Posted December 19, 2024 Like some I am in a relationship. She is great and has been through a lot with me and we have been together for a bit. I do enjoy admiring the beauty of other women. ( not touching just looking at pictures and live video shows) Sometimes I do think of having fun with another lady stopping way short of crossing the line. Mostly what I am craving is just a conversation with some open adult talk some cuddling and if there is going to be a release a manual release while enjoying the live view and admiration of the physical beauty of another. Are there providers who will fulfill this? Do providers appreciate a client who is not about a roll in the hay? Do providers also offer just a human connection instead of or along with a physical one? Curious to hear y’all’s thoughts. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 19, 2024 7 hours ago, Fethobbyist said: Like some I am in a relationship. She is great and has been through a lot with me and we have been together for a bit. I do enjoy admiring the beauty of other women. ( not touching just looking at pictures and live video shows) Sometimes I do think of having fun with another lady stopping way short of crossing the line. Mostly what I am craving is just a conversation with some open adult talk some cuddling and if there is going to be a release a manual release while enjoying the live view and admiration of the physical beauty of another. Are there providers who will fulfill this? Do providers appreciate a client who is not about a roll in the hay? Do providers also offer just a human connection instead of or along with a physical one? Curious to hear y’all’s thoughts. Well, first of all, sir. All of us girls will do whatever usually you ask because you’re not paying us to roll in the hay you’re giving us a donation, for our time and our time only!!!!! 8 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2024 On 12/19/2024 at 4:36 AM, Fethobbyist said: Like some I am in a relationship. She is great and has been through a lot with me and we have been together for a bit. I do enjoy admiring the beauty of other women. ( not touching just looking at pictures and live video shows) Sometimes I do think of having fun with another lady stopping way short of crossing the line. Mostly what I am craving is just a conversation with some open adult talk some cuddling and if there is going to be a release a manual release while enjoying the live view and admiration of the physical beauty of another. Are there providers who will fulfill this? Do providers appreciate a client who is not about a roll in the hay? Do providers also offer just a human connection instead of or along with a physical one? Curious to hear y’all’s thoughts. I believe every lady here would love to have your kinda session, I mean how can they turn it down? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2024 24 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: I believe every lady here would love to have your kinda session, I mean how can they turn it down? Sorry Stevie, I would not. He only joined Sunday. It is the same reason many of us will not do "coffee dates". It smells of a LE move. Plus, why on earth would I just want to watch him do a manual release. There is zero pleasure in that for me 😂 I would actually get more pleasure from a cup of coffee, minus the trip in the back of a squad car. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2024 1 hour ago, Caressa Duval said: Sorry Stevie, I would not. He only joined Sunday. It is the same reason many of us will not do "coffee dates". It smells of a LE move. Plus, why on earth would I just want to watch him do a manual release. There is zero pleasure in that for me 😂 I would actually get more pleasure from a cup of coffee, minus the trip in the back of a squad car. As dead as this site is anymore I highly doubt he is LE! And most woman aren’t doing this profession for their pleasure, just saying 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2024 14 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: As dead as this site is anymore I highly doubt he is LE! And most woman aren’t doing this profession for their pleasure, just saying Caressa's cautious approach makes sense. I agree that the OP seems inoccuous, but most of us guys have no idea what these womem have to watch out for and what the danger signals are. Also - given a choice, I suspect most high quality companions - like those on TOB - would prefer to enjoy and derive pleasure from their work rather than just endure it....like the rest of us. My best experirnces have always been mutually enjoyable..... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2024 49 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: As dead as this site is anymore I highly doubt he is LE! And most woman aren’t doing this profession for their pleasure, just saying The forum side is dead, the business side is very active. No reason to get bent out of shape. We absolutely do this for our pleasure too! There is something very satisfying to put a smile on a gents face. For my gents they strive to give me pleasure. I personally would not feel comfortable having someone look at me and masturbate. The LE concern is very real when men try to set up a zero service date, or again "coffee date". It has happened many times in the past ladies have been busted doing non-service dates. The OP is asking a fair question. The professional cuddle business is a real thing. There is now a new business trend of ladies gently tracing men's bodies with long fingernails. I am sure that most providers, professional cuddlers, and FBSM ladies give a human connection. That is what all of this is about human connection. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2024 2 minutes ago, Caressa Duval said: The forum side is dead, the business side is very active. No reason to get bent out of shape. We absolutely do this for our pleasure too! There is something very satisfying to put a smile on a gents face. For my gents they strive to give me pleasure. I personally would not feel comfortable having someone look at me and masturbate. The LE concern is very real when men try to set up a zero service date, or again "coffee date". It has happened many times in the past ladies have been busted doing non-service dates. The OP is asking a fair question. The professional cuddle business is a real thing. There is now a new business trend of ladies gently tracing men's bodies with long fingernails. I am sure that most providers, professional cuddlers, and FBSM ladies give a human connection. That is what all of this is about human connection. Well if any lady or guy talks about money and what it’s for they deserve to be busted, and don’t say it happens without talk of activities. and I said most woman aren’t here for their own pleasure, it’s about the money 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2024 Well to each their own…I LOVE.those kind of meetups! Hehe I find them to be enjoyable,relaxing, and fulfilling. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2024 On 12/19/2024 at 4:36 AM, Fethobbyist said: Like some I am in a relationship. She is great and has been through a lot with me and we have been together for a bit. I do enjoy admiring the beauty of other women. ( not touching just looking at pictures and live video shows) Sometimes I do think of having fun with another lady stopping way short of crossing the line. Mostly what I am craving is just a conversation with some open adult talk some cuddling and if there is going to be a release a manual release while enjoying the live view and admiration of the physical beauty of another. Are there providers who will fulfill this? Do providers appreciate a client who is not about a roll in the hay? Do providers also offer just a human connection instead of or along with a physical one? Curious to hear y’all’s thoughts. Fetty looks like you have yourself a little KINK going on that is just dying to be released LOL. Ms Blake gave you some great advice. I don't think you will have a problem getting a provider to take good care of you, just make sure you are upfront and honest with what it is you are really wanting. You may do yourself more JUSTICE if you pick out the provider that you are attracted too and shoot her a pm................... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2024 22 hours ago, Caressa Duval said: Sorry Stevie, I would not. He only joined Sunday. It is the same reason many of us will not do "coffee dates". It smells of a LE move. Plus, why on earth would I just want to watch him do a manual release. There is zero pleasure in that for me 😂 I would actually get more pleasure from a cup of coffee, minus the trip in the back of a squad car. I am an accountant. I used to be a very active hobbyist years ago. I started dating a woman and am still with her. As I have grown with her I have healed from a lot of trauma I went through. I used to think having sex was experiencing love. Now at 50 yrs old I appreciate just being with company. Rolling in the hay while still fun means less to me. When I was active one provider gave me a bad reference amongst other providers because I am fat and was sweating during our appointment. I paid her for two hours and left after one. She even bragged about not refunding the second hour. Keep in mind I never asked. As far as being “LE” they can take a long walk off a short pier. Occasionally I do crave the physical touch of being “held” . Some men don’t want to have sex, they just want to feel like they still matter. Sometimes I want to fool around too without having sex or penetration or whatever other term you assign to it. I don’t want to cheat on the woman I am with. That being said some women will say that I am “emotionally “ cheating.” FYI I rejoined the board Sunday. I left the board when I left the hobby about 6 years ago. 16 hours ago, Savoir Faire said: Fetty looks like you have yourself a little KINK going on that is just dying to be released LOL. Ms Blake gave you some great advice. I don't think you will have a problem getting a provider to take good care of you, just make sure you are upfront and honest with what it is you are really wanting. You may do yourself more JUSTICE if you pick out the provider that you are attracted too and shoot her a pm................... Sometimes a little kink going on. At 50 years old these days it’s not about being Superman in bed or feeling perceived love through physical interaction. As she pointed out it’s a service business. The service is human companionship not sex. For some human companionship is therapy. I just rejoined the board on Sunday. Also in the event anyone is wondering when the desire strikes the fetishes I enjoy are DATY DATO being pegged and having my face sat on. There are a couple others I want to try. I do have permission to experience them as she is not into the DATO and pegging. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 22, 2024 On 12/20/2024 at 0:13 PM, Caressa Duval said: Sorry Stevie, I would not. He only joined Sunday. It is the same reason many of us will not do "coffee dates". It smells of a LE move. Plus, why on earth would I just want to watch him do a manual release. There is zero pleasure in that for me 😂 I would actually get more pleasure from a cup of coffee, minus the trip in the back of a squad car. LMFAO!!!!! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 22, 2024 (edited) On 12/20/2024 at 10:01 PM, Caressa Duval said: The forum side is dead, the business side is very active. No reason to get bent out of shape. We absolutely do this for our pleasure too! There is something very satisfying to put a smile on a gents face. For my gents they strive to give me pleasure. I personally would not feel comfortable having someone look at me and masturbate. The LE concern is very real when men try to set up a zero service date, or again "coffee date". It has happened many times in the past ladies have been busted doing non-service dates. The OP is asking a fair question. The professional cuddle business is a real thing. There is now a new business trend of ladies gently tracing men's bodies with long fingernails. I am sure that most providers, professional cuddlers, and FBSM ladies give a human connection. That is what all of this is about human connection. The business side very active depending on location, the forum side is dead because of members like you, thriving on conformity that is followed by conflict and ridicule in its absence, then fade to black as the white knights come to your defense. Wait for it. @Fethobbyist - Followed by @stevie-2249 and @Audrey Astor, @Elle Blake said it best. As noted in a recent post eulogizing @pfunk, may he rest in peace, in which the beloved guy had to go all the way home to return with the donation for someone who loved his company so much, these are business transactions, period. Most likely to happen in a meet and greet, damn the human connection, crap. My advise to you is, keep it out of the forum. Do your research and engage with the ladies you desire offline, where 99.9999999% of them don't bother with the the bullshit you're likely veering from home about. Good luck in your search. Edited December 22, 2024 by I Dream of Pussy 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 22, 2024 On 12/20/2024 at 10:06 PM, stevie-2249 said: Well if any lady or guy talks about money and what it’s for they deserve to be busted, and don’t say it happens without talk of activities. and I said most woman aren’t here for their own pleasure, it’s about the money Imagine that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 22, 2024 @Idreamofpussy what are you angry about? It sounds like you think these ladies are beneath you. Everyone has a different viewpoint and the industry is not all about sex etc.. Someone must have hurt you pretty bad for you to sound as if other people are worthless to you and only here for your pleasure. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 22, 2024 (edited) 2 hours ago, I Dream of Pussy said: The business side very active depending on location, the forum side is dead because of assholes like Hobbit, aka I Dream of Pussy But Never Get Any attacking members for fun because for some mysterious reason he can get away with it endlessly while waging asinine dm campaigns thriving on conformity that is followed by conflict and ridicule in its absence, then fade to black as the white knights come to your defense. Wait for it. Fixed it for you Edited December 22, 2024 by gr8owl 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 23, 2024 @I Dream of Pussy is a very angry man and when he not angry I see him as being sarcastic, which I believe is another form of anger. Yep mostly it is a combo deal! I wish him a better year! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites