Everhard

When to hang it up...

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When should you walk away from the hobby as a guy?

I am beginning to think I am too old. The body is not what it used to be and I have that fear that the lady is going to think, "Shit. Another old dude" when the door opens. I remember fondly 15 years ago when the door would open and you could just see excitement in the woman's eyes that you were a younger, in-shape guy.

I recently turned 50 and am wondering when the ladies think a dude should hang it up.

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7 minutes ago, Everhard said:

When should you walk away from the hobby as a guy?

I am beginning to think I am too old. The body is not what it used to be and I have that fear that the lady is going to think, "Shit. Another old dude" when the door opens. I remember fondly 15 years ago when the door would open and you could just see excitement in the woman's eyes that you were a younger, in-shape guy.

I recently turned 50 and am wondering when the ladies think a dude should hang it up.

What can I say to this?

Is that a phone in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?

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Never!

There is alway a need for good conversation and human touch.  I was chatting with a single gal the other day about the isolation of the Covid lockdown/quarantine in our senior community.  She didn’t want to go through that again.  She got out daily to walk her dog, but life was devoid of human interaction. 😢😠😨

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If you can get it up, you ought to go out.

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At 50, you’re just barely legal to partake of this hobby. At 69 I’m still going...not nearly as strong as at 60, but I’m still going. I guys in their 70’s who partake.

As long as you want to partake, do it.

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56 minutes ago, CallieVane said:

Never ever. I think men should stay virile until death if possible. It’s important for prostate and immunity health for men to remain active. And some of us, if not most of us ladies, prefer older men. Much more mutual pleasure, wisdom and respect comes from visiting with older gentleman. 

You are such a sweet lady. Loved our visit.

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1 hour ago, Turtle138 said:

You are such a sweet lady. Loved our visit.

Thank you!!!! 

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As long as you have a heartbeat, you are never to old to hobby. Everyone no matter what their age deserves to feel the touch and affection of someone else. As long as a client is respectful then age doesn't matter!  

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As long as you are still enjoying your visits. I love the variety that I get to experience. Just think about how much fun and variety us ladies get to experience.😈😉😈

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Seems like very few ladies have age limits, at least explicitly stated limits.

God bless them, one and all.

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Most of the YL who have stated age limits have a minimum.  I’ve seen 30 several times.

That being said, I had one YL decline a 2nd appointment because I reminded her of her father. 🥴

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On 7/29/2020 at 6:18 PM, BadBoy said:

If you can get it up, you ought to go out.

And if you cant? ...

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48 minutes ago, whosyourdaty said:

And if you cant? ...

 

19 minutes ago, lintlizard said:

viagra

Prince Albert?

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1 hour ago, whosyourdaty said:

And if you cant? ...

If you don't like viagra, there is always an implant, or the shot.

And then again, just relaxing the company of a beautiful lady having a drink, maybe dinner and talking is always very enjoyable....clothed or naked!

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18 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

Most of the YL who have stated age limits have a minimum.  I’ve seen 30 several times.

That being said, I had one YL decline a 2nd appointment because I reminded her of her father. 🥴

I'd be safe then since I'd remind her of her grandfather.

 

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It used to be a lot of fun to find young ladies who daddy issues and help them work it out.

Now it's on to ladies who have grand-daddy issues - ugh.

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On 7/29/2020 at 3:35 PM, Everhard said:

... I recently turned 50 and am wondering when the ladies think a dude should hang it up.

According to Consumer's Health Digest, at 50 years old only 30% of men might need Viagra to keep enjoying the hobby. (well... they don't say that exactly but it's the idea). So I think there is plenty of time after 50 to have fun :)

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On 7/30/2020 at 10:00 PM, Bit Banger said:

Most of the YL who have stated age limits have a minimum.  I’ve seen 30 several times.

That being said, I had one YL decline a 2nd appointment because I reminded her of her father. 🥴

Man.....if a lady told me AFTER an appointment that I reminded her of her father, I would have some mighty  strong suspicions ABOUT her father!

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On 7/31/2020 at 6:31 AM, whosyourdaty said:

And if you cant? ...

Age has nothing to do with that. Most of the time nerves and excitement make things have a mind of their own. 

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I know I will get too old for this at some point, but at 66 I still have the urge to play, still enjoy companionship and connection with lovely ladies.  So far, my age has not been an issue, either for me or for the ladies I've been privileged to see during my time on TOB.  For that I am VERY grateful.

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On 7/30/2020 at 1:42 PM, Marilyn Desire said:

As long as you have a heartbeat, you are never to old to hobby. Everyone no matter what their age deserves to feel the touch and affection of someone else. As long as a client is respectful then age doesn't matter!  

Exactly age doesn't matter it's the quality of character!

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On 7/30/2020 at 10:00 PM, Bit Banger said:

Most of the YL who have stated age limits have a minimum.  I’ve seen 30 several times.

That being said, I had one YL decline a 2nd appointment because I reminded her of her father. 🥴

Bummer. I feel your pain. 

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I'm only hanging it up if my ding dong falls off. Otherwise, I'll "rise" to the occasion until I'm 100 years old, the heavens willing.

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Definitely not at 50. I find that clients around 50, I almost always have the best visits with.

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Age seems like a particularly arbitrary measure to use when deciding to quit something like this hobby. Not all 50, 60, 70 or ever 80 year olds are the same.  I'm sure there are plenty in their 70's who enjoy this hobby, and just as many in their 50's who feel such endeavors have passed them by. Believe me, there are plenty of other much more important factors to consider when deciding to scale back or quit this hobby all together.

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