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Taking chances with secret encounters

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With the SO out of town for a few days, I've had this fantasy of being able to host for once. However there are still family members around, so my encounter would have to be at the height of discretion. But that kinda ads to the adventure of the whole thing. 

I don't think I'm brave enough to actually try that. Anyway actually done something risky like that? Just curious how close to the edge you've played.

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Way way way too much risk.

A hair, a comment from a neighbor, other family member stops buy, perfume or lipstick smear ................

No Way!

Way way way to much risk.

Just remember............

Your net worth will be cut in half and your future will NEVER be the same!

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It still amazes me how stupid our dicks make us. 

We'll risk relationships, homes, savings, family, and even our lives, to get new pussy! 

Believe me, I've been there, done that, and lived to regret it! :eek: 

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I am single,so that aspect will never present itself. I never host,  because I have tried hard to keep my privacy unto myself. That being said, you seem to want some kind of adrenaline experience. I don't know your situation but as the others have said,  you are risking your future. Too many variables to account for that could ruin your life, for just 60 minutes min.  One slip up and you may have to ask your companion if you could crash on her couch. So if it is a rush you seek, sky dive for the first time, bungie jump, etc.  The closet to the edge I played was when I visited a girl at night , in a very very scary part of town. One that I stuck out like a sore thumb,  to all and anyone who saw me. That walk to the front door seemed like an eternity. Everything went as planned but I would never do that again.

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When I was married and the SO went away for a few days, I thought the same way (mine was from laziness and didn’t want to make a DTC drive); I hosted and did everything i could to make sure that her presence afterwards could not be felt. But always, something happens and she lost her pink belly button ring somewhere in the bedroom. We looked everywhere for it but couldn’t find it. She left without it and maybe a month later, my SO brought it up during dinner. Luckily I played it cool and dumb and it was forgotten about. I’m divorced now for other reasons but it could’ve been that one right there. Don’t risk it ... unless you want to be single (worked out great for me)

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You didn’t ask for the ladies opinions, but I have to agree with the sentiments of the other guys who have responded. 

It can be difficult to be focused and at ease while nervous. The other thing is that it can make some of us uncomfortable. I’ve had situations like this where we were confined to the sofa or game room, then rushed because they are so nervous . I’m always overly cautious with my belongings etc., but I always hope my guy is as cautious. This being said, I like going to visit others. It’s exciting and I like getting out.

Best wishes however you decide to go.

 

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I totally understand the thrill in this! Like being 16 again and your parents catching you but a lot more on the line now than being grounded and missing Shelby's pool party next weekend. 

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It's actually not uncommon. I've had gentleman waiting to see me forever and only had that one chance. It's easier than you think. To go with the flow of discretion, be sure you choose a lady that understands this and has her game plan ready and knows just because you are limited to time it does not have to be rushed.

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I'v been to a lot of married homes and I dress like I'm just a visitor , make sure who you pick  knows how to dress down and comes after dark and slips in unnoticed , ask her to not bring but what see needs to provided and no driver or friends along , same as when  going to a hotel for appt . Just be smart pick a WOMAN  who can fit in ..

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15 hours ago, Seeker5280 said:

Way way way too much risk.

A hair, a comment from a neighbor, other family member stops buy, perfume or lipstick smear ................

No Way!

Way way way to much risk.

Just remember............

Your net worth will be cut in half and your future will NEVER be the same!

 

14 hours ago, pfunk said:

It still amazes me how stupid our dicks make us. 

We'll risk relationships, homes, savings, family, and even our lives, to get new pussy! 

Believe me, I've been there, done that, and lived to regret it! :eek: 

Sage advice! Anyone doing that, is playing with fire. 

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13 hours ago, Tantis said:

I totally understand the thrill in this! Like being 16 again and your parents catching you but a lot more on the line now than being grounded and missing Shelby's pool party next weekend. 

Shelby's pool party is next weekend??? Darn it! I'm grounded and can't go. 😁😁😁

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I do my best to keep my hobby life separated from home, even though I am a single guy.  But I understand we all have our preferences and fantasies.  For me there is enough inherent risk without adding another layer of it to worry about.

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About 3 years ago My s.o. Was out of town for a few days! I had kind of been interested in a certain lady who only did outcalls so I hit her up and we set up a time “really late night”! Well she showed up at that time and she had brought along a friend! We discussed the additional $ for the friend so I paid the extra $! Well when we started the activities they one at a time would go and snort what I think was cocaine or something! While this was going on one would be giving a great bj and The other is doing drugs and they would switch! And mind you they asked if I wanted to “party” with them I kindly denied! But when all was said and done I for days was looking to see if I cleaned up all evidence of that encounter! 

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Mixing HW and RW lives can be a recipe for disaster...

All you have to do is get 100% comfortable with the consequences of your choices...

Then choose as wisely as you can...

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On 7/13/2019 at 2:27 PM, lustybustygina said:

I'v been to a lot of married homes and I dress like I'm just a visitor , make sure who you pick  knows how to dress down and comes after dark and slips in unnoticed , ask her to not bring but what see needs to provided and no driver or friends along , same as when  going to a hotel for appt . Just be smart pick a WOMAN  who can fit in ..

Great point!  Although, I think it would be difficult not to notice most of the women here!  ;)

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If I were to do that in a committed relationship (which I wouldn't), I'd have to cover the room in plastic like a hazmat zone.  And I'm betting someone walking into that would be like....  what is this????   
Just my thought, but there are other ways to take risks, like doing it on a ferris wheel (that's actually pretty fun), at a park, etc.

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On 7/13/2019 at 0:11 AM, decafnaetd said:

With the SO out of town for a few days, I've had this fantasy of being able to host for once.

Unless this is a passive aggressive way to sabotage a marriage you want out of but can't tell her straight out, this is an incredibly ill advised "fantasy" with high odds of blowing up in your face.  Even if you get away with - seriously?  in same bed you share with "significant" other?  That is cold.  My opinion only.

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If you think there is any chance you won't be found out, you know nothing of women.  Your wife will see and smell the lingering aura, and any tangible confirmation will simply seal your doom.

If you want adventure, PM me and I will arrange to have you flung out of an airplane at 18,000 feet.  It's a whole lot safer.

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Whoa whoa whoa. Hold on a second. I was taught that when she catches me she would get all hot and bothered and want to join in! 

Are you guys telling me that the the movies aren't true? Is porn just a great big lie??? My world is shattered.

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On 7/15/2019 at 0:15 PM, BadBoy said:

 

If you want adventure, PM me and I will arrange to have you flung out of an airplane at 18,000 feet.  It's a whole lot safer.

On my list of things to do

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I love learning all the unique ways guys lie, very creative. 

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8 minutes ago, MyraGold said:

I love learning all the unique ways guys lie, very creative. 

I'm sure the ladies are much more creative honestly. 🤔😜😂

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4 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

I'm sure the ladies are much more creative honestly. 🤔😜😂

Without a doubt. Chances are she knows everything already!!

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On 7/19/2019 at 5:40 PM, decafnaetd said:

Whoa whoa whoa. Hold on a second. I was taught that when she catches me she would get all hot and bothered and want to join in! 

Are you guys telling me that the the movies aren't true? Is porn just a great big lie??? My world is shattered.

If you were married to one of us I think your teachings might be correct.  😀

Very few real world women are quite so open minded.   If they were, we may be out of business.   

Your post gave me a laugh I needed.  

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Such an endeavor is fraught with dangers. Certainly if the wifey walks in on you...you are screwed...and not in the good way. However, that aside, I understand the need or attraction to roll the dice. If you do....imagine various scenarios that might happen and prepare the appropriate lies. Other people popping or driving by....incriminating things left behind and found....things missing.  Mind the details...but concoct your stories just in case.....Harness your inner Garak......

 

 

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Ditto Admiral, very good words of wisdom.  This is not a hobby for those with youth or a lot to lose!

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On 7/13/2019 at 0:11 AM, decafnaetd said:

With the SO out of town for a few days, I've had this fantasy of being able to host for once. However there are still family members around, so my encounter would have to be at the height of discretion. But that kinda ads to the adventure of the whole thing. 

I don't think I'm brave enough to actually try that. Anyway actually done something risky like that? Just curious how close to the edge you've played.

I wouldn't. 

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