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none. They know my name and I know theirs....of my regulars. Mutual employment stats too. Family members too. But more cautious with new people.

as usual luce wins the debate with fact based evidence and circumstances. my hats off to you girl. back to the op's original post: i say keep doing what you need or want (on all levels). there are plenty of men who will offer their credentials without your asking. you wont find them here but the clientele represented on this board represents a tiny minority of whats out there.

im late! hope to meet you someday soon. happy birthday!

dont need them. dont want them. sustaining just fine.

here are my reasons not to be reviewed which you don't list: don't need one, don't want one, and do just fine without one.

ok if i steal your pics? too lazy to take any of my own.

lucy's posts never disappoint me. i prefer outcall so i dont have to clean house. most of my clients provide outcall. if I'm meeting someone for the first time, it's a hotel if he prefers incall. in my years only one new person wasnt comfortable with a hotel so I asked him to call someone else.

my best to you sweet lady. will you put me on the list of people you can count on if you need something.

happened just last week.

^and this^ quoting Melissa,,,,formatting is not working when I first started, I received many requests for oc from first timers. I had and have no reviews. I only post on bp. no issues. I guess the only consistent practice that I can point to is that we both had a phone conversation to get to know each other a little better. most of my clients have SO's so they are risking a lot to see me and the experiences that we have together are that much more valuable. I know outcalls and giving personal information are highly discouraged here but I just wanted to weigh in from someone else with personal experience of having no problems. I once thought I was one of the lucky ones but lots of us have clients who can claim no problems. definitely do what's right for you.

from my home to yours.

where are all the "write a review" posts? I usually offer my end of the trade first bc I have nothing to lose. Sorry this happened to you,

bingo

AMACHE concentration camp is being restored. i recommend visiting it in May during the local pilgrimmage.

i had to laugh when i read this bc the first client i ever had and i have evolved to this kind of arrangement bc of a shift in job and home locations on both our parts.[snip]

for the record i am a respectable woman and not interested in being "saved" from someone elses judgement about what i do with my time and body. sucks though that you encountered a thief and worse that you didnt mind.

Use your feminine wiles and "ask" to talk so you can get a feel for the guy if you think it necessary. "Requiring" me do do something to spend my money comes across as rather abrasive and arrogant. How would a provider respond if the OP "required" her to speak to him before scheduling? One has to remember my time is just as important as yours.

i have taken them w my camera and have shared them with the client in the pic after i edited identifying stuff out. i think i have let one do a video but it was dark. on the one occasion when he shot one of my giving oral, i trusted him with them. it made him very happy and i decided it was worth it in the case they would go public for some reason in the future. (if he lost his phone, hacking, death). decided i didnt give a shit if they got out bc it wasnt that much risk to me in my particular situation. i prob wouldnt with someone i didnt know very well though. as far as fee? i would weigh what risk it is to you and then go from there.

back when i started and came to the conclusion that i like older men, a really young looking client walked thru the door. [snip}. i had him show me his ID and it turned out he was 31. asking for his ID was a mood killer so i decided to stick to high mileage guys even though the sex was off the charts.

i require it and dont book if i dont like him on the phone.

the shocking thing to me are the low percentages. i would estimate them to be much higher.

use only bp.

this thread had me thinking so i crunched the numbers. ATH number of visits would be shared among about 5 clients who are weekly visitors . they are up to over 200 visits each. ahhhhh....the memories.

this.^ i ignore but don't blacklist opening statements that are anything but a person introducing himself. blacklisting wouldn't cross my mind which is only left to serious infractions to me that would warrant a warning to others. i am comfortable answering "does one hour of your time mean that i am entitled to stay the entire hour?" to which i emphatically answer, "of course!"

good point.....or an unmentionable playing on the internet.