Cherry

Because it's a free country. I'm sorry she didn't contribute to your killing dogs thread or your glee at spotting bare breasts and profanity on another cable series. I can see where Crazy Horse is coming from in a sense. Some of us go way back to when this discussion board was very different. Face it Crazy Horse, those days are gone and at least we can look back at them and smile. The small community atmosphere TOB used to have is gone. There used to be a fairly small group of us that could meet once a week for drinks and have a great time. It was a fun way to meet posters here outside the board. The morons caught on and that gave way to huge parties where the press was invited, and girls dressed and acted inappropriately. Unwanted attention was invited and no more happy hours because adults don't know how to behave. Oh well. Girls used to feel free to say hello here without getting their ass handed to them but that too has ended. Yes it has always been a place for hobbiests to discuss girls, but the response was never this hostile and ugly. I find this new ugliness creepy (if you hate asps so much why frequent a board catered around their profession?) If you are an asp who has to attack everything another posts why not go to the gym, pick up a book or find out why you are so hostile? People wonder why few girls comes here to post (even for entertainment) it's because it has become a kindergarten. One overrun by bullies. It doesn't need help from the owners or more moderation, it has just fallen prey to grown men and women who behave like children. If Gina were to turn the discussion board into a paying site or do away with it altogether I would not blame her in the slightest. The fact that she has babysat this long without losing her mind is a miracle. I for one though think the evolution of EB and P411 have been excellent. I remember when there was nothing but a little photo gallery of asps run by TO. As some smart asses will say, I will now take my ball and go home. One can only expect that when a discussion board grows as big as TOB has, that sometimes it's going to be for the worst.

That is your opinion. I know many people do consider being an asp to be very different than being a dentist. They are not even in the same ballpark.

This thread was not mean to be offensive - nor was I seeking a "stock" answer from all hobbiests (I hate that term BTW). I do realize they are all different. Perhaps I should have phrased it "Would being an asp make one a better sexual partner in a marriage." I began wondering about this because over the years, many gents I have met in these circles have stated that they wished their spouses were more like asps sexually. At any rate, the poll was presented just to gather opinions and more for entertainment anyway. Sorry it seems to have rubbed some folks the wrong way. I'll let you get back to your 411's.

Do you think a gal's experience as an asp would help/hurt her future position as a spouse (if she is single at the time of being an asp and then monogamous and no longer an asp once married)? I love to get inside the hobbiest's mind and have wondered about this for some time.

Well stated

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss.

Yes indeed, but who it is connected to is the most important.

It's never bothered me (unless I have somewhere to be and washing afterwards is not possible). I don't really recall anyone showing any interest in doing it though.

I love a challenge

can you educate someone who's getting them on what to expect with their oral sex life? Does it affect oral relations? If an asp you were interested in seeing suddenly got them and was upfront about it would it change your mind about seeing her? Yes I am looking into getting them and just remember the stigma associated with them from school. They've come a long way though (colors, styles) and I am just curious as to what I should expect from men.

I have no desire to get into a pissing match with you, but you might want to follow your own advice considering you just referred to me as an idiot because I have a different viewpoint than you regarding someone and their character. You know nothing about me nor my education. I never attacked you personally. Funny how those who are always preaching class and respect for one another on a free message board - show so little.

For those gents who hobbied pre-internet and would like to share - I was curious. How did you find asps? What were your experiences like?

I had a REALLY bad day at work and the cashier at Burger King REALLY pissed me off. You have your work cut out for you today. Me: "Oh Great!"

I agree. After all, why would you want to see someone who doesn't want to see you anyway?