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  1. I'll be in Vegas this week. Any local talent with endowments I can visit? Please PM me. Long or puffy nips are welcomed too Thanks Mr. Bean
  2. Deposits Deposits Deposits!!!

    Obviously, someone cares enough to insist on getting paid a deposit. Just sayin.
  3. Deposits Deposits Deposits!!!

    Why Ryann? Seems like you're describing a day in the life most hobbyists. I can relate to "getting dolled up and driving to a location that was requested only to get there and nobody answers the phone or the address is bogus" I especially like the part where "You dont know who set up the appointment and don’t know if that’s where we should be and not knowing what the circumstances are, all we know is that we’re shaded with no recourse" Now you know how most of us feel. lol
  4. Deposits

    Is paying deposits via Venmo and Cashapp prior to a visit a legit thing now? Or is it a scam? A few providers has requested deposits. I won't do it. Should I?
  5. Deposits

    I guess maybe if I knew the provider previously, I would. But there have been so many horror stories about the deposit thing. Maybe one positive experience for every 20 negative ones. There is no downside for the provider, Ive noticed. But many for the hobbyists. Apart from just straight up getting your money robbed from you. There is also the risk of LE sting operations using the deposit as corroborating evidence against you in court. To me its just not worth the risk ladies. I hope you understand. Sorry. There are too many beautiful options out there with much less risk before taking that leap. The hobby is getting weirder and weirder. First, the no AA thing and now this. I dont get it.
  6. BP-no AA in the ads

    Like I said in my original comment. I am merely repeating what was told to me. Once again " Most No AA ads, has nothing to do with safety or racism" It's money hustle. It has to do with making quick cash, as quietly as possible. Why is everyone so stuck on the racism Bull? It's a mind fuck. She clearly said "It's not what everybody thinks" And you know what? I believe her. Get off the limited racist thinking for a bit.
  7. BP-no AA in the ads

    ??? That's not what I'm saying at all. Actually on the contrary. What I'm saying is The rip off crews look for easy targets. It seems like they have found that white guys and guys over a certain age are less likely to make a scene when they unknowingly pay for rushed, lousy service or at times no service at all. However, the African American guys are more likely to make trouble or drama when they feel like they are not getting their money's worth. Hence "No AA" ads. Simple. It's a hustle. Seems like African Americans just want more "bang" for their buck. No pun intended. Rip off crews are there solely to make as much money as quickly as possible. Customer service is not even a consideration. That's why it's always best to stick with reviewed ladies.
  8. BP-no AA in the ads

    That's exactly why I don't post here. Too many ex-spirts Hey guys, how I got it? that's how I'm stating it. You could be in denial all you want. I'm just trying to shed some light. I got it from an insider. FYI- Notice I said "almost dominated". I'm can't speak in absolutes. Therefore, quite possibly they aren't all like that. But quite a few. Buyer Beware.
  9. BP-no AA in the ads

    I hardly post on this forum anymore for various reasons, I've adopted a more voyeuristic standpoint. But I feel like i do have something to contribute and share on this topic. I recently had the opportunity to speak with a provider who often posted "No AA" in her ads. She is an Ebony provider by the way. She explained to me why "No AA" in the ads. To quote her correctly "It's not for the reasons that you think" She said that it had nothing to do with safety or racism. It's purely about money. 1.) Backpage and craigslist is now almost dominated by "Criminal Ripoff Crews" out to make money. They are very dangerous people. Have you noticed how most of the local talent have vanished from backpage? 2.) She advised me to never pay for an hour or multiple hours, you will never get the time you pay for. The visit is purposely set up for quick in and out. Quick money, lousy service or sometimes no service at all. It does'nt matter how much time you pay for, they are instructed to rush you in and out in 30 minutes or preferably less. Pimps banging on the door. Pretending to be hotel security or undercover cops. That's the problem with African Americans, they pay for an hour, they expect an hour. She said that "they like to take their time" and get very upset when they feel like they are not getting their money's worth. Many times they would make a scene, attracting unwanted attention from legitimate hotel guests. Some have actually tipped off the hotel front desk or LE as an act of revenge. Some have actually gotten violent. They found out that trying to ripoff brothers ain't no joke. She said white boys are different, because they are easy. When they get ripped off, they just leave and don't make a scene. They don't want any trouble and are often too afraid that their wives, or families might find out. They're easy targets she said. Some ads will say No AA under 40. That just means that some crews feel older AA men wont make a scene after getting ripped off either and just leave quietly. Because like she said "who are they going to tell?" So there I hope that helps. Moral of the story? When now when you see "NO AA" ads, don't get upset. That's code for "You about to get ripped off" stay clear no matter what race you are.
  10. big clit and/or long labia providers please PM me if you have this or if anyone knows someone who does. Thanks.
  11. Can anyone tell me if this website is legit? Or is it run by LE to discourage unsuspecting hobbyist. maybe its just a gag. What do you think. every number i punch in comes up as a bust. Go Figure.
  12. Backpage...

    Thanks Kari, you know, sometimes you just have to read between the lips. Huh, I mean the lines.
  13. Backpage...

    And the more reputable sites will beeeeee? TOB included of course. Please do tell Kari?
  14. Backpage...

    Wait a minute. I speak Clit. let me try. I think he's asking how come most of the local talent has vanished from Backpage and replaced by new bloods with outta town phone numbers? Did I get it right? Did I?
  15. Deep Throat

    No Shit!
  16. Why is it so wrong to ask big clit providers to PM me? Some people get bent out of shape (no pun intended) by that question. Some respond and are happy that they did. Which one are you gonna be? why is the forum so sensitive (pardon the puns)about this subject? We should celebrate the clitoral orgasm. Shouldn't we? Why be such prudes The hobby isn't just for the customer's enjoyment. Or is it? Hmmmm.
  17. I love the orgasmic larger than normal clitoris, don't you? Really Macho?
  18. I love the orgasmic larger than normal clitoris, don't you?

    Ok Mr Macho. I'll take that comment as a shot across my bow. And I will respond. However, first I think that most of us hobbyist might appreciate it, if providers would treat the penis more like a clitoris. As opposed to tugging and pulling or yanking at it. Or like they say "Jerking it off". Maybe try stroking and massaging. Now that being said, Mr. Macho if your statement is supposed to insinuate, that there may be some repressed homosexual urges or tendencies somehow hidden in my statement. Then all I can say is you must be ignorant enough to think that your statement is astute or maybe even an insult. Actually penises and clitorises are very similar in nature. At the same I ponder on your user name Macho and wonder also, if you might be trying to over compensate for a deficiency in certain areas.
  19. When is it ok to just walk away?

    While I understand that the ladies work very hard and their profession is not an easy one to be in. I beg to ask when is it ok to turn around and walk out the door. Let me explain please. When I make a first visit appointment, it's based on pictures and perceived looks. However, I never know for sure what to expect until I actually walk in the room. There's been times when pictures appear to be taken 10 years prior (or so it may seem) or the provider has packed on quite a few pounds since the picture (Im not into BBW) or the provider has a bad attitude and dont seem into it. There's also been times when I just did not feel safe or the pictures were flat out fake. When is it ok to just say thanks but no thanks. Turn around and walk away? Is there a protocol? Should I explain why, should I tip for cancelling the appointment? Or just run like hell? Isnt it the providers job to provide good customer service or is it the responsibility of only the customer to act appropriately. Ladies please put your two cents in. An inquiring mind needs to know. Im a decent man who is never rude to the ladies because I understand how difficult your job could be. But Jeez! Help me out here.
  20. When is it ok to just walk away?

    That's all really good advice guys. Thanks a lot.
  21. I recently contacted a provider who offered Body Rubs. Nuru and prostate. I told her that I was not into the nuru or prostate, but just wanted a 60 min- 90minute FBSM. Her reply, What does FBSM mean. I'm sorry but that kinda freaks me out. Is that common? or should I stay away?
  22. What do you do if a body rub provider asks what does FBSM mean?

    I know right? Thats like taking your car to a mechanic and he ask you, whats a piston? Wouldn't that kinda freak you out? Weird. I think I'll pass.
  23. Respectfully seeking well endowed ASP.

    Don't judge me ok? It's just my thing. I love an orgasmic provider with a larger than normal clit who loves DATY. Who doesn't right? PM me please. have references, got skills, will travel. A good clit is hard to find these days. You feel me?(No pun intended)
  24. 411 on The Knowledge Effect

    Anyone seen this provider? I've seen the ad many times and tried to make an appointment with no luck. Whats the deal?
  25. Respectfully seeking.

    Seriously looking for something like this. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Please PM me. Thanks