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I wish l knew what GFE lite was.

No fiv does not get Mr Happy going.

Darn in hs wasn't that like 3rd base????

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7 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

What?????

He was saying in high school sticking finger in vagina was getting to 3rd base, something that gets him going

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Darn stevie your quick.

But really back to the question how can so many not be gfe and think it's going to work out.

May as well be a fbsm.

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1 hour ago, Turtle138 said:

Darn stevie your quick.

But really back to the question how can so many not be gfe and think it's going to work out.

May as well be a fbsm.

Clearly, you have your preferences. I have different preferences. Other clients have different ones, than either of us. Personally, I don't consider FIV as part of the GFE definition. 

Some providers do not like FIV with clients. I understand, and accept, that. (Some civilian girls dislike it, as well.)

My advice is: search for those who allow it, per reviews and ads. Good luck! :-)

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This is my favorite GFE light:

kt60jkr.jpg

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10 minutes ago, Turtle138 said:

So what constitutes GFE??

Good Faith Estimate :)

Wait, perhaps you mean girl friend experience

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gfe

In all the suggested definitions I see no mention of FIV.  But that is the problem with gfe - it is a pretty vague term.  But rather than criticizing ladies' choices cause they don't offer what you want how about searching the reviews, etc. for what you want.  FIV is a tough one cause some guys show up with unwashed hands, dirty nails, sharp dry cuticles and go for the rammer in dry and hammer away approach.  Definitely a YMMV activity.  You can greatly expand (or shrink) many ladies' menu by how you present yourself .... just sayin.

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15 minutes ago, BadBoy said:

This is my favorite GFE light:

kt60jkr.jpg

I know someone that has one of those!

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17 minutes ago, Turtle138 said:

So what constitutes GFE??

You'll never find a firm description, that everyone agrees on.

Some expect BBBJ, deep kissing, full service, no rush, and MSOG.

Some guys want less, some want more.

Feel free to search the forums, there have been many threads about it.

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Personally, I have only met a few clients that I enjoy fiv. The reason? A majority of clients shove their knobs up there like a doctor checking a guy's prostate. It does not feel good, and it can rip us or make us tender which ruins a chance of us being ready for another client if they aren't the only one that day. So a lot of ladies make rules on those kind of things to preserve their "money maker". We can't make money if we are out of commission, and our business is commission based.

I can say that I don't see clients again if they are too aggressive...to me, I just can't afford to have to heal because some client can't figure out how to be gentle with their bodyparts, and I am including the mouth in that statement.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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3 minutes ago, SultryKitten said:

Personally, I have only met a few clients that I enjoy fiv. The reason? A majority of clients shove their knobs up there like a doctor checking a guy's prostate. It does not feel good, and it can rip us or make us tender which ruins a chance of us being ready for another client if they aren't the only one that day. So a lot of ladies make rules on those kind of things to preserve their "money maker". We can't make money if we are out of commission, and our business is commission based.

I can say that I don't see clients again if they are too aggressive...to me, I just can't afford to have to heal because some client can't figure out how to be gentle with their bodyparts, and I am including the mouth in that statement.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

This is what I always figured and personally stay away from FIV in the hobby.  And for the record, my personal understanding of GFE is kissing, BBBJ, DATY and CFS.  Opinions vary on that as we all know. 

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16 hours ago, Turtle138 said:

I wish l knew what GFE lite was.

 

 

GFE lite, mehhhhhhhhhhhhh…….. totally lame and that just means I let you daty on me only! just as bad as the whole platinum, gold, silver, and bronze package type of lady!!!

GFE on the other hand is completely vague. to me, I interpret this as if I was hanging out with my girlfriend. and these are the ladies I seek! 

looking at reviews will help you solve this mystery! and for Christ sake wash up your giblets before you go see a GFE lady! as you may get a YMMV experience if you don't. which she has every right to give you the stop short move if you don't wash your privates!

 

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Glad we have opened up some communication. 

Just rubbing the outside works wonders for most 

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Yea ramming no wano.

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For me GFE is chemistry and connection in the first place. 

Then, girlfriends and providers are not robots programmed to like or do a set of predetermined activities. Therfore, your girlfriend might not like FIV, for example, but she is still your girlfriend. So GFE providers may not like or allow some activities.

Being said that, in terms of activities, I think the minimum standard for a GFE is: BBBJ, DATY and reasonable kissing.

 

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2 hours ago, SultryKitten said:

Personally, I have only met a few clients that I enjoy fiv. The reason? A majority of clients shove their knobs up there like a doctor checking a guy's prostate. It does not feel good, and it can rip us or make us tender which ruins a chance of us being ready for another client if they aren't the only one that day. So a lot of ladies make rules on those kind of things to preserve their "money maker". We can't make money if we are out of commission, and our business is commission based.

I can say that I don't see clients again if they are too aggressive...to me, I just can't afford to have to heal because some client can't figure out how to be gentle with their bodyparts, and I am including the mouth in that statement.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

I agree from what I have heard a lot guys are to quick, not enough prep.time and rough. A little lube, gentle fov, gentle labia play then gentle fiv.

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7 minutes ago, gnarley_boy12 said:

I agree from what I have heard a lot guys are to quick, not enough prep.time and rough. A little lube, gentle fov, gentle labia play then gentle fiv.

Gnarly you hit it right on the nail.

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2 minutes ago, Turtle138 said:

Gnarly you hit it right on the nail.

I hope the ladies agree!

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45 minutes ago, gnarley_boy12 said:

I agree from what I have heard a lot guys are to quick, not enough prep.time and rough. A little lube, gentle fov, gentle labia play then gentle fiv.

Or slide it in behind your tongue (no additional lube needed).

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55 minutes ago, BadBoy said:

Or slide it in behind your tongue (no additional lube needed).

Different ways for different situations. Depends. 

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5 hours ago, SultryKitten said:

Personally, I have only met a few clients that I enjoy fiv. The reason? A majority of clients shove their knobs up there like a doctor checking a guy's prostate. It does not feel good, and it can rip us or make us tender which ruins a chance of us being ready for another client if they aren't the only one that day. So a lot of ladies make rules on those kind of things to preserve their "money maker". We can't make money if we are out of commission, and our business is commission based.

I can say that I don't see clients again if they are too aggressive...to me, I just can't afford to have to heal because some client can't figure out how to be gentle with their bodyparts, and I am including the mouth in that statement.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

 Well said Samantha. Gentleman fail to realize that inside  is soft moist tissue at all times. And fingernail edges are rough. I've had to tell quite a few guys no, and then I had a few guys that are great .... Just like DATY....YMMV goes both ways :)

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there is no such thing as 'gentle FIV' ...........Im sorry. Help me out here ladies.....please

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FIV to me stands for FIST in Vjayjay. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

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2 minutes ago, CandiO said:

FIV to me stands for FIST in Vjayjay. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

Fingers not fist. 

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On 2/24/2019 at 0:55 PM, SultryKitten said:

Personally, I have only met a few clients that I enjoy fiv. The reason? A majority of clients shove their knobs up there like a doctor checking a guy's prostate. It does not feel good, and it can rip us or make us tender which ruins a chance of us being ready for another client if they aren't the only one that day. So a lot of ladies make rules on those kind of things to preserve their "money maker". We can't make money if we are out of commission, and our business is commission based.

I can say that I don't see clients again if they are too aggressive...to me, I just can't afford to have to heal because some client can't figure out how to be gentle with their bodyparts, and I am including the mouth in that statement.

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

I’m going to speculate that most guys don’t understand the art of subtlety. Sticking fingers in sensitive and delicate areas somehow translates into beating eggs for an omelet to some dudes. Probably because they see it in porn. I’m not surprised at all most providers don’t want this. I also don’t really consider fiv gfe, but whatever floats your boat.

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GFE is more of an experience than a menu.  Part of the GFE for me is trying to find out through communication what makes the lady feel good.  I think that's the way most girl friends are.  They want their feelings and sensations considered in what intimate relations take place.  I think it's good for the gentleman to open the connection by telling the lady that he is willing to take direction and listen and observe her desires and reactions.  I have been with many women and I have found few ladies that like the treatment that seems to be the norm in porn.  That's not to say there are ladies that like it more raucous, but I approach a GFE as if I would like to return again and have the lady happy to have me back.

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Trimming your fingernails and filling them soft also making sure you wash your hands as well as other body parts is important before we start. If you feel like you need an additional shower before? Please let me know? Important to  be gentle with us ladies. I have mouthwash for those who might feel the need to refresh their breath, wash clothes, Shower soap you name it.  It is important to me that the client feels comfortable as well as confident!

Then let the games began! 😊

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GFE = YMMV.

Anyone who has ever had a girlfriend knows that...

hobby dating:  so many variables in any given moment of any given date that you may set yourself up for a fall if you enter with a whole lot of expectations...

you can have a different GFE with different ladies and eventually if everyone sticks around long enough you may end up with a a group of gals you like to date - each for their own reasons...

 

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GFE=Great Fucking Experience, and thet Great Fucking Experience varys from person to person. So as long as you can walk away from your particular meeting and think, " wow, that was fucking great', regardless of what activities did, or didn't, take place, then that sir is GFE. 

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8 hours ago, Juanmotai said:

GFE=Great Fucking Experience, and thet Great Fucking Experience varys from person to person. So as long as you can walk away from your particular meeting and think, " wow, that was fucking great', regardless of what activities did, or didn't, take place, then that sir is GFE. 

This! ^^^^^^

see older men understand how to touch a lady! 

GFE definition from my point of view 

its supposed to be an experience and not necessarily services. If no fiv is suddenly not GFE well wtf is it? And I’m sorry but the attitude of well if this one tiny thing isn’t on the menu then I’m out. DUDE! Just because you’re paying a lady for her time doesn’t mean you have access to her body to do whatever you want. The OP probably isn’t like this, but the point is, others out there do think this and that’s the problem with terms like GFE, PSE etc. and whatever happened to HME? 

Leave expectations at the door. Relax, have fun, build trust with a lady and guess what happens....you sometimes get what you want. We don’t know you guys if it’s the first time. Want GFE, slow down, jerk off before your appointment if it helps, get to know her, ask her likes and dislikes. LET HER SEDUCE YOU! Let her show you her skills...every lady has special tricks(or should) she’ll show you. If you become a regular, you’ll get treated to little tricks every time. 

Long time hobbyers will tell you that every lady is different and finding out what special skills a certain lady has is part of the journey. 

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