Posted February 9, 2019 We were going at it pretty good, and at some point the condom broke. I saw an ad from her after I saw her advertising BB. If I had known that BB was on the menu I wouldn't have seen her. And now, the tip of my dick burns a little when I start peeing. This has been going on since Thur night. Obviously freaking out a little from all this. I am normally super clean and hygiene-obsessed. Seems a little soon to see symptoms from most STI's that I am aware of, so I am hoping that it's just a UTI. But men don't tend to get those very often. Guess I am going to the clinic on Monday... This is never an issue when doing BDSM. I think I'll stick to that form now on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2019 (edited) Look at it this way, you got bareback for free. How lucky! 🤨 Edited February 9, 2019 by inkspot Sp 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2019 No, not at all. This sucks! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2019 Life happens. Condoms are not 100% perfect. Chill out dude. I'll bet you you're creating the " my dick burns a little" in your paranoid mind. 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2019 18 minutes ago, MikeInCOSprings said: Guess I am going to the clinic on Monday... Just go to your doctor if you have health insurance. Lot cheaper and have him/her do a full blood workup on you. I do it on a regular basis cause I have high BP, so blood sugar, cholesterols, and STI's all BOOM at one time. My BP is a 900 lb gorilla. No other issues, 62 in May and not diabetic, or even close, stuff like that. Plus doc will have you screened for everything under the sun, clinic won't. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2019 Congrats daddy...how did you see an ad for her after you saw her, did you meet up with her thru osmosis? 🤣 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 (edited) Go grab a bottle of cranberry juice to drink. Edited February 10, 2019 by frankenthaler91 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 Honestly the best thing to do is go to the doctor and get tested. Even if you're results are negative They will give you some meds and you will be fine. The piece of mind to know that you are clean is definitely worth the time and effort that you will have to make. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 Take a deep breath and go get tested. Whatever you do, don't start Googling STI pics! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 Sure would suck if she got pregnant 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 13 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: Sure would suck if she got pregnant Well damn..... 😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 2 hours ago, stevie-2249 said: Sure would suck if she got pregnant Oh Stevie.... do not flatter yourself. No one wants a client baby .... unless you gave the impression that you have nothing short of Bill Gates Money, just expect a call in 3-4 weeks saying she needs help with abortion cost - be it real or not 🙀🤭🙃 OP - if it burns when you pee, you probably have an std ... Go get your antibiotics and get well! Good luck to you and please inform her if you come back positive as She may have no symptoms... except you called her dirty. 🤷🏽♀️ Not sure what your looking for here, best to tell this sob story to your MD lol. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 6 hours ago, stevie-2249 said: Sure would suck if she got pregnant Shit Stevie! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 9 hours ago, stevie-2249 said: Sure would suck if she got pregnant You mean you haven’t fixed that little problem yet? 😜 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 Do the community a favor and get tested like you said...it sucks but it must be done. Now then...if you did happen to pick up some cooties please let the girl know. If she acts like an asshole about it, write a review....let’s the community know. If you come back clean, then you know, no harm no foul and you’ll pick cleaner girls. When I was in CO, I went and got tested every week! Little habit I picked up working at a brothel. Never had a thing. Just taking responsibility for my own life and the decisions I make. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 1 hour ago, Melissa Sterling said: When I was in CO, I went and got tested every week! Little habit I picked up working at a brothel. Never had a thing. Just taking responsibility for my own life and the decisions I make. Little excessive don't ya think? I know your in this business but every week is way too much!!! I don't believe it, what did the Dr say? Maybe every couple montha or so unless you had symptoms. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 Not worried about a baby Mike. That has been taken care of. I've been pounding water for 2 days now. Hoping that help clear stuff up. Unfortunately most STI's take a couple of weeks to show up on tests. Will be a fun couple of weeks. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 Put a ring on it. Apple cider vinegar & garlic helps. Also wash the tip with vodka 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 55 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: Little excessive don't ya think? I know your in this business but every week is way too much!!! I don't believe it, what did the Dr say? Maybe every couple montha or so unless you had symptoms. Many would think this is excessive - many would think this is normal. Eye of the beholder and truthfully whatever needs to be done so you feel like you are 'dating' as safely as possible... A great tenant of this hobby: To each their own. Just me, but: Melissa, thank you - I commend your dedication to dating safe!! And if anyone is hedging their bets on the side of safety with higher frequency of STI testing then so be it. There are a few of these STI's that can be present without presenting symptomatically. And a few of them that take a few weeks to show up on a test. I have always liked reading posts from ladies that are comfortable letting us know they get tested regularly. Makes me feel like they are a much 'safer' date than many others. Just my opinion: the more everyone gets tested the better, as it can truly make dating safer in this little pool of shared lust... OP, most have said it but get tested according to your doc's instructions - then you will know and can manage accordingly - i hope the results come back all good and these are just psychosomatic symptoms you are experiencing. I've never had a condom break on me in my lifetime; but, i imagine the mind can take that experience and lead your being into fearful places. Hang in and bon chance! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 On 2/9/2019 at 4:24 PM, MikeInCOSprings said: We were going at it pretty good, and at some point the condom broke. I saw an ad from her after I saw her advertising BB. If I had known that BB was on the menu I wouldn't have seen her. And now, the tip of my dick burns a little when I start peeing. This has been going on since Thur night. Obviously freaking out a little from all this. I am normally super clean and hygiene-obsessed. Seems a little soon to see symptoms from most STI's that I am aware of, so I am hoping that it's just a UTI. But men don't tend to get those very often. Guess I am going to the clinic on Monday... This is never an issue when doing BDSM. I think I'll stick to that form now on. Oh my. I hope it's just paranoia, dehydration but, sure can fuck up a wet dream, can't ya Mike? Sorry, couldn't resist . On a side note, I use BB as a screening question. Yes/negotiable, etc = reduced to-do list. Get better soon!! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 I get a full-panel blood test every six months and so far, so good (knock on wood). This is despite several condom breaks (never the ones I supply) and some fairly nervous waiting periods, so I think the odds are likely on your side. When this happens, the professional advice is to: 1. Immediately go pee, 2. Shower well with soap, 3. Pee again. Nothing more you can do from that point on. As I said, the odds are likely with you. Of course none of this is anywhere as interesting as when a provider jumps off in cowgirl, rips off the condom, and then jumps on again and says, "Come deep inside me, I want my boyfriend to taste you when he eats me tonight." Could that actually ever happen? Possibly.......... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 6 minutes ago, BadBoy said: Of course none of this is anywhere as interesting as when a provider jumps off in cowgirl, rips off the condom, and then jumps on again and says, "Come deep inside me, I want my boyfriend to taste you when he eats me tonight." Could that actually ever happen? Possibly.......... And that's why you don't date a provider! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 9 minutes ago, BadBoy said: Of course none of this is anywhere as interesting as when a provider jumps off in cowgirl, rips off the condom, and then jumps on again and says, "Come deep inside me, I want my boyfriend to taste you when he eats me tonight." Could that actually ever happen? Possibly.......... That would have pissed me off to no end. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 37 minutes ago, BadBoy said: I get a full-panel blood test every six months and so far, so good (knock on wood). This is despite several condom breaks (never the ones I supply) and some fairly nervous waiting periods, so I think the odds are likely on your side. When this happens, the professional advice is to: 1. Immediately go pee, 2. Shower well with soap, 3. Pee again. Nothing more you can do from that point on. As I said, the odds are likely with you. Of course none of this is anywhere as interesting as when a provider jumps off in cowgirl, rips off the condom, and then jumps on again and says, "Come deep inside me, I want my boyfriend to taste you when he eats me tonight." Could that actually ever happen? Possibly.......... This is almost a quote from an old army training Manuel on prevention of STDs it only omits the instructions to remove the condom by reversing it as you Remove it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 On 2/9/2019 at 4:24 PM, MikeInCOSprings said: We were going at it pretty good, and at some point the condom broke. I saw an ad from her after I saw her advertising BB. If I had known that BB was on the menu I wouldn't have seen her. And now, the tip of my dick burns a little when I start peeing. This has been going on since Thur night. Obviously freaking out a little from all this. I am normally super clean and hygiene-obsessed. Seems a little soon to see symptoms from most STI's that I am aware of, so I am hoping that it's just a UTI. But men don't tend to get those very often. Guess I am going to the clinic on Monday... This is never an issue when doing BDSM. I think I'll stick to that form now on. Hmmmm, guess there maybe consequences seeing dirty girls???? Mike, these things happen. I remember a few years back thinking I was a porn star. Man, I use to hump my dates for long periods of time. Heated prolonged sessions and small condoms are not a great combination..... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 10, 2019 3 hours ago, JungleGeorge said: Put a ring on it. Apple cider vinegar & garlic helps. Also wash the tip with vodka No, no, no George. You cut off the affected part. The tip in this case. Or is it. You cut an X on the troubled area and suck out the infection? Oh I can't remember, seshhhhh........... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2019 I was going to wait until tomorrow and go see my regular doc, but I gave in and went to an emergi-care today. They agreed that it's best to play this one safe. I got a Z pack and some other stuff. Altogether it cost $350. Ouch. But worth the peace of mind. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2019 3 hours ago, BadBoy said: I get a full-panel blood test every six months and so far, so good (knock on wood). This is despite several condom breaks (never the ones I supply) and some fairly nervous waiting periods, so I think the odds are likely on your side. When this happens, the professional advice is to: 1. Immediately go pee, 2. Shower well with soap, 3. Pee again. Nothing more you can do from that point on. As I said, the odds are likely with you. Of course none of this is anywhere as interesting as when a provider jumps off in cowgirl, rips off the condom, and then jumps on again and says, "Come deep inside me, I want my boyfriend to taste you when he eats me tonight." Could that actually ever happen? Possibly.......... You don't remember reading the posts from DemureMorman?? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2019 Little excessive don't ya think? I know your in this business but every week is way too much!!! I don't believe it, what did the Dr say? Maybe every couple montha or so unless you had symptoms. Personally, I would not question Melissa or her integrity without a clear road and a damn fine head start. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2019 4 hours ago, MikeInCOSprings said: I was going to wait until tomorrow and go see my regular doc, but I gave in and went to an emergi-care today. They agreed that it's best to play this one safe. I got a Z pack and some other stuff. Altogether it cost $350. Ouch. But worth the peace of mind. Ya know Mike...maybe this activity is just not for you. You just seem too skiddish. Condom failure is just one of the risks of this gig. How many civilian women have you "done" WITHOUT a condom, any of which could have delivered a deadly dick rot? ( it is a rhetorical question, please spare us the standard male assurance that we would only bare bang a Doctor certified virgin wife). Ya pays your nickle, you takes your chance. It's not really that easy to catch a dose of...whatever. It does not incubate like the flu on steroids. You gotta learn to relax or it will ruin the fun...which is the point. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
