Decorum

[ilovewomen]

On 6/5/2024 at 4:36 PM, sb1212 said:

Welcome to our world!

Suggested Hobby  Guidelines 101

1. Always be polite, friendly and respectful in your communication with TOB companions. You get what you give.

2. Use TOB search function in listings (profiles only) and find a few companions that look interesting. In listing description put "newbie". Create a Favorites list in your account. 

3. Read all the reviews and view all the pics you can find from multiple sources for those companions found in your search. Initially stick with companions well-reviewed on TOB who are "newbie friendly".  Send DMs to fellow TOB hobbyists if you need more details. NEVER ask companions for activity details. You will get shut down.  In every instance, your experience may vary compared to what is in the reviews.

4. Carefully review companions websites (if avaiable). Figure out donation, incall vs outcall, deposit  ( if needed),   screening required. Google her name (add "escort") to see If you can find info from other sources. If you can't find the basic data points  ask the companion. Be prepared to either meet her deposit,   screening and donation requirements or to politely walk away. Don't negotiate.

5. Reach out to companion using her preferred method: text, email, phone, TOB  message, website form. Be polite and complete: "Hi, this is Fred. Love your pics and reviews! Would love to spend an hour with you at your in call on June xx somewhere between 11:00AM and 4:00PM. I have completed the requested screening. Thanks!"

6.  Book a session!! Confirm the day before and the day of. Never cancel or change without giving as much notice as possible.  Be aware of her cancelation policy.

7.  Show up - on time! Be squeaky clean from head to toe. Bring a small gift. Have fun! 

8. Rinse and repeat...

Sorry this is so long There is some level of nuance in the process, and more than one way to get it done correctly. Feel free to ask questions via the forum or DMs. Many experienced hobbyists and companions here are willing to help. Happy hobbying!!

At one time, there was thread very similar to this that was pinned to the forums so that all newbies had a guideline to read on how to be successful on TOB.

I tried to find it but couldn’t.
 

The advice posted is invaluable.

Maybe Kaduk will pin your post so that it is readily available to everyone.

 

[Liliane Rousseau]

Thank you for sharing this! It makes moments so much more enjoyable and comfortable for all!