Posted January 22, 2020 I always wondered, for those who have/ had SO and still have this hobby. Did your SO do or not do things that forced you into this hobby? For me it’s yes to all of the above, . Still hanging in there, cause I have this TOB fam and support ++ plus the extras 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 22, 2020 My SO came from this lifestyle which has made all the difference! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 22, 2020 My last SO was part of this lifestyle too. I met her dancing but never paid her outside the club. She had ads and a P411 account. She stopped dancing and slowed to an occasional session. She stayed at my place and didn't need too. After our break-up, I jumped in the deep end. Was just a lurker before. I started participating in a number of boards and seeing a lot of girls. So you have to thank Sydney for my presence here. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 22, 2020 Do you happen to know a KC lady named Diamond Sparkle? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 22, 2020 My SO is essentially an asexual person, doesn't need or want any form of affection or human touch. It's unfortunate because I think I'm a pretty giving partner in the real world but oh well, I just find a way to deal with it. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 22, 2020 My ex-husband made me leave him and move into the industry. My current husband was a long time client from the industry I will continue to be a part of this industry because it makes me happy!💋 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 22, 2020 3 hours ago, mtmoves said: Do you happen to know a KC lady named Diamond Sparkle? Name sounds familiar but can't remember how long ago I heard it. When did you know her? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2020 2 hours ago, Kandi Apple said: My ex-husband made me leave him and move into the industry. My current husband was a long time client from the industry I will continue to be a part of this industry because it makes me happy!💋 You are such an awesome lady! 😊 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 23, 2020 4 hours ago, Bravo1 said: My SO is essentially an asexual person, doesn't need or want any form of affection or human touch. It's unfortunate because I think I'm a pretty giving partner in the real world but oh well, I just find a way to deal with it. You must be the poor bastard that married my X-wife. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 29, 2020 Before I left my ex I had seen providers. She certainly didn't do anything to "force" me into the hobby. It was a choice on my part. I wanted to stick it out in my (essentially) sexless marriage because I wanted my children to have some stability until they were older. We didn't fight, didn't dislike eachother. We just weren't a good match. And I sought out physical affection elsewhere. It wasn't a boo-hoo man story of the wife who wouldn't put out, either. I wasn't very interested because she didn't take good care of herself in so many ways, while I did (and do). Personally I never felt particularly great about cheating and I feel so much better being out on my own. But obviously I'm noone to just anyone else's choices 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites