So I'm a super newbie to hobbying. I spend hours in my guard shack at work. I work overnight scrolling through TOB. And while I've been in contact with many many woman on TOB I have yet to actually meet with one. Part I've me thinks I'm to Young and the ladies don't like that. I don't know what it is. I've even had appointments where I thought this was a for sure go. Only to be stood up. Any tips to help this newbie?