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Kimberly from Ft Collins 411

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1 hour ago, BoulderB said:

Link is dead. 

I think she turns her ad off every now and then. It'll come back up.

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5 hours ago, Lorax6969 said:

I think she turns her ad off every now and then. It'll come back up.

Is that not a red flag to you?  Just wondering..

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If I were interested, the on and off ad is concerning, add to that a deposit and an on and off ad and I am no longer interested.

 

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personally, i wouldn’t consider it a red flag to use the tryst website features that are specifically allowed and built into the platform.

so, a website gives you the ability to disable and enable ads for whatever personal reasons and it automatically becomes suspicious? it's an option provided and imo a provider can have many legitimate reasons for using it. 

p411 also allows providers to disable and enable their ads. by that same logic, would you also consider providers on p411 who use the disable/enable feature to also be raising a red flag?

 

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20 hours ago, Mouthy-Meg said:

Is that not a red flag to you?  Just wondering..

Not remotely.  Why do you think it would be?

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7 hours ago, mustang said:

If I were interested, the on and off ad is concerning, add to that a deposit and an on and off ad and I am no longer interested.

 

Why, on the on and off ad?  Just curious.

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Cost maybe?  I don’t mind the ad going on and off, but the deposit is a no go for me.

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7 hours ago, gr8owl said:

Why, on the on and off ad?  Just curious.

She gets the deposite, and then disappears when she turns the ad off.  

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8 hours ago, The Divorce Coach ~ said:

personally, i wouldn’t consider it a red flag to use the tryst website features that are specifically allowed and built into the platform.

so, a website gives you the ability to disable and enable ads for whatever personal reasons and it automatically becomes suspicious? it's an option provided and imo a provider can have many legitimate reasons for using it. 

p411 also allows providers to disable and enable their ads. by that same logic, would you also consider providers on p411 who use the disable/enable feature to also be raising a red flag?

 

It is the combination of the on off add AND the deposite.  Lose the deposite requirement, I could care less if she shuts the add overy day.

 

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7 hours ago, gr8owl said:

Not remotely.  Why do you think it would be?

It screams I'm gonna steal your money and disappear. 

makapapi8@gmail.com--- last time I checked papi is a masculine term.  Email doesn't come back with results but makapapi8 links back to a ig page for a grown man. Could I be overthinking it.  Sure.  Am i wrong about scam ads very often? Not very often lol

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7 hours ago, Mouthy-Meg said:

It screams I'm gonna steal your money and disappear. 

makapapi8@gmail.com--- last time I checked papi is a masculine term.  Email doesn't come back with results but makapapi8 links back to a ig page for a grown man. Could I be overthinking it.  Sure.  Am i wrong about scam ads very often? Not very often lol

My question was very narrowly focused - WHY does an ad not being up constantly imply a fake to you?  You still have not answered that question.  Just saying "it screams of ..." does not explain why it is screaming lol.  I know of many legitimate ladies that travel regularly so their local ads come and go.  A couple that go back and forth between Denver and Springs and their ads go back and forth with them.  Does NOT mean they are fake or scammers.

As to the ad in question being fake and your relative acumen at spotting fakes - I have no idea on either and certainly did not express an opinion on either.  I would have zero interest even if real, so not a very effective fake if so.  I would note that the usual fakes looking to get a guy's deposit and then vanish are going to be pics that are TGTBT, prices unreasonably low for what is claimed and certainly not listed as massage only (current active examples in Springs - not advertising here).  Plus why would deposit thieves' ads come and go in one market?  There are hundreds of locales to post the ads, get the deposits and never be seen there again.  The email leading to a guy ...... may be on to something there but could just as easily be the lazy ass spouse she is supporting does her scheduling lol.

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Posted (edited)

1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

My question was very narrowly focused - WHY does an ad not being up constantly imply a fake to you?  You still have not answered that question.  Just saying "it screams of ..." does not explain why it is screaming lol.  I know of many legitimate ladies that travel regularly so their local ads come and go.  A couple that go back and forth between Denver and Springs and their ads go back and forth with them.  Does NOT mean they are fake or scammers.

As to the ad in question being fake and your relative acumen at spotting fakes - I have no idea on either and certainly did not express an opinion on either.  I would have zero interest even if real, so not a very effective fake if so.  I would note that the usual fakes looking to get a guy's deposit and then vanish are going to be pics that are TGTBT, prices unreasonably low for what is claimed and certainly not listed as massage only (current active examples in Springs - not advertising here).  Plus why would deposit thieves' ads come and go in one market?  There are hundreds of locales to post the ads, get the deposits and never be seen there again.  The email leading to a guy ...... may be on to something there but could just as easily be the lazy ass spouse she is supporting does her scheduling lol.

Ads traveling with a lady arent removed from the site.  It will just take you to where their current ad is.  In this case it's completely hidden and won't even load the page.

 

 

Hiding your ad doesnt wipe it from the internet. So it doesn't really make any sense to hide unless you have something to hide. Any unusual behavior is a red flag in my head.  Which includes hiding your ad.

Why is it a red flag to me?  It's suspicious behavior. It's unusual behavior. 

Do we know if her ads always come back up with the same pics and phone number?  I don't think he clarified.  Does it really matter to me.... not at all.  Just participating around here. 

 

We are on different sides of the table. We have different views.  We are allowed to have varying opinions here. since it's a forum im allowed to give mine lol do I need to explain why I feel that way.  Not really. Lol

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For me, ads that appear off and on isn't a red flag by itself. Some people might have lives, or other jobs, or only do this part time, and they deactivate/delete their ads when they aren't working and don't want to be bothered. If I see gaps in posting history, it tells me that, like any other real human being with a job, she needs a vacation once in a while. Like anything else, it's only one factor out of many that you have to weigh to make the call, but it's not something I consider negatively.

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On 5/26/2026 at 10:44 PM, gr8owl said:

Not remotely.  Why do you think it would be?

Chiming in on just about every 411, I think poaching.

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On 7/3/2026 at 10:05 AM, secojim said:

Chiming in on just about every 411, I think poaching.

Only the ones where I have something material and relevant to add.  Try it, you might like it.

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On 7/5/2026 at 4:19 PM, gr8owl said:

Only the ones where I have something material and relevant to add.  Try it, you might like it.

I don't disagree.

Read it again. I was answering your question. She's poaching.

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28 minutes ago, secojim said:

I don't disagree.

Read it again. I was answering your question. She's poaching.

@gr8owl and I'm 100% sure you couldn't poach me in your bootiest of shorts :D

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