Posted March 11 Here’s a question for the ladies. For those of you who don’t have a P411 link or website in your TOB profile, how do we respectfully inquire about rates without coming across gauche. BTW word to TOB staff, this is a conspicuous functional defect that should be discussed at the next enhancements meeting. And it should be a searchable parameter on Listings and Reviews. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 11 More and more advertising websites are removing rates. Eros just removed that option last month. I would not call it a "defect", it is intentional. It is layer of protection to prevent these companies from getting in trouble for solicitation, and being completely shut down. Tryst will keep rates available, but that is because they are in Australia where it is legal. It is up to the provider to list rates, not the advertising company. I am sure the men here will have suggestions on how to politely ask for donation amounts. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 11 3 hours ago, ToddzHobby said: Here’s a question for the ladies. For those of you who don’t have a P411 link or website in your TOB profile, how do we respectfully inquire about rates without coming across gauche. BTW word to TOB staff, this is a conspicuous functional defect that should be discussed at the next enhancements meeting. And it should be a searchable parameter on Listings and Reviews. What Tryst has on their platform where the ladies can list their rates and the ladies can even talk about their menu. I have a personal website that I prefer to use for my information. I tell perspective clients to please read my reviews on here and other platforms of advertising that has listed reviews on me. to see what I have to offer (my menu). We all operate differently (each of us ladies). We also will only disclose what each lady feels comfortable sharing with clientele. I suggest to all perspective people that are interested in coming to see me is to Google my phone number. So, when people Google phone numbers advertisements should go back at least three months with information on any particular lady unless you know she’s brand new to the business. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 11 4 hours ago, ToddzHobby said: Here’s a question for the ladies. For those of you who don’t have a P411 link or website in your TOB profile, how do we respectfully inquire about rates without coming across gauche. BTW word to TOB staff, this is a conspicuous functional defect that should be discussed at the next enhancements meeting. And it should be a searchable parameter on Listings and Reviews. You might find this recent thread helpful: 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 11 5 hours ago, ToddzHobby said: Here’s a question for the ladies. For those of you who don’t have a P411 link or website in your TOB profile, how do we respectfully inquire about rates without coming across gauche. first, thank you for taking the time and effort to read ads, websites bio's etc to inform yourself. although, i have my profile links here and in sig line links to my, tryst, p411 and eccie, MANY will not click on any of those links and inform themselves. to answer your question regarding rates, pretty neutral but would work for me, IF i didn't have rates listed anywhere..... "i’d love to learn more about your rates. could you provide some information on your pricing?" or "i’m considering a few options and would love to understand your pricing. could you share your rates with me?" or simply "could you please share your pricing details?" hope this helps a lil ~ 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 11 Context is key. If your first message to a companion is "Yo, sweetcheeks, how much?" Then you will likely get blanked. Try this: " Hi, Bambi - your pics are amazing and your reviews tell a great story. I'm happy to follow your screening process, but wondered if you could first please share your incall location (major intersection or landmark) and your 60/90 minute donation. Thanks!" I've never had a companion refuse to provide that data...... 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 12 (edited) Watched a YouTube tour of an NV brothel the other day. They commented that even with legal prostitution they are not allowed to discuss rates on the phone, or to post them on a website. Edited March 12 by Bit Banger 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 12 2 hours ago, Bit Banger said: Watched a YouTube tour of an NV brothel the other day. They commented that even with legal prostitution they are not allowed to discuss rates on the phone, or to post them on a website. And it was like that roughly 1000 years ago when I made the one and only visit to one. I believe the internet was in its infancy, if at all but you certainly couldn’t get rates over the phone. The procedure was each lady had a small pre printed “menu” with her own hand written prices. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 12 21 hours ago, sb1212 said: Context is key. If your first message to a companion is "Yo, sweetcheeks, how much?" Then you will likely get blanked. Try this: " Hi, Bambi - your pics are amazing and your reviews tell a great story. I'm happy to follow your screening process, but wondered if you could first please share your incall location (major intersection or landmark) and your 60/90 minute donation. Thanks!" I've never had a companion refuse to provide that data...... So tell me about this Bambi..... jk 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 13 On 3/11/2025 at 5:59 PM, sb1212 said: "Yo, sweetcheeks, how much?" text just in and im offended. lol. i didnt get the 'sweetcheeks' all i got was 'yo how much?' (i have the rates listed in my ad) needless to say i blocked w/out replying 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
