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I’ve never stood anyone up but I once wrote a review about a provider ghosting me and she sent me a message after it posted that I would be on this blacklist.

I agree. I assume there’s some reason for the whispering... I texted her and she seemed pleasant enough but too far for an immediate appointment. I’d definitely appreciate knowing if there are red flags I’m not seeing.

Would anyone mind PM’ing me the info as well? I’ve also been curious.

It's been a while since I was here. I felt like I was being priced out some time ago and switched to the typical online hookups. Maybe that's the problem, in general. I'm sorry if it's wrong or offensive to say that.

I’ll still add that her video makes me less concerned about her being the girl in the photos but multiple self-reviews say enough for me, regardless.

The self-reviews flags weren’t there when I made my comment about her site. Too bad...just when you want to see things with optimism, the seesaw goes the other way. Oh well.

She has a website on her profile now with a video. Her video offers some strong evidence in her favor.

I can see identity-theft being another potential charge.

...and her P411 account now seems to be working again.

I'm curious how others handle the topic of figuring location where it comes to seeing a provider. I usually prefer lunch visits when I have a bit of downtime from work (allowing me a longer lunch) or after-work on the rare occasion that my workload is such that I can leave a bit early. That means I like to see providers who are somewhere in the vicinity of me. Is this rare behavior? Over the years, I've noticed that maybe half of the providers advertising in Denver don't actually list a "sub-location" like "DTC", "Highlands", etc. I used to just assume this meant they are downtown but I'd eventually (years ago now) contact some of these and I often do find that (luckily for me) they are in my area, after all. Of course, sometimes they're not. Once in a while, the girl I'm calling or messaging thinks I'm asking an overly "big brother" question and seemingly puts me into the creep or LE category (I typically ask "What part of town are you in?") for even bringing it up. Other times, that question just doesn't get answered. Am I asking what can be seen as an invasive question? It seems like a waste of time to go through the whole "let's make an appointment" process and then back out when she finally tells me her general location and it's something I can't realistically fit into my schedule. I wish "Denver" were broken up into major areas in the listings section...

I’m interested to hear the outcome. Her listing says to provide a full name and references in the initial text or it will be ignored. Maybe it’s just me, but I wouldn’t feel comfortable throwing references around in an initial text to someone new and with no reviews.

Sorry, I have to take it back. That id no longer links to the other person.

I was researching her earlier. She never replied to my text, though. In any case, the broken URL for her P411 link does contain what looks like a user id and if you search that user id, you will find a different Denver-area provider that could be the same but with a different hair color.

That’s pretty similar to how I ask. I realized when I posted the topic that some assumptions might be made that perhaps I ask the question like a bit of an ass-hat. Don’t get me wrong, you’re not coming across as having made that assumption. Nonetheless, I wouldn’t blame anyone for thinking that because...well, if we’re honest, I’m sure a lot of guys out there have communication deficiencies. In all fairness, the “shunning” I referred to in my original post has been extremely rare and I suspect it might stem from a lot of misunderstanding on the other end. I’m really not sure I could’ve done much to clarify my intentions better. Also, in those rare cases, it has never been with a local or well-established provider but they almost always list their location anyway.

Personally, I read the bad reviews. I actually start with those if I'm considering a provider. Being hot isn't good enough. There are lots of hot women with good reviews and the "so-so" or bad experiences I've had with hot providers don't change the outcome just because they're hot. I put more weight behind a review that sounds sensible. Sometimes, as Just Another Guy mentioned, some guys are just expecting something ridiculous. Also, reviews by men who have written a large number of reviews (especially over a longer period of time) are more meaningful to me than some "No" written by a guy with 3 reviews to his name.

I’ve been working in tech for over 20 years. You get used to those predictions of things never changing not panning out. Online sales would never fly because it’s too hard to make returns. CD’s will always be around because people want to own their music. Nobody will ever need more than a 500 MHz computer and 56k is fast enough. Remember when texting was no way to make an appointment with a provider? Now it’s preferred.

This topic actually has led me to try these out over the last few days. Be careful of the 3-day trials if you do this and look the screens over for little pre-checked boxes opting you in for additional costly services. So I looked reviews, articles on AskMen, etc. I tried Ashley Madison, FriendFinder-X, Zoosk and MySecretAffairs. My conclusion is that real women are so inundated with messages that you’d have a better chance at the club where 9/10 of those guys would be too scared to approach her. That doesn’t mean you won’t be flirted with and receive other great responses from all-American girls who, for some reason, speak English similarly to my Indian co-workers. They’ll be very aggressive indeed. Many of them will have out-of-state profiles but just so happen to be in your little ass suburb that night and will meet you if you buy some special ID online that surely they aren’t associated with.

Cash is dying. Yes there are ATM’s but clearly paying with plastic has beaten cash and now electronic payments are making their move. I still only pay providers with cash, but I can see the writing on the wall.

I think he’s referring to the recent review posted.

I texted her and she seemed friendly and said she had a friend with a P411 account that I could communicate with and who would vouch for her. Ultimately, I never went any further. My gut just told me that the risk wasn’t worth moving forward. Looks like I made the right call.

I probably saw the same provider getting dressed to head out for an outcall when I arrived as well. The very articulate and well-spoken (via text anyway) person I made the arrangements with didn’t seem to match up with the person I saw. Maybe it was the roommate.

I made a visit yesterday and will write a review.

This matches my expectations entirely. The upsells I’m understanding of are the +BJ or +FS variety.

I certainly don’t disagree with Hunter. I’m “fine” with up front upsells if I know what I’m getting and it’s all reasonable but it’s not like I wouldn’t prefer a classier lady like Hunter.

It seems to be the norm for FBSM where up-front donations are low. When I’ve run across the scenario elsewhere, it’s never come from more reputable providers.