Posted June 22, 2020 So I am curious about something. If a lady changes her services(like from bodyrub to escort, escort to bodyrub, escort to BDSM, etc.) should she have the reviews that described her past services removed so there is no confusion or repercussions to her changes? Is it really that big of a deal (and okay)as long as she communicates the changes before an appt? What would be considered proper in this scenario? xoxo, Samantha Sheppard 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 22, 2020 It really is the providers' decision. As long it is clear to clients, when booking new appointments, it shouldn't matter. Unfortunately, some people don't look for new information, so it is up to the provider to make sure they are clear that appointment services have changed. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 22, 2020 I say yes, keep all reviews up. It is the providers responsibility to have a clear indication of what to expect in the session. IMHO. What I would consider proper is a clear and concise ad with no suspicion. It really is the client’s job to do the research before hooking up. No one likes to be blind sided! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 22, 2020 Keep your old reviews. They show that you have a history in the industry. BUT - In your current ads make it VERY clear that there has been a recent change in the services provided. I think you can do this w/o going into detail about what’s changed. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2020 It must be frustrating when you stop offering a specific service, but because your reviews mention it over and over you're constantly getting that request. It's a tough decision because you want clients to know about your stellar reputation by reading your reviews, yet your reviews are part of the problem in moving on from that aspect of SW. Good luck with everything beautiful. 🙏 Clients, it's important to read a provider's website thoroughly, even though i know the sexy pics can be distracting 😋 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2020 Maybe it helps if for a while you put a little note in your listings or website saying something like: (FBSM/BDSM/etc) is not available anymore. Of course, there are always people that don't read the information but a few will read the note and you'll have less people asking. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2020 Reviews and leaving them up are a tough call and scare the daylights out of me: So many are graphic, even in implication, and are an admission of guilt in a medium with digital permanence. If you think law enforcement plays by any set of fair rules, you're kidding yourself. So I deleted all my reviews post FOSTA/SESTA and started over. Admittedly much of that was because I quit using my real name (not something I've ever cared about, just seemed smarter to have a layer of obfuscation on my public-facing persona) and took up "Jessica". After a bunch of well-established hobbyists left me reviews, I specifically ask people not to leave any now. However they do show a stable history in this, which is and should be the guys' main concern -- that you're not an addict/drama queen, show up when you say, pictures are recent etc etc. So many reviews are bunk anyway -- Review Special! are openly advertised -- I'm guessing a lot of experienced hobbyists take them with a huge grain of salt in the "YMMV" category and are just looking for a stable history. Well that was a totally unhelpful answer, so, ummm... ...I haven't seen any difference in how busy I am only having a dozen total reviews spread across multiple sites Vs. having had a ton, so I think that as long as you have a few from reputable men it doesn't matter as much as providers think, so do what makes you happy and it's all good :-) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2020 On 6/24/2020 at 9:15 AM, JessicaJonesing said: ... ummm... I think that as long as you have a few from reputable men it doesn't matter as much as providers think, so do what makes you happy and it's all good :-) General rule of thumb:: a Lady needs to work through and communicate on any issues with those she has seen, if comments needed to be amended any amendment would need to come from that guy through the Contact Us link or other qualifying communications from him. The request should come quickly with-in a time frame to nip things in the bud. The process gives both parties a voice. Once established there shouldn't be any edits and/or singular removals. Communication is key if that fails then there is the Rebuttal process. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2020 On 6/22/2020 at 11:43 AM, SultryKitten said: So I am curious about something. If a lady changes her services(like from bodyrub to escort, escort to bodyrub, escort to BDSM, etc.) should she have the reviews that described her past services removed so there is no confusion or repercussions to her changes? Is it really that big of a deal (and okay)as long as she communicates the changes before an appt? What would be considered proper in this scenario? xoxo, Samantha Sheppard I don't think you need to remove reviews but you also need to find a safe way to communicate what the hobbyist can expect during the session if you have changed your services. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites