How do you know if she faked it during oral?

[Guest]

15 hours ago, adventurous14 said:

OP: props for opening up about your kink, but expecting that every time puts (way) too much on a random provider. Do research and “field work” and look for a nympho or build a relationship with a comfortable lady. Your kink seems more about power dynamics: maybe explore dominant/submissive sexual relationships in the hobby, with a therapist or through reading/introspection...?

Thanks, but you are reading too much into what I said. By kink, I just meant sexual taste, nothing to do with power dynamics or domination.

2 hours ago, Laci French said:

Out of curiosity...how old are you?

I am turning 9 next month. But seriously, what does my age has to do with experience or the original question?

[Admiral C]

2 hours ago, NEO1 said:

Thanks, but you are reading too much into what I said. By kink, I just meant sexual taste, nothing to do with power dynamics or domination.

I am turning 9 next month. But seriously, what does my age has to do with experience or the original question?

I suspect the question about your age is born from your posts coming off inexperienced and young. Let's cut to the chase here...it IS about ego...though MAYBE you have convinced yourself it is for her. Women are not all alike in what they enjoy in oral technique, nor do they all orgasm the same way in the same time span so, "Improving yourself" is a nonsensical concept. Why might she fake it? She is tired...does not get off on oral....likes it a different way.....many other possible reasons. So....at some point enough is enough so she might fake it. Or...it might be genuine. HOWEVER, let's be clear. Really, down deep, your question is spawned by your ego-driven NEED to be a genuine "Stick-man", or in THIS case, genuine "Lick-man." No judgement, just truth....own it.

[ilovewomen]

On 5/6/2019 at 11:08 PM, NEO1 said:

Here is what I think: 98% of the female orgasms in the hobby are fake. No matter how good you think you are or how strong her orgasm looked like.

 

Based on your statement above, you will never know if a lady is faking or not.  In fact, based on your questioning and replies to responses in this thread, I think most would fake it just to get you out the door.

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Admiral C said:

I suspect the question about your age is born from your posts coming off inexperienced and young. Let's cut to the chase here...it IS about ego...though MAYBE you have convinced yourself it is for her. Women are not all alike in what they enjoy in oral technique, nor do they all orgasm the same way in the same time span so, "Improving yourself" is a nonsensical concept. Why might she fake it? She is tired...does not get off on oral....likes it a different way.....many other possible reasons. So....at some point enough is enough so she might fake it. Or...it might be genuine. HOWEVER, let's be clear. Really, down deep, your question is spawned by your ego-driven NEED to be a genuine "Stick-man", or in THIS case, genuine "Lick-man." No judgement, just truth....own it.

Let me simplify it for you. Here are two guys:

1- Would rather have her fake it, so he think he is THE MAN and not gets his ego hurt.

2- Would rather not have her fake it, so he can learn new things and improve what he is doing.

Now which one has the ego problem? The reason providers fake it in the first place is because if not, they would only see one-time clients.

I can understand if faking an orgasm was part of some type of role-play where both parties know it is faked. But to give the impression that he made her cum and the dumbass believes it is pathetic to say the least.

Edited May 9, 2019 by NEO1

[Guest]

1 hour ago, ilovewomen said:

Based on your statement above, you will never know if a lady is faking or not.  In fact, based on your questioning and replies to responses in this thread, I think most would fake it just to get you out the door.

No body knows. Most are already faking it to get your ass out the door.

[Admiral C]

13 minutes ago, NEO1 said:

Let me simplify it for you. Here are two guys:

1- Would rather have her fake it, so he think he is THE MAN and not gets his ego hurt.

2- Would rather not have her fake it, so he can learn new things and improve what he is doing.

Now which one has the ego problem? The reason providers fake it in the first place is because if not, they would only see one-time clients.

I can understand if faking an orgasm was part of some type of role-play where both parties know it is faked. But to give the impression that he made her cum and the dumbass believes it is pathetic to say the least.

Have you ASKED her what she likes? Have you invited her to give directions during oral?...Such as, just one possible..." Mmm. hey...if anything gets you off more, telling me would be good...just going for it even better"

[BadBoy]

40 minutes ago, NEO1 said:

Let me simplify it for you. Here are two guys....

Dude, you need to realize that there comes a time in every thread when it is done.  Further posting is just pointless.  We got your point.  You heard all the positive input you are going to get.  Dead thread.

[JungleGeorge]

Next time, bring a Hitachi magic wand with the g-spot attachment. When you absolutely, positively have to make her cum, accept no substitutes .  Fast forward to 4:00

 

Edited May 9, 2019 by JungleGeorge
hold my beer

[timesnewroman]

 

[Bit Banger]

There are a few physiological tells which would be difficult to fake w/o extensive biofeedback training.

[Elle Blake]

On 5/6/2019 at 3:22 PM, NEO1 said:

This question is mainly for the experienced bisexual ladies, but others' inputs are welcome:

If you have ever given a woman an oral, would you be able to tell if she faked it? I am asking for specific signs that are impossible to act out without having a real orgasm.

Thanks!

When a woman has an orgasm., It won't be a scream....  It will be a low pitch moan from deep within...  Then loud yelling screaming,  tightening of muscles....  ETC...

[K2dnvrfun]

1 minute ago, Elle Blake said:

When a woman has an orgasm., It won't be a scream....  It will be a low pitch moan from deep within...  Then loud yelling screaming,  tightening of muscles....  ETC...

Don't bother, he doesn't want to hear it. Just wants to tell people they have no clue all women fake it all the time.

[Guest]

2 hours ago, BadBoy said:

Dude, you need to realize that there comes a time in every thread when it is done.  Further posting is just pointless.  We got your point.  You heard all the positive input you are going to get.  Dead thread.

No body forced you to read this thread. If you do not like my posting, ignore the thread. Also who are "We"? Are you a royalty or something?

[Guest]

2 hours ago, JungleGeorge said:

Next time, bring a Hitachi magic wand with the g-spot attachment. When you absolutely, positively have to make her cum, accept no substitutes .  Fast forward to 4:00

 

Will definitely consider haha

2 hours ago, timesnewroman said:

 

 

lol

Edited May 9, 2019 by NEO1

[Guest]

1 hour ago, K2dnvrfun said:

Don't bother, he doesn't want to hear it. Just wants to tell people they have no clue all women fake it all the time.

To be precise, 98% of the time.

Nevertheless, there were some good indicators mentioned in this thread. Though nothing is certain.

[Hunter VanDyke]

On 5/7/2019 at 1:15 PM, NEO1 said:

It is my kink knowing she O'd for REAL. That is why it is important. I do not even care if I O'd.

I didn't realize a lady having a real orgasm was a kink to anybody these days. I feel like we're going waaaaay back in time with this post :/

[Vassago]

You don't. Keep kissing until you need to move forward. It's not that hard.

[ilovewomen]

12 hours ago, NEO1 said:

Let me simplify it for you. Here are two guys:

1- Would rather have her fake it, so he think he is THE MAN and not gets his ego hurt.

2- Would rather not have her fake it, so he can learn new things and improve what he is doing.

Now which one has the ego problem? The reason providers fake it in the first place is because if not, they would only see one-time clients.

I can understand if faking an orgasm was part of some type of role-play where both parties know it is faked. But to give the impression that he made her cum and the dumbass believes it is pathetic to say the least.

You just keep digging a hole with your responses.  Remember, the ladies are reading your responses and deciding if they will see you or not.

[K2dnvrfun]

2 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

You just keep digging a hole with your responses.  Remember, the ladies are reading your responses and deciding if they will see you or not.

I'm going to guess the answer is Not.

[Admiral C]

13 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

I didn't realize a lady having a real orgasm was a kink to anybody these days. I feel like we're going waaaaay back in time with this post :/

From my perspective, the lady getting off during 69 is the hot ticket. The ramped up intensity of sounds, movements, all senses, fighting for some self control all at once during the explosion....Yowza! For me, if the lady gets there before I do, it is likely to send me over the finish line. Indeed, if the big moment came and my partner was NOT getting off, I would hope she WOULD fake it to ramp up all the sensations. If later I'm told she faked it...I would happily refund every cent she paid me!!

[Sexi Sadi]

I would rather take the time to express what would get me to that point than to fake it. I love to feel good. 

[Elle Blake]

On 5/8/2019 at 9:00 PM, K2dnvrfun said:

Don't bother, he doesn't want to hear it. Just wants to tell people they have no clue all women fake it all the time.

Oh well fuck.  I can tell!!!

On 5/6/2019 at 3:22 PM, NEO1 said:

This question is mainly for the experienced bisexual ladies, but others' inputs are welcome:

If you have ever given a woman an oral, would you be able to tell if she faked it? I am asking for specific signs that are impossible to act out without having a real orgasm.

Thanks!

When a woman has an orgasm., It won't be a scream....  It will be a low pitch moan from deep within...  Then loud yelling screaming,  tightening of muscles....  ETC...

[average1]

19 hours ago, Elle Blake said:

Oh well fuck.  I can tell!!!

When a woman has an orgasm., It won't be a scream....  It will be a low pitch moan from deep within...  Then loud yelling screaming,  tightening of muscles....  ETC...

Your description is causing a lot of swelling in just the right areas.  Oh my !!!!  

[Seeker5280]

Yes, oh my.

[Guest]

On 5/9/2019 at 7:28 AM, ilovewomen said:

You just keep digging a hole with your responses.  Remember, the ladies are reading your responses and deciding if they will see you or not.

You care about me getting laid through this website more than I do.

[Guest]

 

 

On 5/8/2019 at 10:46 PM, Hunter VanDyke said:

I didn't realize a lady having a real orgasm was a kink to anybody these days. I feel like we're going waaaaay back in time with this post :/

There is just something awesome about a woman knowing how to "use" someone's head to get off...

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5adede4707289

[BadBoy]

On 5/10/2019 at 7:26 PM, NEO1 said:

You care about me getting laid through this website more than I do.

Apparently so.

[Todoesprivado]

On 5/9/2019 at 7:28 AM, ilovewomen said:

You just keep digging a hole with your responses.  Remember, the ladies are reading your responses and deciding if they will see you or not.

I never understood what’s your real intention behind these statements. And I said “these” as is not the first ( I’m sure won’t be the last ) time you respond in this manner.

I’m sure everyone reading the forum is capable of making their own mind in regards of seeing or not seeing this guy, reading or not reading his posts, without the need of having someone giving biased advice. 

The forums have never been perfect... far from it. But from time you will get helpful information.  Lately they are just getting worse. 

It is time we all start considering the impact it may be having on potential new members and their choice of making TOB their preferred hobby destination.

 

[Hunter VanDyke]

3 minutes ago, Todoesprivado said:

I never understood what’s your real intention behind these statements. And I said “these” as is not the first ( I’m sure won’t be the last ) time you respond in this manner.

I’m sure everyone reading the forum is capable of making their own mind in regards of seeing or not seeing this guy, reading or not reading his posts, without the need of having someone giving biased advice. 

The forums have never been perfect... far from it. But from time you will get helpful information.  Lately they are just getting worse. 

It is time we all start considering the impact it may be having on potential new members and their choice of making TOB their preferred hobby destination.

 

The forums getting worse or better is all a matter of perspective. From as long as I've been around, which I'll admit is not long compared to most of the posters on the forums, it's consistently stayed the same. (Again, just my perspective). The longer I'm here the more I see the same posts recycling again and again, including the one you just posted. It seems like the ones who want to be here stay and the ones who don't go. Most of the guys are lurkers reading the reviews anyway.  Some of the lurkers I see who do read the forums get a kick out of them, and some I see really could care less one way or the other. They just want to meet a lady they like and have a good time. 

[Todoesprivado]

4 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

The forums getting worse or better is all a matter of perspective. From as long as I've been around, which I'll admit is not long compared to most of the posters on the forums, it's consistently stayed the same. (Again, just my perspective). The longer I'm here the more I see the same posts recycling again and again, including the one you just posted. It seems like the ones who want to be here stay and the ones who don't go. Most of the guys are lurkers reading the reviews anyway.  Some of the lurkers I see who do read the forums get a kick out of them, and some I see really could care less one way or the other. They just want to meet a lady they like and have a good time. 

Thank you for sharing, Hunter.

It is all a matter of perspective, I agree. I started back in 2017 and things just felt different , specially within the forums. 

Maybe is just me getting tired of hearing the same shit over and over.