MikeInCOSprings

Condom Broke - Freaking Out a Little

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47 minutes ago, Laci French said:

This is so fucked up and irresponsible of you.  Do you realize how ridiculous and stupid this thread makes you look?  

Get your ass checked and stop fucking around and we do not want to know the blow by blow. 

Grow the fuck up and take responsibility for your actions. 

I pray you have not scheduled with another lady or had sex with anyone during this time...you and your damn drama is not an amusing thread. 

Thanks, @Laci French! I was starting to get worried that his next thread would be a swipe by swipe account of his next ass-wiping... :mad:

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1 hour ago, Laci French said:

This is so fucked up and irresponsible of you.  Do you realize how ridiculous and stupid this thread makes you look?  

Get your ass checked and stop fucking around and we do not want to know the blow by blow. 

Grow the fuck up and take responsibility for your actions. 

I pray you have not scheduled with another lady or had sex with anyone during this time...you and your damn drama is not an amusing thread. 

Mods don’t you think it’s time thatthis thread died a quick death.

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23 hours ago, MikeInCOSprings said:

Update: 2 weeks into this...

Last weekend I went to the urgent care and got a double dose of antibiotics.  Pain went away after a day.  I thought I was clear.

This morning (exactly 2 weeks after the incident) I noticed a small pimple/ulcer/blister on the end of my dick.  This isn't normal for me at all.  I literally have never had anything like this happen in the last 10 years.  Maybe it's nothing, or maybe a symptom of something bad.  Fuck.  2 weeks after contact is a little late for Herpes from what I understand.  And it's a single tiny (like 2mm) mark, not a bunch of small ones, which doesn't track with any STD's that I am aware of.

I've intentionally waited a couple weeks for testing because some things take time to show up.  Now I am ready.  Unfortunately Planned Parenthood has a 2 week backlog for appointments.  Probably going to try AnyLabTestNow tomorrow, which will do a full STD panel for $230, but if that shows anything I'll have to find a doctor to handle treatment

The damage so far: Urgent Care visit + antibiotics - $350.  Testing tomorrow - $230.  Another test in a month or two - $$$.  This is adding up.  And if I end up actually having something that wasn't knocked out by the antibiotics, this gets worse financially and otherwise.  Plus weeks of paranoia and not being able to play.  Fuck! 

Stupid condom!

 

Double dose of antibiotics for what?  I’m sure they had to do some type of test and aren’t just handing out DOUBLE doses of antibiotics.  

Please elaborate because I’m calling total and complete bullshit on your FUD story. 

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8 minutes ago, Laci French said:

Double dose of antibiotics for what?  I’m sure they had to do some type of test and aren’t just handing out DOUBLE doses of antibiotics.  

Please elaborate because I’m calling total and complete bullshit on your FUD story. 

+1  This story is smelling worse and worse...

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I hope the mods don’t shut it down. People come on and post some outlandish  shit with little consequence. THIS, while definitely out there, has very real repercussions. Here you have an active member openly stating that he thinks he might have an STD, and is intentionally dragging his feet on getting tested. And for all anyone knows hasn’t informed the provider. If true everyone should be aware of him, his actions during, and hope he updates on the matter. Otherwise it just falls into the ether.

At the same time he could be lying about it all, or lie that he’s been treated when that too could be fabricated. 

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7 minutes ago, JoDoe27 said:

I hope the mods don’t shut it down. People come on and post some outlandish  shit with little consequence. THIS, while definitely out there, has very real repercussions. Here you have an active member openly stating that he thinks he might have an STD, and is intentionally dragging his feet on getting tested. And for all anyone knows hasn’t informed the provider. If true everyone should be aware of him, his actions during, and hope he updates on the matter. Otherwise it just falls into the ether.

At the same time he could be lying about it all, or lie that he’s been treated when that too could be fabricated. 

You nailed it and thank you!

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4 hours ago, Laci French said:

This is so fucked up and irresponsible of you.  Do you realize how ridiculous and stupid this thread makes you look?  

 

 

Laci French, exactly what part of this is fucked up and irresponsible of me?  The broken condom?  Getting antibiotics?  Waiting to get tested for the incubation period to pass so I can have a useful test?  Or posting about my situation?  I am not clear on what part of this you find so fucked up.

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To all offended readers: I clearly seem to have misread the intent of this forum or crossed some line that I am not aware of.  It was NOT my intention to stir the pot with this thread.  This is definitely not FUD, definitely not a made up story, and is quite a scary ordeal for me.  

While I don't feel the need to prove my "TOB cred", it's appropriate to point out I've been on here for several years now, seen plenty of providers, contributed plenty of reviews, etc.  I think it's clear I am not here to troll.

If you're all getting the popcorn out in eager anticipation of the coming flame war, you can proceed without me.  I am not interested in further debate or discussion.  My apologies for spamming your board with my story.  I'll keep the rest of this to myself.  Thanks.

 

 

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Hope you have told everyone you have had contact with in the past personally what kind of problems you're having because I don't think with what you are saying has broken out it is only a week and a half or two weeks old start taking responsibility for your actions

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1 hour ago, MikeInCOSprings said:

 

Laci French, exactly what part of this is fucked up and irresponsible of me?  The broken condom?  Getting antibiotics?  Waiting to get tested for the incubation period to pass so I can have a useful test?  Or posting about my situation?  I am not clear on what part of this you find so fucked up.

Have you gotten tested? What were the DOUBLE antibiotics for?  Did you contact your Provider in question?

 Anything else of your drama you would like to share?  

Did you have sex in the last 2 weeks and potentially spread this?

i do hope your love member passes that pipple/blister🥰

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Have you gotten tested?

Not yet.  There is no point in doing so until potential infections have a chance to incubate (https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/how-soon-get-tested-for-stds-unprotected-sex/).  And after the antibiotics there's no point in doing so until they've had a chance to do their job, unless you enjoy paying for extraneous STD testing.  At this point I could still come up hot for a number of things that the antibiotics still have not done their job on (assuming I even have anything).  I have been advised to wait for 14 days after the antibiotics before doing testing (which is 1 more week).  And after that, I still need to go back in another 2-3 months, because there are other STD's that may not show up in a test until up to 3 months after exposure.  Fun stuff.

BTW, this is all from two medical professionals (ER doc from last week, and a NP from today at Planned Parenthood).  But I bet a smart girl like yourself already knew all these things, right?

 

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What were the DOUBLE antibiotics for?  

Single doses of Azithromycin (Z-pack) and Ceftriaxone are a pretty standard ER treatment for people who may have been exposed to STD's after unprotected sex or sexual assault.  Look it up.  Time is of the essence in these situations so they don't wait for test results before giving this treatment.  When I described what happened to the Emergi-Care doc, this is what he suggested (and what I was there to get).  Not sure which part of this smells like BS to you.  This is pretty standard stuff.

 

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Did you contact your Provider in question?

Yes, twice now, so I feel like I've fulfilled my moral obligation to her.  She claims to get tested monthly, but generally seemed uninterested in what I was telling her, and I still see her advertising.  I can't prove that it was her, and for all I know she may not be infected and this may all be in my head, so it doesn't feel appropriate to publicly call her out.

 

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Did you have sex in the last 2 weeks and potentially spread this?

NO, and please feel free to point out anywhere that I've indicated otherwise.  Would I really be posting this shit on an internet message board if I was out trying to play while dealing with this?

 

I guess I thought this escort-related message board was the right place to post things related to... seeing escorts.  My bad. 

 

 

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1 hour ago, MikeInCOSprings said:

To all offended readers: I clearly seem to have misread the intent of this forum or crossed some line that I am not aware of.  It was NOT my intention to stir the pot with this thread.  This is definitely not FUD, definitely not a made up story, and is quite a scary ordeal for me.  

While I don't feel the need to prove my "TOB cred", it's appropriate to point out I've been on here for several years now, seen plenty of providers, contributed plenty of reviews, etc.  I think it's clear I am not here to troll.

If you're all getting the popcorn out in eager anticipation of the coming flame war, you can proceed without me.  I am not interested in further debate or discussion.  My apologies for spamming your board with my story.  I'll keep the rest of this to myself.  Thanks.

 

 

Mike no offense buddy, I felt your pain with your first post but clearly, the majority of us want you to go get checked out or tested. The fact you keep posting without getting tested is what WE are not understanding. I bet if you get tested, you might see a different attitude in the room. Take the advice from the room and get tested so that you can ease your pain. TOB forums are a great place to get advice and in your case I think you should take it. Good luck and I am hoping you are negative and its all in your little and big head.

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I guess I am seeing this a bit differently than most (surprise .... never before!) and I reserve the right to be full of shit.  But, speaking of shit, I think ole Mike is getting entirely too much and see no reason to jump on and almost accuse him of a few things that he neither said he did nor has given any indication of doing.  He has been here years and always seemed a standup guy. 

That said, DUDE!! TMI.  Not the first post or the topic but practically painting a picture ...... not necessary.  That made some folks uncomfortable, and the vast majority here do NOT want to be made uncomfortable!  But some topics that are relevant can be uncomfortable, but are they not useful reminders to be aware of what you are doing and what could be a rare worst case that could happen?  I think so.

Lastly we all need to be careful to never ASSUME the worst, especially of long established members.  I do not mind discomfort on occasion but can do without drama. 

I know. TLDR ;)

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33 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

I guess I am seeing this a bit differently than most (surprise .... never before!) and I reserve the right to be full of shit.  But, speaking of shit, I think ole Mike is getting entirely too much and see no reason to jump on and almost accuse him of a few things that he neither said he did nor has given any indication of doing.  He has been here years and always seemed a standup guy. 

That said, DUDE!! TMI.  Not the first post or the topic but practically painting a picture ...... not necessary.  That made some folks uncomfortable, and the vast majority here do NOT want to be made uncomfortable!  But some topics that are relevant can be uncomfortable, but are they not useful reminders to be aware of what you are doing and what could be a rare worst case that could happen?  I think so.

Lastly we all need to be careful to never ASSUME the worst, especially of long established members.  I do not mind discomfort on occasion but can do without drama. 

I know. TLDR ;)

Actually I think that’s the part though; there was a fairly graphic picture painted but massive holes in really everything else. Like the important parts. I knew more about his dick than the fact he’d actually contacted the provider, why he was waiting to get tested (doctor recommendation vs simply not liking the cost) , and a few other bits spelled out in the last post. So I think the cumulative reaction after however much time passed between the OP and follow up dick lesion blurb with no other info was warranted to some degree.  I don’t think anyone is owed an explanation really ever though in this case I was hoping he’d continue to give updates. 

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1 hour ago, MikeInCOSprings said:

Not yet.  There is no point in doing so until potential infections have a chance to incubate (https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/how-soon-get-tested-for-stds-unprotected-sex/).  And after the antibiotics there's no point in doing so until they've had a chance to do their job, unless you enjoy paying for extraneous STD testing.  At this point I could still come up hot for a number of things that the antibiotics still have not done their job on (assuming I even have anything).  I have been advised to wait for 14 days after the antibiotics before doing testing (which is 1 more week).  And after that, I still need to go back in another 2-3 months, because there are other STD's that may not show up in a test until up to 3 months after exposure.  Fun stuff.

BTW, this is all from two medical professionals (ER doc from last week, and a NP from today at Planned Parenthood).  But I bet a smart girl like yourself already knew all these things, right?

 

Single doses of Azithromycin (Z-pack) and Ceftriaxone are a pretty standard ER treatment for people who may have been exposed to STD's after unprotected sex or sexual assault.  Look it up.  Time is of the essence in these situations so they don't wait for test results before giving this treatment.  When I described what happened to the Emergi-Care doc, this is what he suggested (and what I was there to get).  Not sure which part of this smells like BS to you.  This is pretty standard stuff.

 

Yes, twice now, so I feel like I've fulfilled my moral obligation to her.  She claims to get tested monthly, but generally seemed uninterested in what I was telling her, and I still see her advertising.  I can't prove that it was her, and for all I know she may not be infected and this may all be in my head, so it doesn't feel appropriate to publicly call her out.

 

NO, and please feel free to point out anywhere that I've indicated otherwise.  Would I really be posting this shit on an internet message board if I was out trying to play while dealing with this?

 

I guess I thought this escort-related message board was the right place to post things related to... seeing escorts.  My bad. 

 

 

So urgent care did a STD full panel on you and your script was double antibiotics?

So many holes in this story and you realize there can be incubation period for these things?  Given that...have you contacted every lady you’ve been with over the last 6-12 months?

 

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Laci French - As I've already stated at least once before, when I went to the Emergi-Care sufficient time had not passed for most stuff to incubate and produce a positive response.  There would be almost no point in doing a STD panel with such a short period of time passed since exposure.  That is straight from the ER doc (at that point, I didn't realize that incubation time was a thing), and backed up by numerous other sources.  And given the affiliation of the Emergi-Care facility that I visited with my primary care physician, and the fact that I don't want a potentially positive STD test on the electronic medical record that they jointly share and maintain, I told them that I'd prefer to do it elsewhere (Planned Parenthood) when the time came.  They treated me based on the info I provided, and documented it as a UTI.  They didn't give me a script, and gave me the injection and z-pack in their facility. 

I've answered all your questions and at this point I think you've demonstrated that clearly don't know what you're talking about, and are just trying to save face.  Everything I've stated here is consistent with how ER's and care providers handle situations like this.  I don't know what reason you have to think this is a joke or exaggeration - I've been on here for 8 years and have regularly contributed to the site and the community without issue to this point.  If it floats your boat to call me out, thinking that this is something it isn't, then have fun with that.  I intended on walking away from this earlier this evening, but have obviously been trolled into a debate with you.  I'll let the good folks of TOB be the judge of what is realistic and reasonable.  I am done responding to you and your accusations, and am done updating this thread.  Really.  Don't take my lack of further replies as acquiescence to your accusations or anything else you're saying, I just have better things to do than argue with you.  It was never my intention to stir up such a shitstorm.  Best of luck to you all. 

 

 

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The truth is, there are some topics that CAN'T be brought to the forum. NOT because they're invalid or unworthy, but because they throw shade on the alternate reality narrative that ONLY TOB escorts are clean. Safe. Pretty. Sexy. Multi-orgasmic and worthy of canonization.

I, for one, followed the timeline and understand you seemingly did the right thing by going to the ER, right away. And that you followed the advise and regimen of the doctors you saw. I, for one, see the PSA in your post and applaud you for it. I and others have appreciated your candor.

Fuck the TOB Gods AKA Usual Suspects, @MikeInCOSprings. They're never pleased.

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And even if you did make it up which, I don't think is the case and frankly, that the self-aggrandized think anyone has the time to do is laughable, it's STILL a good PSA! I mean, these hoes AIN'T loyal.

 

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Just skimming through, don't give a crap about people sniping at each other.  It does take time to generate antibodies to infections, and it's antibodies that most detection tests look for, not the infection itself.

Here's a great chart, showing that it can take months before detecting some infections:  https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/how-soon-get-tested-for-stds-unprotected-sex/.  Going off that chart, it's entirely reasonable that an STD panel isn't that useful for a lot of potential exposures for a month or so, doing it within a week only will give you 2 potential results.  4-6 weeks will give you results for over half the potential infections.

 

 

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Probably already been mentioned, but from my understanding the clinic gave him a prophylactic for two very common STDs; Z-Pack and a shot in the butt. It's common practice to give the treatment for these ailments if you believe you've been exposed to them, regardless of whether you have them or not. After all, the clinic still loves to make money and if it turns out you don't have anything, no harm no foul with getting the antibiotics. So technically  he did get a double dose of antibiotics but it's one antibiotic for two different diseases. 

My concern would be the lesion. I don't think either one of the treatments you described would cure syphilis, and if it's herpilly-lerpillies or HPV, antibiotics won't do shit.

I agree with Great Owl. I think people overreacted a bit. That being said if folks can't understand or accept the risks involved with doing this, they should probably not be doing it. Despite all the comments in the past about how much 'cleaner' and 'better maintained' providers are, the fact remains. People with multiple sex partners fucking other people with multiple sex partners comes with some risk, no matter how much you guard yourself against it.

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I am so effing tired of seeing this thread.

Nobody really wants to hear a blow by blow of your supposed treatment.

 

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I had a condom break one time(like 5 years ago), and the guy confessed that he saw another gal in the biz bareback so I freaked a bit. I went right away and got Plan B which I knew was the only thing I could do at the moment, and then I just waited about 3 weeks(which is when they tend to state is best to check) and got tested which luckily, everything was all good. The nurse told me that if I felt that I might have been infected that if I had gone to a clinic earlier than waiting they would have most likely prescribed something in advance so I can see the reasoning for the meds.

Mike, you are doing your part in getting this resolved, but yeah, you kind of need to chill out. You made a choice to partake in this business, and you saw a lady that was sketchy...well, the reality is that getting an STD can happen. If you don't want to catch anything then you need to stay with your wife(if your married), be with a lady that you only see that shows regular testing(and even that isn't 100%), or go celibate. We all know what we are walking into in this business, and know that there can be repercussions if something happens. It sucks, but that is life.

I do hope all of this is for nothing, and that everything tests out fine, but relax...it isn't the end of the world. Find out what is up and then learn from this accident. Good luck!

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

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The same thing happened to me OP. 

She was a high volume bargain bin girl. Everything was good, then it started feeling awesome... I finished... looked down and I started to panic right away. 

I FREAKED, she didn't even care.  At the time I was 23, no insurance. She then proceeded to tell me that she's not worried because of my reaction, that she knew I was not infected with a STI...

I went to the doc and got tested every month for a year and a half before I got the A-OK. They never even gave me antibiotics. The doc asked me if there were sores or menstrual blood, I said NOPE... He told me that my risk of exposure was minimal. He then proceeded to tell me that a vagina is self lubricating, and it's meant to be stretched and designed by nature to keep it'self from ripping(Very low chance of blood transfer). He then asked me if I did any butt play, he said I'd be 100% screwed if I did and she had a STI. 

I literally sweated myself to sleep for the first 6 months. 

 

Keep your chin up. You'll be okay. I'd bet on it. 

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So far so good.  Good results back from everything that could be tested for at this point and it is all negative.  Need to go back in another 4 weeks for a few more tests for other things that take 90 days to incubate, but no symptoms, so hopefully all clear.

This has been an experience.  I've learned more about STDs, how to get them, what they do to you, how completely fucked some of them can leave you, than I ever wanted to know.  It has been eye opening and will change how I do business going forward.  Live and learn.

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27 minutes ago, MikeInCOSprings said:

So far so good.  Good results back from everything that could be tested for at this point and it is all negative.  Need to go back in another 4 weeks for a few more tests for other things that take 90 days to incubate, but no symptoms, so hopefully all clear.

This has been an experience.  I've learned more about STDs, how to get them, what they do to you, how completely fucked some of them can leave you, than I ever wanted to know.  It has been eye opening and will change how I do business going forward.  Live and learn.

Thanks for updating this thread. 

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15 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

I think you need to stay away from this hobby

You need an avatar and a kitchen pass so that you may provide some reviews, which MIGHT lend you some credibility as to WTF you blather about.

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Can this thread just F*#%£€G die already.

Next thing on this thread will be about he wipes his ass or how Hobbit wipes it for him or they wipe each other’s asses.

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