Audrey Astor

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That keep an account on herefor attention or just to troll???  Something brought up a lust of members, and I didn’t know who most of these folks are.(excuse the preposition ending). Do you think members should be active and contributing or ehhhh whatever...?

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Hhmmm... very good question, I’ll give you what I hope is a good answer: pretending it’s my business and my site? I would expect you to be active and have a screen name, there’s a LOT of people signed on as guest when you look at online users. The ladies here aren’t here to pose and screen dance for you, there are porn sites for that. On the sidelines for awhile? Understandable... but if you’re just joining... I would say maybe have a first review posted within the first six months? IDK... my .02 cents...

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I'm sure that there are vogers here just fot the pics and reviews. However,  so what? Most don't hurt anything and if their lives are so poor we just need to pity and tolerate them. For the rest of us this is a great site with occasional good posts and discussion. 

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we all have our cool and we all have our crazy - so - these boards are many things for many people...

some lurk for a time while they decide...

some are DNR ladies...

some are sesta fosta fearful of reviews...

some are an open book...

some are more introverted...

some are very creative...

some are funny...

all are valuable/helpful if you see/hear them them right...

and yes...

some are here to troll...

some are here for stir it up...

but...

you don't need to be around too long to see who is here to be a part of in their own way and who is here to antagonize...

then you just steer where you wanna go...

hopefully to a place where you can make this hobby safe and fun for as many as you can...

 

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3 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

That keep an account on herefor attention or just to troll???  Something brought up a lust of members, and I didn’t know who most of these folks are.(excuse the preposition ending). Do you think members should be active and contributing or ehhhh whatever...?

I wish. References required or something?

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4 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

That keep an account on herefor attention or just to troll???  Something brought up a lust of members, and I didn’t know who most of these folks are.(excuse the preposition ending). Do you think members should be active and contributing or ehhhh whatever...?

I guess I am missing something ..... what the problems are that are being caused and what exactly is "active" or "contributing".  Clearly if it is attention/trolling you do not mean posting to forum.  Booking and keeping appointments?  

51 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

I wish. References required or something?

Sooooo one would need a reference before even getting started here?  Again, what is the problem that some want to be addressed?  Not remotely trying to be a smart ass, just do not understand what the issue is.

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29 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

I guess I am missing something ..... what the problems are that are being caused and what exactly is "active" or "contributing".  Clearly if it is attention/trolling you do not mean posting to forum.  Booking and keeping appointments?  

Sooooo one would need a reference before even getting started here?  Again, what is the problem that some want to be addressed?  Not remotely trying to be a smart ass, just do not understand what the issue is.

Wow, I had so many typos, I’m surprised any of you got this.🤪

There are not any problem(s) that need to be addressed @gr8owl . This is basically conversation that got me wondering when a list of members came up. My personal opinion is that we need to scrub the list of members, partly because I’m a neat freak. Also I would like to see the guys and the ladies have references to join due to some recent happenings. It’s not my board though, and that may require manual work by mods that are already busy.

As for the current participating members, I find value in most and can appreciate varying opinions. Even 2Big gives me a chuckle. So, this was not meant for controversy, but discussion. I’d like to tighten it up a bit, but feel lucky to have what we have.:D

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3 minutes ago, Audrey Astor said:

Wow, I had so many typos, I’m surprised any of you got this.🤪

Damn...multitasking 😘

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6 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

Do you think members should be active and contributing or ehhhh whatever...?

Personally, I'm fine with ehhhh whatever....:D

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7 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

That keep an account on here for attention or just to troll???  Something brought up a lust of members, and I didn’t know who most of these folks are.(excuse the preposition ending). Do you think members should be active and contributing or ehhhh whatever...?

        Will bet that the lust of members read the ads and don't even look at the forums. Kind of like those that used to read the ads in the Oyster ,but didn't read the articles. Some do both,some do not.Wonder what the statistics are.

       

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2 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

Wow, I had so many typos, I’m surprised any of you got this.🤪

 

         It was a tad easier to read than Klingon.

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10 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

        Will bet that the lust of members read the ads and don't even look at the forums. Kind of like those that used to read the ads in the Oyster ,but didn't read the articles. Some do both,some do not.Wonder what the statistics are.

       

There were articles in the Oyster?

I kid, I kid.

I vaguely remember there being articles. Couldn’t tell you what they were about. I mostly picked up the Oyster for the ads.

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59 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

There were articles in the Oyster?

I kid, I kid.

I vaguely remember there being articles. Couldn’t tell you what they were about. I mostly picked up the Oyster for the ads.

       Good thing the publisher never figured that out :)

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16 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

Wow, I had so many typos, I’m surprised any of you got this.🤪

There are not any problem(s) that need to be addressed @gr8owl . This is basically conversation that got me wondering when a list of members came up. My personal opinion is that we need to scrub the list of members, partly because I’m a neat freak. Also I would like to see the guys and the ladies have references to join due to some recent happenings. It’s not my board though, and that may require manual work by mods that are already busy.

As for the current participating members, I find value in most and can appreciate varying opinions. Even 2Big gives me a chuckle. So, this was not meant for controversy, but discussion. I’d like to tighten it up a bit, but feel lucky to have what we have.:D

I admit to " trolling " as it may seem . When I first joined ( Again , after a several year hiatus ), it was to research and find the right lady to connect with and am very grateful to those few that have helped ease me back into finding happiness again, after what has happened in my personal life this past year.  I wish I could participate much more frequently, but life's responsibilities must go on, and with a current personal situation that 2 very privileged ladies are privy too, I'm trying my best to stay active as much as possible.   Btw Audrey ... if your "neatness " needs any assistance you are welcome to assist me in organizing my place if you are ever bored. Lol!   (  Just kidding ! Lol! ) 

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I think overall this is a great community, that being said you will have participation at every level... I recently started reading an posting in the forum and think it is the best way to find like minded ladies to connect with even over the reviews. No where is perfect so enjoy the good here and focus on it the rest will work its way out it always does.  

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I think overall this is a great community, that being said you will have participation at every level... I recently started reading an posting in the forum and think it is the best way to find like minded ladies to connect with even over the reviews. No where is perfect so enjoy the good here and focus on it the rest will work its way out it always does.  

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I started posting here to contribute to the topics that others have started.

Sometimes I may start a thread to get others to contribute to the topic.

 A list of people who troll or trying to get attention?

What the hell is going on here?

 

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1 hour ago, mountainrider33 said:

I thought just the opposite of your thinking, but that may be a change in what "trolling" means.  Trolling, in the last 15 years, has more to do with posting in comment sections or forums to rile up other people.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Trolling

Well clearly the word "clearly" had no place in the post of mine that you quote!!  I stated it poorly.  What I meant: I was asking what is "active and contributing" and saying it must NOT be posting on forum because the complaint was about some who only want attention and troll - which means they post on forum.  Thanks for the link, but I am well aware of what trolling means, after all been around these parts for years lol.

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I've not actually done the math, but my guess is the vast majority of people who use this site rarely, if ever, post on these forums.  Some probably never read the threads.  They read the ads, see ladies, post reviews, collect references and enjoy this hobby, but otherwise keep their opinions to themselves.  I can certainly see the upside of just enjoying the hobby for what is should be without getting caught up in the drama that seems to always creep up in these threads. I think it would be a mistake to require them to do otherwise.

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Well I joined here after eccie shut down for the second time in 2018. I know I am 9 hrs away but I enjoy the discussions that go on here. Nothing has been posted in the Missouri section for over  2 months, so I tag along here. As for references, I have a number of P411 ok's and eccie reviews. I don't think someone should be dropped because they don't put up references here. As long as they are polite and obey the rules, let them contribute as much as they want. Once you start making it harder to join, less will attempt. Then the board will be less vibrant and decline.

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6 hours ago, Seeker5280 said:

I started posting here to contribute to the topics that others have started.

Sometimes I may start a thread to get others to contribute to the topic.

 A list of people who troll or trying to get attention?

What the hell is going on here?

 

I think she was talking about lurkers and not people who troll. if I'm wrong she can punish me! :D

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7 hours ago, Seeker5280 said:

I started posting here to contribute to the topics that others have started.

Sometimes I may start a thread to get others to contribute to the topic.

 A list of people who troll or trying to get attention?

What the hell is going on here?

6 hours ago, Mustang87 said:

I've not actually done the math, but my guess is the vast majority of people who use this site rarely, if ever, post on these forums.  Some probably never read the threads.  They read the ads, see ladies, post reviews, collect references and enjoy this hobby, but otherwise keep their opinions to themselves.  I can certainly see the upside of just enjoying the hobby for what is should be without getting caught up in the drama that seems to always creep up in these threads. I think it would be a mistake to require them to do otherwise.

 

There is not such a list @seeker 5280. I was just looking at the huge list of members.  Didn’t recognize very many of the handles. @Mustang87 may have a point though. I bet a bunch of handles come to view the necessities, and not post in the forum. Makes sense!

6 hours ago, Mustang87 said:

I've not actually done the math, but my guess is the vast majority of people who use this site rarely, if ever, post on these forums.  Some probably never read the threads.  They read the ads, see ladies, post reviews, collect references and enjoy this hobby, but otherwise keep their opinions to themselves.  I can certainly see the upside of just enjoying the hobby for what is should be without getting caught up in the drama that seems to always creep up in these threads. I think it would be a mistake to require them to do otherwise.

 

6 hours ago, Mustang87 said:

I've not actually done the math, but my guess is the vast majority of people who use this site rarely, if ever, post on these forums.  Some probably never read the threads.  They read the ads, see ladies, post reviews, collect references and enjoy tut otherwise keep their opinions to themselves.  I can certainly see the upside of just enjoying the hobby for what is should be without getting caught up in the drama that seems to always creep up in these threads. I think it would be a mistake to require them to do otherwise.

 

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For what I might contribute, some would decline seeing me. 

On the flip side, one lady said she was thrilled that I called her.  She wanted to meet the man behind the keyboard. 

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18 minutes ago, frankenthaler91 said:

For what I might contribute, some would decline seeing me. 

On the flip side, one lady said she was thrilled that I called her.  She wanted to meet the man behind the keyboard. 

It's fun meeting the men behind the keyboards and the women too. I used to get so nervous meeting board members who actually participate in the forums. It was very intimidating at first. After awhile I started to realize we're all just regular folk...average Joe's and Josie's. Now I get excited to finally put a face with a handle and personality. The nature of sharing a bit of yourself, your thoughts and opinions, inevitably some people will be turned off and others will be drawn to you.  I'm sure there are many ladies who would be thrilled to meet you. 

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13 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

It's fun meeting the men behind the keyboards and the women too. I used to get so nervous meeting board members who actually participate in the forums. It was very intimidating at first. After awhile I started to realize we're all just regular folk...average Joe's and Josie's. Now I get excited to finally put a face with a handle and personality. The nature of sharing a bit of yourself, your thoughts and opinions, inevitably some people will be turned off and others will be drawn to you.  I'm sure there are many ladies who would be thrilled to meet you. 

   There’s a few people on here I’d like to meet... both men and women... go for a beer  have some laughs and what not... think it’d be fun...

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