The Little Things

[Savoir Faire]

What are some of the little things that a CLIENT/PROVIDER can or could do to make a session turn out a lot better? 

[average1]

Being genuine...good communication, especially about likes and dislikes...being able to show that this is supposed to be fun for all involved.  That's all I can think of at present.

[Tyoung]

For me the first two things that set the mood are the quality of greeting (for me a hug) and the cleanliness of the location.  Evidence of discarded towels and food products make me feel like I could be visiting a production. Even the simple offer of a cold water can help set the tone.  Without going into session details the simple way that the session ends for the ability to be able to clean up, be that with a shower, or even warm towels is a big one for me. One of my all-time favorites finishes every session with a nice massage that includes my feet being wrapped in hot steaming towels. Any session with the spa treatment concept always leaves me relaxed..

[Savoir Faire]

7 hours ago, average1 said:

Being genuine...good communication, especially about likes and dislikes...being able to show that this is supposed to be fun for all involved.  That's all I can think of at present.

AVG those are all good things in my opinion with communication being number 1. 

[Savoir Faire]

7 hours ago, Tyoung said:

For me the first two things that set the mood are the quality of greeting (for me a hug) and the cleanliness of the location.  Evidence of discarded towels and food products make me feel like I could be visiting a production. Even the simple offer of a cold water can help set the tone.  Without going into session details the simple way that the session ends for the ability to be able to clean up, be that with a shower, or even warm towels is a big one for me. One of my all-time favorites finishes every session with a nice massage that includes my feet being wrapped in hot steaming towels. Any session with the spa treatment concept always leaves me relaxed..

Tee Y bam that HUG is so underrated, yet so freaking important for me. I cannot stress that some providers can see you and still not trust you fully believe it or not. But that HUG when I walk in and leave tells the tale baby................. If she doesn't HUG you guys, you are not doing something right and you need to get to the bottom of it is my advice for you. LOL @ visiting a production. You just gave me wonderful memories of a girl that I use to see would offer or take a shower with me prior to leaving. Hint she was ASIAN..................and this was in Tokyo......... 

[Savoir Faire]

For me, I let them know that I am a SINGLE MALE, which means you can call or text me whenever because I am way more than just a client and they are always in SAFE HANDS. Chocolate I sometimes offer if they catch me before I eat it all up. Third, all Providers need a GOOD CLIENT FRIEND, if you think you don't, LOL you are seriously missing out because sometimes its not all about a TRANSACTION, its about THE CONNECTION......................... 

[Audrey Astor]

Have a fun attitude and friendly. Uptight people make me nervous. 😬 

[Savoir Faire]

On 5/31/2026 at 0:13 PM, Audrey Astor said:

Have a fun attitude and friendly. Uptight people make me nervous. 😬 

I totally understand..................I dislike the ones with attitudes LOL. I will leave them standing right there by themselves because The Savior does not entertain that type of behavior..................... 

[Savoir Faire]

UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you bring GOOD to The Hobby, The Hobby in my opinion will return GOOD to The Client/Provider.......................... I can't speak for anybody except for myself and I am a living witness to THIS STATEMENT......................... 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Engaging (honest presents), special attention to detail, calm with cool air for summer and warmth for winter, fresh bedding and towels, soft gentle music, cool water during or before leaving, assortment of soap, today my client told me after five minutes,  “thank you for having me over and I am so excited to be with you and seeing you again next month and the moth after”  I am a fortunate woman to have such clientele and they have been seeing me for years. The truth is I know I am not alone many well established ladies in this business experience, the very same as me. Similar gratefulness from our generous clients. 

[Savoir Faire]

54 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Engaging (honest presents), special attention to detail, calm with cool air for summer and warmth for winter, fresh bedding and towels, soft gentle music, cool water during or before leaving, assortment of soap, today my client told me after five minutes,  “thank you for having me over and I am so excited to be with you and seeing you again next month and the moth after”  I am a fortunate woman to have such clientele and they have been seeing me for years. The truth is I know I am not alone many well established ladies in this business experience, the very same as me. Similar gratefulness from our generous clients. 

This woman right here GETS IT............................