough.  I'd give it at least 24 hrs for contact.  And if you're trying to book an appt within 24hrs, you better be directly calling or texting or emailing, whatever is her preferred method.

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    I've gotten "caught", really just eye-balled by another motorist, while getting a BJ in a parked car.  Weird mix of thoughts went through my head, but in the end I just shot back a glance hopefully saying "don't you wish this was you?".  And he moved along... :D

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  15. Posted

    11 hours ago, Emily Jordan said:

    Hi All! 

         My usual incall location is no longer an option... while I seek out the perfect office/ studio situation, I am wondering... should I offer outcalls only ( I had been doing that for about a year before I had an incall) or should I get a hotel room? Which is more appealing for you wonderful men, and what makes most sense as a provider? I am a pretty low volume and NC-17 rated provider if you know what I mean 😉... Any insight and advice is appreciated! 

    😘

    ~Emily 

    Outcall is limiting for me since, like a few other gents here, there is a wife at my place.  So I'd have to rent a room somewhere to see you.  That changes the $$$ picture enough, in general, to make me pass on outcalls.  Except in rare, exceptional, cases, and there has only been one of those (and it also included a plane flight and a rental car...)

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    On 4/21/2017 at 11:24 AM, Admiral C said:

    In my view, it's a good thing. OK..guy might not want to hear about negatives in the lady's life...might consider it a "bring down". HOWEVER.....consider how a woman is wired differently than a man. When a man talks about his problems, he gets all caught up in it and it brings him down. When a woman talks them out she is getting rid of the bad feeling they cause by talking. You are going to get a much happier, hornier, focused, NOT problem distracted provider after that talk.  Granted, you COULD hold to the ideal that she should "be totally professional and not say a negative word"....that she should just brass out the session . You could, BUT MOST guys want their playmate as genuinely engaged as possible.  IN short...ladies...feel free to dump on me like I am the last therapist on earth.....THEN jump on me like I am the last man on earth.

    This is SO true...  most women need an emotional connection with a man -- a significant level of trust -- to be comfortable enough to really let herself go in the bedroom and have that fantastic orgasm.  Talking about real life is one of those ways to get there.  I know that even providers need conversation to gain at least a little level of that same comfort.

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  21. Posted

    On 4/4/2017 at 3:51 PM, Audrey Astor said:

    The wine, the wine!

    I'm not a huge wine connoisseur, so  I never know what to keep on hand. What are some of your favorite wines? Or.. what are your favorite drinks in general (during a meeting with your lady or male friend)?

     

    Anything from Ravenswood in red.  Blackstone Merlot.  Stags Leap Pinot Noir.  I have many other suggestions for wine.

    Woodford Reserve is always a winner.

    Single-malt scotch.... Bowmore 15.  Coal Ila 10 or 12.  Bunnahabhain 12.  Yamazaki 18 or 12 are fabulous, but good luck finding it.

    Jade absinthe if you want to get really fancy.

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