Posted July 13, 2019 ok... so I was visiting a lady yesterday and talking with her for probably at least a good half hour and that is very rare for me. When the BCD activities started I ceased talking and began concentrating... for some reason I find it very hard to talk during those moments, where I prefer to use body language. She brought it up... jokingly a couple times but I noticed it bothered her a little and it hurt me because of how well we got along otherwise...so... thoughts and opinions please 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2019 Everybody is different. Your change from "talkative to quiet" obviously concerned her. It's really more her issue than yours. That being said, I like to chat initially, and convert to quick compliments, flirting, moaning, and dirty talk, as we progress. For me, it helps things flow naturally. The only time I'm really quite, is when my mouth is full! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2019 Everyone is different, but for me, being responsive and letting someone know how much I am enjoying myself is part of a good encounter. And being with someone who is responsive and lets me know what they like is a HUGE turn on. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2019 I love to talk during BCD play. But my words usually only consist of vowels 😏 10 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2019 OK, I can’t believe I have waited all this time to ask: What does BCD stand for? 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2019 18 minutes ago, BadBoy said: OK, I can’t believe I have waited all this time to ask: What does BCD stand for? Behind Closed Doors.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 14, 2019 3 hours ago, average1 said: Everyone is different, but for me, being responsive and letting someone know how much I am enjoying myself is part of a good encounter. And being with someone who is responsive and lets me know what they like is a HUGE turn on. There are other ways to be responsive besides verbally. I personally like when they're grabbing the sheets, turning their head from side to side with their eyes rolling in the back of their head. That's a major turn on. 😁 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 15, 2019 16 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: There are other ways to be responsive besides verbally. I personally like when they're grabbing the sheets, turning their head from side to side with their eyes rolling in the back of their head. That's a major turn on. 😁 Hunter, you are so right. There are a variety of ways to communicate...and so many of them can be wonderful !! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 23, 2019 watching his toes curl is a good damn hot who needs words ?... I'm like some dirty talk 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 23, 2019 On 7/14/2019 at 2:35 PM, sb1212 said: Behind Closed Doors.... Ha! I wanted to ask but was too embarrassed 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 23, 2019 I’m still trying to find the clip from Any Which Way But Loose where Clyde closes the door on the orangoutang habitat with Charlie Daniels singing in the background. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 24, 2019 Im all sorts of loud, especially when I score a great BOGO deal on my favorite products at Safeway. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 1, 2019 I had the same problem at first. Too focused on the visuals. But if she is reacting in a positive way, try telling her how you feel...like “god this is good, how you doing?” Or some sincere thoughts about her. Practice speaking out, it takes an effort, but if you’re genuine about how much you appreciate her, it will become easy. 😇 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2019 Just as long as they don't say "I've never done this before." Any dialogue before,during and after is ok. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 10, 2019 Just dont say do it Daddy. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2019 On Saturday, August 10, 2019 at 1:23 PM, Turtle138 said: Just dont say do it Daddy. Yeah, that is pretty gross 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
