Mya Midnight

I wholeheartedly agree! The pleasure received on both ends is radically amplified when there's a degree of chemistry. I've found the more one focuses on an orgasm, the less...orgasmic it is. When the experience is centered around mutual enjoyment and engagement, climax comes naturally and emphatically

Guys, gals, does the term "twitter" make you think of the song I'm Like a Bird by Nelly Furtado? Does "tumblr" remind you of the nick name you gave your best friend in high school when she drank one too many Mikes Hard Lemonades? I know I fall under the generational category of Millennial, but I have a hard time following these technological trends. Crowd sourcing the question, do you utilize these resources? Are they fun, informative, a hip new way to post naked pics of yourself on the interweb and more? Just signed myself up for an instagram and twitter account and wondering if the TOB masses also enjoy these new fangled features?

Spice, sad to see you go. Your posts were witty and thoughtful! Many a heart button pressed when you posted. Not to make light of the serious underlying issues regarding this thread but, if anyone needs a go to response for trolls, enjoy my favorite. This must be the "insight" my dear friend Riggo was referring to

This sounds like some mafia sh*t! Truly disheartening, we have to deal with enough stigma from the rest of the world.

I know this is a question just for the boys, but, I can't help myself. I think you should see whomever you want whenever you want, but the reality of the situation is, we all have lives and schedules and on top of that, shit happens. Sometimes, your car breaks down, sometimes a blizzard hits and you can't get to your rendezvous. Sure, see plan B, but if you find that person that you "REALLY" want to see, don't give up. Trust your gut, in my humble opinion, its generally worth it.

Thanks for the insider tip, really good to know!! Yea that "please hold" bit feels kind of like an advertisement/name drop as well...

If you don't mind me asking, what are your qualms with google voice? Curious if its a security problem... thanks babe!

Speaking of euphemisms, one of my all time favorite songs that I first heard off the salacious compilation The Copulation Blues. Enjoy

She is such a boss, swoon.

Thank you Spice, such an important point. Safety and solidarity y'all! I also think its, ehem, interesting that a provider might expect her client to be monogamous with her considering most of us are... polyamorous

Not a great day for vegetarian lesbians eh?

Yes please! This is a tad off topic but SWOP Denver does have a bad date list, NC/NS doesn't apply to this particular forum but I think it would be great if we had a place to share that kind of information. Listserv ladies? You know where to find me...

Instagram isn't broken, we've just "broken the internet" as they say. I might not know how to balance a champagne flute on my caboose (Kim Kardashian reference if y'all missed that) but I'm breaking the internet with the quality, not quantity, of my one instagram follower...

I love how the next generation is going to be getting all nostalgic about smart phones and self driving cars...

First of all I am so sorry that happened to you! Not much is safe anymore since the (western) world is being revamped in a way that makes it nearly possible for us to live without technology. A friend of mine was hacked and it is terrifyingly easy. The event definitely urged me to up my Internet privacy game.

I hear you there. Anyone remember livejournal? Another huge problem with social media a the lack of empathy this mode of interaction perpetuates. This things people say when they can't be seen are atrocious. Also, I long for the days when you were hanging out with a few friends and only those friends. Everyone wasn't texting other people and collectively trying to figure out a hash tag for the event. Sigh.

Officially intrigued...

Gotta love when these anti internet conversations happen on the internet...

Thank you for acknowledging this point. In an attempt to keep this post light hearted, I didn't mention that one reason I am so averse to technology is the surveillance and marketing element. More than once, I've been having a conversation with friends and an advertisemtnt pertaining to the exact content of the conversation will pop up between songs on the pandora station we're listening to. Am I a wingnut wearing a tin foil hat who thinks that we are all being monitored or is that actually the case? Anyway, brb, gotta go take a selfie in my sexy new tin foil hat...

The Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP) is hosting a social, clothing swap, and self care day on March 2nd from 6-9! Thats right, its a SWOP Swap! SWOP SWAP Bring those heels you can't stand to look at anymore and trade them for a dashing new dress (or sweats, or whatever we happen to have), come enjoy some free light fare, treat yourself to a FREE 30 minute massage by yours truly (yes, I am a CMT), this is a workers only event, sorry gents "This event is intended to a be warm, friendly and inclusive event where we can provide solidarity for one another, so please be prepared to leave any whorearchy at the door. Any racism, classism, transphobia, homophobia, lateral whorephobia, sexual advances/ harrassment or any other grossness will not be tolerated at this event. SWOP Denver is an anti-oppression group, and we do our best to create safe spaces for all sex workers. WE ARE NOT A RESCUE ORGANIZATION. " Hope to see you lovelies there!

Oh darling, folks of all genders and all fashion preferences welcome.... as long as you're in the club

I will definitely be in touch when there is another! Hope to see you at the next one!

Haha yes! View from my incall...

I was reading a passage from one of my favorite books, Women Who Run With the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes this morning and came across this wildly interesting etymological exploration (yes to be totally candid, I am a nerd): "Dirt: Middle English, drit, probably from Icelandic -...filth; generally soil, dust, etc. and obscenity of any kind, especially language. Dirty word: an obscene word, also currently used for something that has become socially or politically unpopular or suspect, often through unmerited criticism and denigration or from being out of line with current trends. Obscene: from old Hebrew, Ob, meaning wizard, sorceress" (Estes, 363) Interesting how the individuals involved in our vocation, or rather, sexually autonomous women in general, are often labeled "dirty" and "obscene." Interesting how this desire, as natural as soil, and as powerful as a sorcery, is "politically unpopular or suspect." Even more curious is when one does a search for synonyms of sorceress (who me?), words like hag and hex appear. "The mischief and humor of the obscene Goddess can cause a vital form of medicine to spread throughout the endocrine and neurological systems of the body..." (Estes, 364) So when we talk dirty to each other, no matter how obscene, lets remind ourselves we are in fact casting a fiercely powerful sex magic spell. When we acknowledge and own our desires, we are unearthing a piece of ourselves, like finding a fossil in a dry riverbed. And yea, sex is a lot of fun too...