Posted February 24, 2019 IMHO I would start with: Respect and kindness. Patience. Take your time. Explore and enjoy every aspect, every second of your playtime together. Let the importance of a big finish go for a while. Awareness. Pay attention to her. Be aware of all the subtle little sounds and reactions. Awareness. Stay with the ones that elicit the most intense response. Confidence. Not arrogance. Not selfishness. Don't be afraid to tell her what you like and want. Don't be afraid to gently, carefully guide her to fulfilling those likes and wants. Confidence. Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes and wants. Not in a whiney, wishy washy manner. Be genuine in wanting to please her Confidence. Once you have ask don't be afraid to let her teach you, show you. Go for it! Be the best you can be with her. Patience. All of the above Any other thought and opinions most welcome!!! 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 36 minutes ago, oldertruckguy-9225 said: IMHO I would start with: Respect and kindness. Patience. Take your time. Explore and enjoy every aspect, every second of your playtime together. Let the importance of a big finish go for a while. Awareness. Pay attention to her. Be aware of all the subtle little sounds and reactions. Awareness. Stay with the ones that elicit the most intense response. Confidence. Not arrogance. Not selfishness. Don't be afraid to tell her what you like and want. Don't be afraid to gently, carefully guide her to fulfilling those likes and wants. Confidence. Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes and wants. Not in a whiney, wishy washy manner. Be genuine in wanting to please her Confidence. Once you have ask don't be afraid to let her teach you, show you. Go for it! Be the best you can be with her. Patience. All of the above Any other thought and opinions most welcome!!! You got it. Basically caring about the other person and the great majority of the time it will be returned. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 Don't be afraid to experiment both as a receiver and as a giver. There is an old saying,"show me a man who won't go do we n on his wife and I'll take h r away from him!" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 If she says "Come back and see me again sometime" BINGO! Seriously...it's like most other things... I know it when I see it. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 Generosity. In ones time and affection. Small gifts to show you care. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 14 hours ago, oldertruckguy-9225 said: IMHO I would start with: Respect and kindness. Patience. Take your time. Explore and enjoy every aspect, every second of your playtime together. Let the importance of a big finish go for a while. Awareness. Pay attention to her. Be aware of all the subtle little sounds and reactions. Awareness. Stay with the ones that elicit the most intense response. Confidence. Not arrogance. Not selfishness. Don't be afraid to tell her what you like and want. Don't be afraid to gently, carefully guide her to fulfilling those likes and wants. Confidence. Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes and wants. Not in a whiney, wishy washy manner. Be genuine in wanting to please her Confidence. Once you have ask don't be afraid to let her teach you, show you. Go for it! Be the best you can be with her. Patience. All of the above Any other thought and opinions most welcome!!! Great post to read to start a Monday off on a positive note. If I give rep points to everyone who posts, I'll run out quickly. Based on the responses, so far, people want to share pleasure in a way that is respectful, fun, with a spirit of giving and being a gracious receiver. Thanks. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 Please, do not assume because a porn star likes it that way a real woman will. We are each different, and listening and paying attention is the magic key. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 Glad respect and kindness were at the top of the list 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 Respect, kindness and considerate should be at the top of the list. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 A ravenous sexual appetite and a willingness to forgive 😉 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 the ability to communicate... want to be a good lover - all you have to do is ask... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 25, 2019 6 hours ago, BadBoy said: A ravenous sexual appetite and a willingness to forgive 😉 Oh yeah, and a short memory. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 26, 2019 3 hours ago, BadBoy said: Oh yeah, and a short memory. Never has a women possessed a short memory 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 26, 2019 Actual "love" for the partner helps immensely. I have found the worst sex with my wife is better than the best sex with a paid woman. That's not to say that I can't have anonymous fun with absolutely zero emotional involvement, but the "connection" amps it up a bit. A hooker will never say. "Oh...oh...god, yes, I love you so muuuuuuuuuuuchhhh!" as she is practically crying from intense pleasure. That can't be beat. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 27, 2019 (edited) 2 hours ago, pitbull said: A hooker will never say. "Oh...oh...god, yes, I love you so muuuuuuuuuuuchhhh!" as she is practically crying from intense pleasure... Sure she will, but you have to ask extra nicely and leave a tip. YMMV Edited February 27, 2019 by BadBoy 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 27, 2019 Mental stimulation and laughter 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 27, 2019 4 hours ago, petey-9950 said: A muscular tongue 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 27, 2019 There is only one thing that makes a good lover........... practice! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 27, 2019 1 hour ago, Kaduk said: Kaduk, that looks floppy to me? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 28, 2019 9 hours ago, petey-9950 said: A muscular toungue Even better, two muscular tongues (no I do not have contact information): 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 28, 2019 A good lover also is verbal and communicates what things are working and which things are not so some learning can happen. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 28, 2019 if she owns one of these I can guarantee she is a good lover................................... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 28, 2019 3 hours ago, boink36 said: if she owns one of these I can guarantee she is a good lover................................... #Ifixditforyou 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 28, 2019 On 2/25/2019 at 8:07 PM, K2dnvrfun said: Never has a women possessed a short memory Bill shit! Ask her her weihgt and she gets amnesis. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 28, 2019 21 hours ago, petey-9950 said: Kaduk, that looks floppy to me? There is nothing floppy about Larkin Love’s tongue, sir. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 1, 2019 8 hours ago, JoDoe27 said: There is nothing floppy about Larkin Love’s tongue, sir. Larkin's tongue is famous (or is it infamous?). 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 1, 2019 Where the f....k is goggle when you need it?😁. Larkin? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
