MikeInCOSprings

Condom Broke - Freaking Out a Little

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Picking up something that can be cleared with antibiotics is not that big of a deal if you think about it.  Now herpes 2 is possible which would suck.  Getting something far worse is unlikely but if you're really that worried go get checked.  If you have a significant other avoid sex until youre checked.

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Go get screened, full STI/STD blood and urine panel, most likely you will come up negative on all screenings, and it is good to have a baseline.  And if you become celibate after this incident, you can always show your panel to your future SI and say, "See, I am disease free!"  To which she will respond, "Of course honey, now let's go get you screened again, and what made you assume this was a concern in first place?!"

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19 minutes ago, kissinganna90 said:

If she wasn't the cleanest girl around why would you?

Sometimes the little head wants what the little head wants. later the big head says "what in the hell were you thinking?" :D

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26 minutes ago, boink36 said:

Sometimes the little head wants what the little head wants. later the big head says "what in the hell were you thinking?" :D

Lmao

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^^^Should the client pay less if he's clean?^^^ Of course not! And why would the client consider a provider to be anything else. WTF?, that's an upsell, "For another 50, I'll wash up for you, baby".

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3 hours ago, boink36 said:

Sometimes the little head wants what the little head wants. later the big head says "what in the hell were you thinking?" :D

Sometimes?

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This entire thread is just yuck and I hope like hell you’ve gotten yourself tested.  Please sit on the sidelines until you have answers. 

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10 hours ago, kissinganna90 said:

Now it's got me wondering hypothetically that is could you charge more for being clean

No, but you might get repeat business from regulars :rolleyes:

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It always seems weird to me that both clients and providers use the term "clean" in a vague manner when it has two completely different meanings: "Not dirty" or "No STIs". One does not imply the other.

Someone can be fresh out of the shower and carrying some nasty invisible cooties or can be smelly and filthy and have zero STIs.

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On 2/11/2019 at 5:22 AM, Admiral C said:

Ya know Mike...maybe this activity is just not for you. You just seem too skiddish. Condom failure is just one of the risks of this gig. How many civilian women have you "done" WITHOUT a condom, any of which could have delivered a deadly dick rot?  ( it is a rhetorical question, please spare us the standard male assurance that we would only bare bang a Doctor certified virgin wife). Ya pays your nickle, you takes your chance. It's not really that easy to catch a dose of...whatever. It does not incubate like the flu on steroids. You gotta learn to relax or it will ruin the fun...which is the point.

Probably the worst advise ever. Imagine suggesting a provider "take chances"! So that we may all share her luck? No thanks. If anything, given the facts we need to be more Like Mike than anyone. https://www.westword.com/news/colorado-sees-shocking-rise-in-sexually-transmitted-infections-10885745.

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10 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

Probably the worst advise ever. Imagine suggesting a provider "take chances"! So that we may all share her luck? No thanks. If anything, given the facts we need to be more Like Mike than anyone. https://www.westword.com/news/colorado-sees-shocking-rise-in-sexually-transmitted-infections-10885745.

Hey brainless, take a reading comprehension class. This hobby HAS RISKS. Broken condoms is just one. Imagine suggesting a provider "take chances"??  First off...I suggested or alluded to no such thing...you just straw manned that up. Second...if you think that providers DON'T take chances just by BEING providers, then you don't have a clue.

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Update: 2 weeks into this...

Last weekend I went to the urgent care and got a double dose of antibiotics.  Pain went away after a day.  I thought I was clear.

This morning (exactly 2 weeks after the incident) I noticed a small pimple/ulcer/blister on the end of my dick.  This isn't normal for me at all.  I literally have never had anything like this happen in the last 10 years.  Maybe it's nothing, or maybe a symptom of something bad.  Fuck.  2 weeks after contact is a little late for Herpes from what I understand.  And it's a single tiny (like 2mm) mark, not a bunch of small ones, which doesn't track with any STD's that I am aware of.

I've intentionally waited a couple weeks for testing because some things take time to show up.  Now I am ready.  Unfortunately Planned Parenthood has a 2 week backlog for appointments.  Probably going to try AnyLabTestNow tomorrow, which will do a full STD panel for $230, but if that shows anything I'll have to find a doctor to handle treatment

The damage so far: Urgent Care visit + antibiotics - $350.  Testing tomorrow - $230.  Another test in a month or two - $$$.  This is adding up.  And if I end up actually having something that wasn't knocked out by the antibiotics, this gets worse financially and otherwise.  Plus weeks of paranoia and not being able to play.  Fuck! 

Stupid condom!

 

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54 minutes ago, Admiral C said:

Hey brainless, take a reading comprehension class. This hobby HAS RISKS. Broken condoms is just one. Imagine suggesting a provider "take chances"??  First off...I suggested or alluded to no such thing...you just straw manned that up. Second...if you think that providers DON'T take chances just by BEING providers, then you don't have a clue.

And suggesting the equivalent of "man up", drawing false equivalences to RW unprotected sex is genius? Call me clueless then.

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1 hour ago, Admiral C said:

Second...if you think that providers DON'T take chances just by BEING providers, then you don't have a clue.

TBH, where I'm cognizant and empathetic, the chances providers take are not my problem. The best I can do is make damned sure I'm not one of them.

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For the first thirty years of my sex life, I played strictly in the amateur leagues.  It seemed like I was always having to take antibiotics for this damned thing or that.

For the past ten years, I have been playing exclusively in the pro leagues, get tested every six months, always squeaky, nada problem (knocking on wood). 

And there is definitely more intimate contact in the pro leagues.....

                                                                      .......way more!

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41 minutes ago, MikeInCOSprings said:

Stupid condom!

 

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On 2/17/2019 at 3:23 PM, BadBoy said:

No, but you might get repeat business from regulars :rolleyes:

Ha!

I once walked out on a provider. You see, she had a F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S ass-et I COULDN'T WAIT to fill both my eyes and hands with. Having mentioned liking to be rubbed and, sensing she didn't seem quite comfortable, I asked she lay on her stomach to have her share of these hands :lol:. Naturally drawn to what seemed a joy forever, I was immediately repulsed by the odor and was SURELY dressed to leave before my feet hit the floor! Feeling cheated, I did ask for the donation back only to be "escorted" out, by machete! The nerve!! A tense text exchange after revealed she had "just taken a shit". Can't make this up!

Of course, there was no chance of a repeat visit for me :lol:.

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41 minutes ago, BadBoy said:

For the first thirty years of my sex life, I played strictly in the amateur leagues.  It seemed like I was always having to take antibiotics for this damned thing or that.

For the past ten years, I have been playing exclusively in the pro leagues, get tested every six months, always squeaky, nada problem (knocking on wood). 

And there is definitely more intimate contact in the pro leagues.....

                                                                      .......way more!

And by pro leagues you mean what, "well-reviewed", etc.:rolleyes:? More in the what you seem to be calling amateur leagues to this day, I've been hobbying before I knew what it was for something close to thirty years myself, all with not more than a UTI and depleted savings to show. Needless to say, I ALWAYS bring Jimmy with me and, where I've recently stepped out for a little DATY, I never test conventional wisdom where safety is concerned otherwise. In fact, I'm so anal I grab Jimmy on the way out to make SURE he's not left behind. Don't judge me.

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Thanks!  I am just sharing it as a cautionary tale, and interested in the thoughts of those that have been through this before.  We all know (or should know) the chances we take.  I am usually very picky about who I interact with, and always picky about using protection in every situation.  Hell, most of my favorite activities (BDSM) don't involve significant STD risk.  But no protection is perfect as my situation demonstrates.

There's a 95% chance that I am freaking out over nothing.  But even if that's the case, it has cost a lot of time, money, and mental anguish.  And if that 5% chance of this being worst-case is realized, then it's a whole new ballgame.  All because of that goddamn condom.

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Get tested. You play in a very risky hobby. The past is just that, YOUR future should be the only thing that matters! 

I hope I’m to not firm on this.

Take care of yourself.

 

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Men and woman. Civies and hobby men. Providers and normal girls. Single or married. YOU NEED TO REGULARLY get tested. Things like HIV/Herpes Simplex/Sypalisis don't always show symptoms right away. Sometimes it takes YEARS.

Be a decent human to people you are having sexual contact with and take care of yourself. Budget it in if you don't have insurance. It's something that needs to be done. 

OP, Just like Miss Jos stated earlier. If you end up testing positive for something, please let the provider know.

Stop overthinking it, it'll just make it worse. Like reading the side effects of a medication you are taking. 

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17 hours ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

And by pro leagues you mean what, "well-reviewed", etc.:rolleyes:? More in the what you seem to be calling amateur leagues to this day..

Amateur/Professional = same rules as Olympics.  Pros are the gals you meet on TOB, Amateurs are the gals you meet at closing time at the bar.

Guess which ones are prettier and more fun?

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4 minutes ago, BadBoy said:

Guess which ones are prettier and more fun?

Let me think...the ones you leave home with?...

Look, if the discussion is who can pull better looking women, I'd say it's the one with the most cash and/or the biggest dick. There's that. Indeed, there are many beautiful women here, some inside and out. Surely not as many as you, where I've had the privilege of meeting a few, I've certainly enjoyed a much larger share of, what are they..."amateurs"? Yep. Guess which I've had the most fun with? Yep.

Not that the the "pros" can't be worth their weight in gold but, unpretentious and uninhibited and lacking time management skills B), that honor goes to the least likely of ladies, some in locations to die in so, I'm not a believer. In fact (dusting shoulders), one that I now call juicy fruit says I'm the only one who "gave her a chance". Then she fell off. I'm waiting for you, juicy.

Sure, it's made for colorful, some might say "bad experiences" but, c'est la joie de vivre!

...I give up. Let me guess, upside down they're all pink? Oh! I'm only serious.

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Correction

1 hour ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

if the discussion is who can pull the prettiest, most "professional TOB gals", I'd say it's the one willing to spend the most cash

And

1 hour ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

...lacking time management skills

was a poor way of saying most engaged, least clock watcher

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21 hours ago, MikeInCOSprings said:

Update: 2 weeks into this...

Last weekend I went to the urgent care and got a double dose of antibiotics.  Pain went away after a day.  I thought I was clear.

This morning (exactly 2 weeks after the incident) I noticed a small pimple/ulcer/blister on the end of my dick.  This isn't normal for me at all.  I literally have never had anything like this happen in the last 10 years.  Maybe it's nothing, or maybe a symptom of something bad.  Fuck.  2 weeks after contact is a little late for Herpes from what I understand.  And it's a single tiny (like 2mm) mark, not a bunch of small ones, which doesn't track with any STD's that I am aware of.

I've intentionally waited a couple weeks for testing because some things take time to show up.  Now I am ready.  Unfortunately Planned Parenthood has a 2 week backlog for appointments.  Probably going to try AnyLabTestNow tomorrow, which will do a full STD panel for $230, but if that shows anything I'll have to find a doctor to handle treatment

The damage so far: Urgent Care visit + antibiotics - $350.  Testing tomorrow - $230.  Another test in a month or two - $$$.  This is adding up.  And if I end up actually having something that wasn't knocked out by the antibiotics, this gets worse financially and otherwise.  Plus weeks of paranoia and not being able to play.  Fuck! 

Stupid condom!

 

This is so fucked up and irresponsible of you.  Do you realize how ridiculous and stupid this thread makes you look?  

Get your ass checked and stop fucking around and we do not want to know the blow by blow. 

Grow the fuck up and take responsibility for your actions. 

I pray you have not scheduled with another lady or had sex with anyone during this time...you and your damn drama is not an amusing thread. 

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