Posted August 28 I saw a new provider a few days ago and I could not really perform. I thought they were running a two for one special. So I gave extra $$. My first mistake, cause I didnt understand text properly. I had to choose one of two girls. I was told to get comfortable, while both providers were in the room. Then one girl leaves while I am preped already on the bed. And, the door is wide open. We begin session and my mind is elsewhere. I am thinking is she going to lock the door? What I am doing here.Is She going to lock the damn door. I should of seen someone else;The provider continues to do what is expected, but I am not up to the task. Finally, I asked her to lock the door, and she mumbles something. Basically it was a big fat NO. This goes on for twenty minutes and still all I can think about is: 1) wishing I saw that other provider;2) Is that door going to open; 3) Why cant I perform; 4 I better hurry up because my session is almost over; 5) I should not of given them an extra $ because its not worth it; 6) Should I just end the session and leave. All of a sudden the provider interrupted my thoughts and says we need to finish up. Now I am really under pressure to finish. I asked for lotion, finally started to do what needed to be done, finished on her. cleaned up quickly, got dressed and Not 3 minutes later, her friend walks in the door right on cue......I actually think this was just a bad situation and no fault of the provider, but the circumstances were too weird for me.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 28 I don't know, sounds like a bad provider having that type on in-call set up. I've never had a provider sharing a room where the other provider is in and out of the room. I'd avoid this one. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 29 12 hours ago, lurkernomore757 said: I saw a new provider a few days ago and I could not really perform. I thought they were running a two for one special. So I gave extra $$. My first mistake, cause I didnt understand text properly. I had to choose one of two girls. I was told to get comfortable, while both providers were in the room. Then one girl leaves while I am preped already on the bed. And, the door is wide open. We begin session and my mind is elsewhere. I am thinking is she going to lock the door? What I am doing here.Is She going to lock the damn door. I should of seen someone else;The provider continues to do what is expected, but I am not up to the task. Finally, I asked her to lock the door, and she mumbles something. Basically it was a big fat NO. This goes on for twenty minutes and still all I can think about is: 1) wishing I saw that other provider;2) Is that door going to open; 3) Why cant I perform; 4 I better hurry up because my session is almost over; 5) I should not of given them an extra $ because its not worth it; 6) Should I just end the session and leave. All of a sudden the provider interrupted my thoughts and says we need to finish up. Now I am really under pressure to finish. I asked for lotion, finally started to do what needed to be done, finished on her. cleaned up quickly, got dressed and Not 3 minutes later, her friend walks in the door right on cue......I actually think this was just a bad situation and no fault of the provider, but the circumstances were too weird for me.... I don't think your session was bad to be honest. I think the fact that you wasn't able to perform stressed you out a bit and made it worse than what it was. If I was you, I would turn around and go see the other provider because it seems like thats who your mind was on and you probably had the hots for her. I love doubles but with SWINGER women LOL, not providers. Providers you are on the clock, SWINGERS you got time to enjoy both women without being rushed. Don't give up, get back in there and take your time now that you know what to expect..................Good luck 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 30 On 8/28/2024 at 9:45 AM, lurkernomore757 said: I saw a new provider a few days ago and I could not really perform. I thought they were running a two for one special. So I gave extra $$. My first mistake, cause I didnt understand text properly. I had to choose one of two girls. I was told to get comfortable, while both providers were in the room. Then one girl leaves while I am preped already on the bed. And, the door is wide open. We begin session and my mind is elsewhere. I am thinking is she going to lock the door? What I am doing here.Is She going to lock the damn door. I should of seen someone else;The provider continues to do what is expected, but I am not up to the task. Finally, I asked her to lock the door, and she mumbles something. Basically it was a big fat NO. This goes on for twenty minutes and still all I can think about is: 1) wishing I saw that other provider;2) Is that door going to open; 3) Why cant I perform; 4 I better hurry up because my session is almost over; 5) I should not of given them an extra $ because its not worth it; 6) Should I just end the session and leave. All of a sudden the provider interrupted my thoughts and says we need to finish up. Now I am really under pressure to finish. I asked for lotion, finally started to do what needed to be done, finished on her. cleaned up quickly, got dressed and Not 3 minutes later, her friend walks in the door right on cue......I actually think this was just a bad situation and no fault of the provider, but the circumstances were too weird for me.... Did the provider have the following? A Website A teaser video Reviews on TER Her Incall was a high end hotel If you said no to any of these you F...ed up! I'm just trolling, I don't think it's anybody's fault. I had a session once with another provider in the other room. When I was done with my session the provider was telling how great her friend's tits are and if I wanted to see them. I agreed and she came in and showed them to me and asked me if I wanted to feel them. So I felt I got a little bonus. But I could see how that could be distracting. Definetly the reminder of the time remaining would make it difficult for me to finish. But COB is not provided by everyone so that must have been kind of nice. Good luck with your future encounters. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 4 On 8/28/2024 at 9:45 AM, lurkernomore757 said: My first mistake, cause I didnt understand text properly. ...another text only communication appt gone wrong. guys stop doing text only communications when meeting companions on a first meet. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5 3 hours ago, Western ~P said: ...another text only communication appt gone wrong. guys stop doing text only communications when meeting companions on a first meet. Disagree. I'm text only 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5 2 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said: Disagree. I'm text only we all have different contact methods. however, on the internet streets, you have plenty history. well known and easily researchable for an interested hobbyist who does his research on you before a meet. therefore you can be text only for meetups. im gonna also say abt your texting with confirmation by me... you have a way of making sure the person on the other end fully understands you during a text only conversation. thank you for teaching me how to use bitcoin. back to the op............i cant call it for sure on what happened as the op has not chimed back in on this thread but he does claim he met up w/a 'new' provider. the op also claims he did not understand the text properly. so since the provider he met w/was new and he had no text understanding, theres no way, imo the op shoulda went into the meet from a text only convo. from what the op has expressed, it seems he didnt do any research, so he doesnt need to be doing any text only meet ups. but he can chime in and correct my opine if he wants 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6 Do hobbyists prefer phone calls for first dates? I’ve always been text only, for nearly a decade, but mostly because I’m rather awkward on the phone 😅 As far as your date goes, OP - I know every provider does things differently and some providers share incalls, etc. but this sort of arrangement doesn’t really sound normal to me. Due to the nature of the hobby, I think it’s totally fair that you had some issues with fearing that the door might open. On one side of things, I can understand a provider may prefer this for her own safety. On the other hand, the concern for safety is definitely valid on both sides - though the safety concerns may vary slightly. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7 On 9/4/2024 at 3:00 PM, Western ~P said: ...another text only communication appt gone wrong. guys stop doing text only communications when meeting companions on a first meet. Jesus THIS! I mean how stupid do you have to be???? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7 On 9/4/2024 at 9:42 PM, Western ~P said: we all have different contact methods. however, on the internet streets, you have plenty history. well known and easily researchable for an interested hobbyist who does his research on you before a meet. therefore you can be text only for meetups. im gonna also say abt your texting with confirmation by me... you have a way of making sure the person on the other end fully understands you during a text only conversation. thank you for teaching me how to use bitcoin. back to the op............i cant call it for sure on what happened as the op has not chimed back in on this thread but he does claim he met up w/a 'new' provider. the op also claims he did not understand the text properly. so since the provider he met w/was new and he had no text understanding, theres no way, imo the op shoulda went into the meet from a text only convo. from what the op has expressed, it seems he didnt do any research, so he doesnt need to be doing any text only meet ups. but he can chime in and correct my opine if he wants I only do text confirmations..I am not a big conversationalist. AT ALL...I want to keep it short and simple. But I didnt read correctly or maybe I did. And changed their mind when I got there. Nonetheless, it was very uncomfortable for me...And didnt go well even when I finally found the apt. The numbers on the building were so confusing also...I was driving around the complex for 5 min trying to figure out where they were. And, They were standing outside on the walkway looking for me smoking cigarettes...IT was just a bad scene altogether. I never follow my gut instincts. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 7 ^^ its really no soft way to say this..: if you continue hobbying you will continue having uncomfortable 'bad' encounters going forward. theres no having any understanding as you mentioned… when all you had to do was call the provider for a better understanding. this was 100% your fault! communication: text only communication imo is trash bc MOST people do talkNtext and hit send without checking if their talkNtext relayed exactly what they are expressing.....then there goes the communications out the door. misinformed. i have a professional business hobby client whose hearing impaired. we have only done text only from the beginning of getting to know each other. however from the beginning, he lmk he's hearing impaired. he gets a pass with text only communication with me. since texting is mainly his lifeline, he rereads the text before sending to avoid any confusion. imo pro providers or i may just be speaking for myself but i like transitioning skilled conversations via a voice. unless you're hearing impaired. i don't discriminate on disabilities. communications can be a short chat and to the point but text only communication will never work for me on a first meet. gl 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
