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Am I too old for the hobby?

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I'm a professional man of 67. Have dabbled in the hobby for a few years but have been inactive for almost a year due to business and traveling requirement. I'm in good shape, workout and not unpleasant to the eye. Have had some great experiences and met some incredible ladies. Before possibly getting back into the hobby I'm just wondering if I'm pressing my luck with finding ladies that really appreciate men of my age or if it's really a chore or less enjoyable for them. Are there others like me around? Just trying to live life to the fullest! Would appreciate any advice or opinions from the ladies. Or where to find ladies that may be more inclined. Thanks

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You're too old when you're dead!

Spend sometime reading the ladies' ads, and the reviews. Many women in this business do not care about your age, or looks. They do care about your attitude, behaviour, and generosity. Many providers will state their preference for mature clients, and considerate behaviour.

I lean toward women who are closer to my own age (I'm 62), and believe they are more sympatico.

However, I've found many ladies in their 20s and 30s who are kind, good listeners, and fun companions.

Most importantly, pay attention to reviews. They give you the best information on who has the skills, and knowledge, to provide you with a wonderful experience.

Good luck!

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17 minutes ago, pfunk said:

You're too old when you're dead!

Spend sometime reading the ladies' ads, and the reviews. Many women in this business do not care about your age, or looks. They do care about your attitude, behaviour, and generosity. Many providers will state their preference for mature clients, and considerate behaviour.

I lean toward women who are closer to my own age (I'm 62), and believe they are more sympatico.

However, I've found many ladies in their 20s and 30s who are kind, good listeners, and fun companions.

Most importantly, pay attention to reviews. They give you the best information on who has the skills, and knowledge, to provide you with a wonderful experience.

Good luck!

^This^ bears repeating.

I’m in my 70s and at least one client here is in his 80s.  

{rabbit-like voice}

We’re not dead yet!

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2 hours ago, pfunk said:

You're too old when you're dead!

 

   fact

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Advice: Keep hobbying! 😁

Life isn't over til it's over, so live it. All aspects of it. You are a great guy, good looking, have a great personality, good energy, intelligent and fun. 

I'll admit there are many providers who don't fully appreciate a session with an older gentlemen, but there are so many lovely ladies here that do. Find these gems. 

A lot of you older gentleman have way more energy than gentleman half your age. Real talk. 

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not too far behind you old toads - please keep it up as a role model for everyone to know they can do this well into their senior years...

and you will find plenty of beeeeuuuutifull ladies that will see older gents and make them feel like a king - because it is part of what they do when we all do what this hobby does and will keep doing hopefully...

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Fun and making life an adventure doesn't stop at any age at least I know well above 70 let alone below. The ladies here will help you make your life filled with fun. Just follow their rules 

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I would say probably 50% of my clients are of the mature age! We are ever to old to enjoy the touch and beauty of another person. Enjoy the hobby till you can no longer get out of bed!

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4 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

^This^ bears repeating.

I’m in my 70s and at least one client here is in his 80s.  

{rabbit-like voice}

We’re not dead yet!

I still dont believe you! 🤷‍♀️

You guys put these youngsters to shame 😋

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Never too old to have fun in life! I am 54! And yes I am not afraid of being honest about my age with being a mature provider! 💋 

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5 hours ago, pfunk said:

You're too old when you're deead. 

I think you're too old when you think you are, but perhaps that's the same as being dead. 

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11 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Never too old to have fun in life! I am 54! And yes I am not afraid of being honest about my age with being a mature provider! 💋 

She's MY role model! I hope to be doing this at 54 too! ❤🤗❤🤗❤🤗

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2 hours ago, Crystyna said:

I would say probably 50% of my clients are of the mature age! We are ever to old to enjoy the touch and beauty of another person. Enjoy the hobby till you can no longer get out of bed!

Nah, you're wrong.  When you can't get out of bed it just means an outcall. :P

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Couple years ago, actual conversation after a few appointments with a delightful lady:

Lady: "If you don't mind my asking, how old are you?"

Me: "XX"

Lady: rather gleefully, "A new record!! You are the oldest I have ever been with!"

Ummmmm ..... OK, cool I guess ......... ouch maybe ........ seen her many times since and keep extending the record hehe ........ 

Not as bad as "you remind me of my grandpa!" :eek:

Always said that when I go I hope it is with a smile on my face and an (naked) escort on my lap!!  

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You are the only person who can answer that question.  It's clear that PLENTY of ladies are willing to see men your age and much older.  If you still have a desire to see them, then I think the answer is clear. You are not too old.

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4 hours ago, Crystyna said:

I would say probably 50% of my clients are of the mature age! We are ever to old to enjoy the touch and beauty of another person. Enjoy the hobby till you can no longer get out of bed!

        Of course,some do it better on the floor.

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As I have said before I'm old (82) and I know a provider who has a regular who is 84. Never too old. Even when it doesn't work out sometimes the companionship ,cuddling and having her play with you is worth it.

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6 minutes ago, pointymoustache said:

As I have said before I'm old (82) and I know a provider who has a regular who is 84. Never too old. Even when it doesn't work out sometimes the companionship ,cuddling and having her play with you is worth it.

Honestly the gentle warm touch of a provider means a lot. What ever activities you can handle is just a plus. So age as they say is just a number. As long as the boilers are lit and you can maintain some speed. You will always be underway.

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I'll run out of rep points if I gave one to everyone in this thread.  And so many deserve one.  I'm in that age group and am still having a ball.  The ladies I've met have treated me nicely and my age doesn't seem to bother them at all.  With that being said, I am someone who uses research...a lot.  Many of my choices have been made because of someone's presence on the board and in the forums.  I know I am old.  I'm usually not looking for a quick "hit it and quit it", but prefer some sort of connection, while always respecting boundaries.  So far, it has worked wonderfully for me.  Gotta say, some of the ladies here are OUTSTANDING...in a variety of ways.  For that, I am grateful.

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On 10/21/2019 at 2:17 PM, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Never too old to have fun in life! I am 54! And yes I am not afraid of being honest about my age with being a mature provider! 💋 

And a wonderful one you are, my dear!

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Encouraging opinons,  especially good to hear from the ladies. I always warn the girls, in case they want to bail before I surprise them. But I never had one go silent  after I warned them, which of course is good.

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4 hours ago, Mike940370 said:

Encouraging opinons,  especially good to hear from the ladies. I always warn the girls, in case they want to bail before I surprise them. But I never had one go silent  after I warned them, which of course is good.

Just ask for driving directions is all that is required most of us are very honest and straight forward! 

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4 hours ago, lowboy said:

And a wonderful one you are, my dear!

Lowboy is such a sweetheart! Missing you!😘😘

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I'm a hot 51 year old going on 52 and I still got it ,,( well I think I do Haha)

OP never to old to play and have fun .... Old Is When Your Dead :P

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A few years ago I met one of the hottest women I have ever known.  A great dancer, enjoyed karaoke, and a freak between the sheets.

She was 70+😱

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Age is all how about you take care of yourself as to stay in the Hobby - Male or Female 

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Thank all of you for your comments. I'm re-energized!

Also I received notifications that I had been given 'reputation' by several providers. What does that mean?

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I didn't start in the hobby till after my divorce at age 60.  Its been a great 4 yrs! As long as the plumbing continues to cooperate, I will keep playing!

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