I have this problem as well. I get it from my Biking Hobby. I bike 15 to 20 miles a day and do 100 mile races on the weekends during the summer. I just let the ladies know up front. I've only had a problem with one of the providers in all the time I've done this. They seem to enjoy the fact I'm in shape and energetic. I break it up with DATY to give them a break and make sure they are enjoying it as well.