No shows.

[MrReindeer-9515]

6 hours ago, Mister Lovah said:

In my best Howie voice. Look at them. All riled up at Sundowner's Village chanting, Hold your canes in the air. And wave 'em like you just don't care.

Validation?  If you'd just open your eyes, you'd have seen the memo. It said, open quote: The last thing Pepé Le Pew needs is the oldest peanut gallery in the hobby world's buy in. Close quote. That's all you, Mrs. Magoo!

I'm stinky and I know it.

Given the condescending and unnecessarily mean spirit of your recent reply’s to some of the women that post here, it kinda seems like you are looking for some kind of “buy in” from the hobby world, it’s just too bad that Savior Faire is the only traction you seem to get…

[gr8owl]

On 7/19/2025 at 4:46 PM, MrReindeer-9515 said:

Given the condescending and unnecessarily mean spirit of your recent reply’s to some of the women that post here, it kinda seems like you are looking for some kind of “buy in” from the hobby world, it’s just too bad that Savior Faire is the only traction you seem to get…

Well ....... to be fair one of them dove down his throat to appendix depth for his asking a perfectly good question  and politely at that.  When the guy appears to be trying to turn over a more pleasant leaf they would do well not to attack him first.  Just sayin' from someone who has seen the worst of the shire a time or two. Can't believe I am defending hobbits. Fair is fair. How about cease fire?  Traction and Savior Fairy ...... an intriguing thought with the right type of traction.

[Mr. Lovah-Banned]

On 7/19/2025 at 7:54 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

That’s an awkward attempt to make fun of me. Have you seen me before? If I were Mrs. Magoo, I would have a rooster on my shoulder that would peck a hole through your head. And that would mean there would be no more worries about you coming on here trying to say a bunch of nonsense. Oh, and yet another racist remark (sundowner’s village) how very Jim Crow of you.

. I love Mr. Magoo that show was top notch in my book as a child. 

Quite appropriate in response to the Howard Cosell pun, you must recall Mr. Magoo's uncanny ability to make it through the wildest shit without being able to see what's in front of his eyes, like you, not just missing the catalyst in this shit show to come at me, but also a clear reference to what happens to old folks when the sun goes down.

This being said, if real and not just an attempt to stir this shit even more, I appreciate you giving a shit about what happened, and still happens to people of color in sundown towns across the land to this very day but, don't come for me ma'am. I stay ready.

Edited July 21, 2025 by Mister Lovah

[Mr. Lovah-Banned]

5 hours ago, gr8owl said:

Well ....... to be fair one of them dove down his throat to appendix depth for his asking a perfectly good question  and politely at that.  When the guy appears to be trying to turn over a more pleasant leaf they would do well not to attack him first.  Just sayin' from someone who has seen the worst of the shire a time or two. Can't believe I am defending hobbits. Fair is fair. How about cease fire?  Traction and Savior Fairy ...... an intriguing thought with the right type of traction.

Thank you, kind sir, hobbit reference and all.

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

13 minutes ago, Mister Lovah said:

Quite appropriate in response to the Howard Cosell pun, you must recall Mr. Magoo's uncanny ability to make it through the wildest shit without being able to see what's in front of his eyes, like you, not just missing the catalyst in this shit show to come at me, but also a clear reference to what happens to old folks when the sun goes down.

This being said, if real and not just an attempt to stir this shit even more, I appreciate you giving a shit about what happened, and still happens to people of color in sundown towns across the land to this very day but, don't come for me ma'am. I stay ready.

I don’t have dementia do you?  I am sick of you hurting people on here.  That story about beating up your best friend was hideous. You got quite a reputation going right now so I suggest you just go to bed and forget  your life, Tob.

11 minutes ago, Mister Lovah said:

Thank you, kind sir, hobbit reference and all.

 

[Mr. Lovah-Banned]

8 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

I don’t have dementia do you?  I am sick of you hurting people on here.  That story about beating up your best friend was hideous. You got quite a reputation going right now so I suggest you just go to bed and forget  your life, Tob.

Hurting people on here? Beating up my best friend? Forget MY TOB life? Get a grip lady.

Edited July 21, 2025 by Mister Lovah

[Skg]

The guys that are “No Shows” are making it harder on the rest of us as ladies might have to impose new methods such as deposits or other methods of screening. 

[DaintyDarling]

On 7/9/2025 at 7:39 PM, Lisa logan-4633 said:

Girlllllll…….. I feel you ONE THOUSAND PERCENT!!!! ‘Colnat’ just did the same thing to me last week… spent a whole day discussing and rearranging and literally disappeared AFTER GETTING HOTEL INFO….. that’s becoming so common it’s literally sickening….. I know most of us girls take our own precautions and what not… but when I’m ghosted after giving hotel info, I leave the place… I’d rather be safe than sorry…. But then that means money lost the rest of the day. And on top of that, the belittling paranoia that comes with it lol. A lot of these men don’t seem to care about our feelings and safety and time anymore. And that’s really unfortunate. I’ve been out of the hobby for several years and coming back to how common this has become is really upsetting. There are still plenty of good guys out there though, so just keep your head up beautiful. All we can do 💋

I’m sorry to hear that. I still after all of these years. Do not understand how to respond in these dang forums nor properly start a thread. I do my best to stay off of them and I don’t ever like to feel like “outting” someone but the best solution for bad behavior is changed behavior and clearly he did not decide to self induce so perhaps this will encourage him to be more considerate of peoples time. It frustrates me when people point out that it is to be expected. I will never understand why someone books an appointment to stand up the client, unless an emergency of course occurs, or they are on drugs or quite frankly just don’t manage their scheduling proper but apparently it happens. I’m aware. I like to think I’m fairly intelligent and have a generous amount of common sense. That doesn’t mean that it’s not disrespectful especially when it is repeated behavior. So needless to say I won’t be booking him again, but considering he contacted me from five different phone numbers and went from his name is Paul, to Dave, to Ken, who knows. But I would recognize him and I would shut my door right in his face if he were to try to pull a quick one. It sucks because this is why I started to take deposits and I understand not everyone can do that, but it’s not fair to pay a sitter, leave a work function early, cancel Plans, or the one that really makes me mad, possibly turning down someone else because the timing would conflict only for the original appointment to play games and by the time you reach out to the second or third that Inquired they typically have either lost their window of time or found another provider… all because someone chose to be blatantly stand us up. And honestly, it’s starting to seem malicious. Same with screening. No one seems to want to do it and want to be “private and discreet, “but have no qualms about asking for us to show our face, send them personal photos, and use FaceTime to screen. FaceTime does zero other than show me what you look like. That doesn’t tell me about your reputation, doesn’t guarantee that you have good intent, nor Tells me that I’m safe. Guys like this ruin it for everyone because I’m really going to stop booking anyone who doesn’t provide me a deposit that way if they don’t show up, it’s not all for Not. And I tell them this when they do this. And of course they don’t care. They think it’s cute and funny. I have a great deal of respect for my clients that have a great deal of respect for me, but I’m really at the point where if you go low, I’m ready to go to hell. It gets very old and invokes not such a pleasant mood.

 

[Mr. Lovah-Banned]

21 hours ago, DaintyDarling said:

I’m sorry to hear that. I still after all of these years. Do not understand how to respond in these dang forums nor properly start a thread. I do my best to stay off of them and I don’t ever like to feel like “outting” someone but the best solution for bad behavior is changed behavior and clearly he did not decide to self induce so perhaps this will encourage him to be more considerate of peoples time. It frustrates me when people point out that it is to be expected. I will never understand why someone books an appointment to stand up the client, unless an emergency of course occurs, or they are on drugs or quite frankly just don’t manage their scheduling proper but apparently it happens. I’m aware. I like to think I’m fairly intelligent and have a generous amount of common sense. That doesn’t mean that it’s not disrespectful especially when it is repeated behavior. So needless to say I won’t be booking him again, but considering he contacted me from five different phone numbers and went from his name is Paul, to Dave, to Ken, who knows. But I would recognize him and I would shut my door right in his face if he were to try to pull a quick one. It sucks because this is why I started to take deposits and I understand not everyone can do that, but it’s not fair to pay a sitter, leave a work function early, cancel Plans, or the one that really makes me mad, possibly turning down someone else because the timing would conflict only for the original appointment to play games and by the time you reach out to the second or third that Inquired they typically have either lost their window of time or found another provider… all because someone chose to be blatantly stand us up. And honestly, it’s starting to seem malicious. Same with screening. No one seems to want to do it and want to be “private and discreet, “but have no qualms about asking for us to show our face, send them personal photos, and use FaceTime to screen. FaceTime does zero other than show me what you look like. That doesn’t tell me about your reputation, doesn’t guarantee that you have good intent, nor Tells me that I’m safe. Guys like this ruin it for everyone because I’m really going to stop booking anyone who doesn’t provide me a deposit that way if they don’t show up, it’s not all for Not. And I tell them this when they do this. And of course they don’t care. They think it’s cute and funny. I have a great deal of respect for my clients that have a great deal of respect for me, but I’m really at the point where if you go low, I’m ready to go to hell. It gets very old and invokes not such a pleasant mood.

Thanks for elaborating on your experience with Ass Hat, smelling it up for those of us that value mutual respect, admiration, and consideration. Not to be used for picking someone out of a lineup or some cray-crayness, I see your post as an opportunity for an adult, meaningful discussion of all the things that happen in the hobby, like being stood up, which sucks unlike the good kind, and even forum participation, which tends to run amok thanks to the handful that love shirring stip up . Now, I don’t know much, but I can see from your profiles that there are much, much higher income generating opportunities in your day! So thankful you're the rule not the exception on behalf of us, you are absolutely right to step away from the fray, like most. It's the little things that count for us. Racking up them points, I'm personally hella thankful to know, or have a great idea of what your company has in store, and mine eyes are filled with glory! Please know, understanding the risks of seeing your face, I'm the type to value your privacy enough to never ask for any additional pics, to strike a pose, none of the bullshit, and neither will I obey such requests, for the very same reasons. It's good to know I'm not alone.

But alas, the deposit. Aware all this makes the likes of Dick Cheese who made you require them out of me, I honor your business decision on this and wish you all the best.

Edited July 25, 2025 by Mister Lovah