Posted June 9 Ladies, if you have an active P411 account but don't check your P411 screening / appointment requests, can you please inactivate your profile? I started reaching out two months ago when I found out that my company was sending me to the Denver area. Made multiple screening / appointment requests with two very highly reviewed and regarded local providers, one of whom I'd seen previously. Radio silence. Then, ("poof"! "magic"!) on the morning that I had been asking for an appointment last week, both of the providers start posting their immediate availability On TOB. Admirers have to pay $179.00 USD a year to keep their profiles active and be able to contact Companions on P411. It costs Providers nothing to create a profile and to deactivate / reactivate it. A little common courtesy (yes, I'm a certified OG) would be much appreciated. Thank you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9 Sorry, your best move is to send her a text message or call her. Most ladies will check emails if you tell us to do so. Suppose you contact us by phone if there is no response. Please, this is not something done on purpose. Many ladies don’t take the time to remember to check their emails. PMs are even worse because we don’t always get the signal. Even though TOB has improved a great deal with its platform. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9 Maybe they don't want to see you.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9 has she logged in since you reached out to her? p411 has a time stamp. if you look under the 'Preferred411 Terms and Conditions' tab, companions have to follow the terms of p411. she has to follow p411 policy, she cannot ignore you. "you will check your email and P411 inbox regularly for requests and will answer them in a timely fashion." if she has logged in since you’ve been in contact, and hasn’t communicated with you, i'd recommend letting p411 know. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9 Question: Did you send an official "appointment request" via their system or simply a "pre-screen" or PM/DM? was it gentlemanly and include everything needed via the companions' directions? Many companions will have their notifications set up to forward appt requests to their emails. (pre-screens get back seat to legit requests and are often rife with time-wasters and many PMs/DMs often do not get forwarded correctly. Also, P411 emails can get stuck in "Promotions" or Junk folders for many Gmail and hotmail users. There are SO many ad boards out there, so if reaching out via PM/DM on any of them vs the P411 Appt request protocol, it's common that companions can't keep up by logging into all so frequently. Hope that you have better luck moving forward. (just throwing out some of the issues that could be happening) Play nicely all! xoxo Mel 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10 It’s very possible they are choosing to not see you. If after a couple times trying to get an appointment and there isn’t response, move on. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10 (edited) To all of the thoughtful ladies who responded to this thread, 1. I'm always polite and respectful. I'm a certified OG. I don't know how else to act. 2. Regarding the provider I'd seen before, I sent 3 P411 appointment requests over two months, and about two weeks out, emailed and texted her. 3. When the same provider started listing their availability here on the morning I was trying to set up an appt., she listed "New phone number!" Same provider checked her P411 account about 30 minutes after I complained to P411, so it's fair to assume she was / is receiving P411 messages. To all: What's wrong with a simple "Thank you for your interest, I don't think we'd be a good match." Simple, short, sweet, respectful. Oh, BTW, during our previous 3 hour appt., she stated repeatedly how much fun she was having and how much she looked forward to seeing me again. But times change, and so do people. I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with replying with the above phrase. I'm not a fragile Gen Zer who will need their "safe space" to go and suck my thumb or anything. Just a polite, "Not interested, move on." would be much appreciated. But common courtesy and mutual respect are getting harder and harder to find these days, so I will focus my search efforts where they still mean something - outside the US of A. I've had my best hobby experiences in countries that have decriminalized or made the hobby completely legal. Thanks, all! Edited June 10 by F117 wrong reference 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18 On 6/8/2024 at 9:49 PM, F117 said: Ladies, if you have an active P411 account but don't check your P411 screening / appointment requests, can you please inactivate your profile? I started reaching out two months ago when I found out that my company was sending me to the Denver area. Made multiple screening / appointment requests with two very highly reviewed and regarded local providers, one of whom I'd seen previously. Radio silence. Then, ("poof"! "magic"!) on the morning that I had been asking for an appointment last week, both of the providers start posting their immediate availability On TOB. Admirers have to pay $179.00 USD a year to keep their profiles active and be able to contact Companions on P411. It costs Providers nothing to create a profile and to deactivate / reactivate it. A little common courtesy (yes, I'm a certified OG) would be much appreciated. Thank you. P411 isn’t the most user friendly. I have missed many clients because the set up of how messages are delivered. If you don’t manually change the delivery settings it doesn’t notify you via email. Only if you log in and manually check. Personally, text or phone call is the best always! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 19 On 6/8/2024 at 9:49 PM, F117 said: Ladies, if you have an active P411 account but don't check your P411 screening / appointment requests, can you please inactivate your profile? I started reaching out two months ago when I found out that my company was sending me to the Denver area. Made multiple screening / appointment requests with two very highly reviewed and regarded local providers, one of whom I'd seen previously. Radio silence. Then, ("poof"! "magic"!) on the morning that I had been asking for an appointment last week, both of the providers start posting their immediate availability On TOB. Admirers have to pay $179.00 USD a year to keep their profiles active and be able to contact Companions on P411. It costs Providers nothing to create a profile and to deactivat/reactivate it. A little common courtesy (yes, I'm a certified OG) would be much appreciated. Thank you. I pay $130.00 per month to keep my TOB account active. May I suggest that you contact the lady of interest by either email or phone to check for a P411 message from you. Also be sure to introduce yourself. I am not sure what happens? I do know that some times we don’t get our messages. Itsucks!! This happens to me this last year wed to me this last year when a client was checking to see if his account with P411 was working? Sorry I corrected your message 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
