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This reminds me of someone i knew years ago but she actually prided herself on getting guys out the door in 10 minutes or less it was something that I never subscribed to myself especially after doing a duo with her where she actually said its time to get off or get off....I thought that was horrible and never spoke to hear after that fact....However it not the ladies fault all the time either, there are some who just can not hold back their enthusiasm but they do not realize that from the start so they book a longer appointment so that is not the ladies fault when that happens.....So what is a happy medium with that when its not her fault and really it is not his either....Personally I think since he booked an hour, if he decides to leave early after the main event then thats on him and he should not complain...However if she runs him out the door afterwards then that warrants a bad review....Just my personal opinion and you know what they say about that, everyone has one and most of the __________-!!!!

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And I know the hostage thing is intended to be funny Turtle but after what happened to me last week it is not funny at all....I will explain why, last week I was shopping at a store on 120th and after going through the check out, I asked my driver to put the things in the trunk while I was sitting in the car using the phone when suddenly the car was swarmed by 10 of Broomfields finest with full body armor and tactical gear including assault rifles...It seems one of the customers in the store took it upon themselves to call 911 and tell them that I was being kidnapped which was completely untrue but the cops were not aware of that so they tackled my driver and had him face down on the pavement with his arms zip tied behind his back and only about 10 minutes later did they finally figure out the caller was full of crap but that didnt not prevent them from making contact with me and my driver for no reason....So while you say such things jokingly be careful as some you might not even know might take that seriously and that can lead not only unwanted contact with law enforcement but also might cause you to have to explain the reason you are in that area which is normally the standard question when they are trying to interrogate a suspect even when it ends up no crime was committed....

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1 hour ago, Barbi said:

And I know the hostage thing is intended to be funny Turtle but after what happened to me last week it is not funny at all....I will explain why, last week I was shopping at a store on 120th and after going through the check out, I asked my driver to put the things in the trunk while I was sitting in the car using the phone when suddenly the car was swarmed by 10 of Broomfields finest with full body armor and tactical gear including assault rifles...It seems one of the customers in the store took it upon themselves to call 911 and tell them that I was being kidnapped which was completely untrue but the cops were not aware of that so they tackled my driver and had him face down on the pavement with his arms zip tied behind his back and only about 10 minutes later did they finally figure out the caller was full of crap but that didnt not prevent them from making contact with me and my driver for no reason....So while you say such things jokingly be careful as some you might not even know might take that seriously and that can lead not only unwanted contact with law enforcement but also might cause you to have to explain the reason you are in that area which is normally the standard question when they are trying to interrogate a suspect even when it ends up no crime was committed....

This is some prime drama right here😳

Happy everything is okay with you.  Wish I made enough to have a driver😕

This thread is drawing negative attention to someone and just consider if it was you...it would hurt like hell. 

 

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18 hours ago, Kandi Apple said:

I'm speaking for myself.

 I honor the amount of time that I am compensated for!

It is not ok to take advantage of anyone.

To rush the meeting is as bad as stealing.

It makes me feel good when the gentlemen and I both have a good time together. 

 

^^This^^ :wub:

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Yes, you should get what you paid for. However, an hour is a loooong time, even in porn where MSOG (or retakes) is the rule. Legends aside, most go in 5.4 minutes https://www.webmd.com/men/features/sex-fact-fiction#4 and this hobby certainly has its share of unscrupulous providers so, why book for longer, especially the first visit?

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13 hours ago, ilovewomen said:

Why don’t you give it a rest 

My thoughts exactly. Some just like to hear themselves type.

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How do you make any type of connection in such a short time?  It would feel completely mechanical to me if it was so rushed. 

 

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11 hours ago, tide32 said:

Why is it, every time this comes up and you know exactly who we're talking about. That's totally amazing considerating how many providers are on this board. You are gooooooooood.:o

Or overly self-righteous

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32 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

My thoughts exactly. Some just like to hear themselves type.

A brilliant self analysis. And here i thought you were just a bitter troll. My bad.

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12 hours ago, pfunk said:

i would guess it means there are bad clients who consistently overstay, after the time is up.

I think that's the equivalent of a provider shorting the time.

Oh ya, that does happen. Fortunately it’s not the norm, and sometimes it’s easy to get caught up and the time escapes. 

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30 minutes ago, Laci French said:

How do you make any type of connection in such a short time?  It would feel completely mechanical to me if it was so rushed. 

 

Laci, I agree completely.  For me, it is more than "insert rod A into slot B".  It is about shared fun and connection.  If all I wanted to do is "get off", I can do that myself.  I realize it is different strokes for different folks, but my enjoyment of the hobby includes getting to know someone a bit (within and honoring their limits), finding out likes and dislikes, and generally having a blast (or giving the blast).  If that does not occur, I've made a choice I won't make a second time.

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50 minutes ago, gr8owl said:

A brilliant self analysis. And here i thought you were just a bitter troll. My bad.

Nah, you NEVER see me derailing other's posts. I either have something to contribute or keep it moving. Quit projecting, watch, and learn, "grasshopper".

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1 hour ago, gr8owl said:

And here i thought you were just a bitter troll.

A brilliant self analysis.

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1 hour ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

My thoughts exactly. Some just like to hear themselves type.

Yes they do 

I try not to be that person 

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BTW, for anyone who thinks my first post on this thread was about any one particular lady or an attack on a particular lady or eying to start some shit as one poster stated, you are wrong.

It is a coincidence that a review for a particular lady accused of short timing an appointment was posted at the same time this thread was running.

I merely was using the review as an example of what I was posting.

I have never seen the lady in an appointment that the review was about.

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I don't book less than an hour because I don't like to rush, especially a first meeting. And if a gentleman schedules an hour, then we spend at least an hour together, sometimes a little more. Personally, in 10 or 15 minutes, we're just starting to get the formalities out of the way and getting to know one another and that's why I don't like 1/2 hr. appts.  I have never ushered anyone out the door early, b/c I believe in delivering what's been agreed upon. And I never want anyone to feel rushed. If I'm running late I will add the time to the back end of the scheduled appt. To under-promise and over-deliver, as they say, is always better than the other way around.

If a gentleman leaves before the scheduled time is up, it should be their choice, not the provider's, unless as someone said previously, there is a problem.

That said, I realize everyone has their preferences, and their specialties...some like a fast food drive-thru and others enjoy dining in 5-star restaurants. Fortunately there are plenty of options to suit everyone's taste, so if both you and the provider have done your due diligence, you will likely be a good fit, and not be disappointed with your experience.

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9 minutes ago, milehijas said:

I don't book less than an hour because I don't like to rush, especially a first meeting. And if a gentleman schedules an hour, then we spend at least an hour together, sometimes a little more. Personally, in 10 or 15 minutes, we're just starting to get the formalities out of the way and getting to know one another and that's why I don't like 1/2 hr. appts.  I have never ushered anyone out the door early, b/c I believe in delivering what's been agreed upon. And I never want anyone to feel rushed. If I'm running late I will add the time to the back end of the scheduled appt. To under-promise and over-deliver, as they say, is always better than the other way around.

If a gentleman leaves before the scheduled time is up, it should be their choice, not the provider's, unless as someone said previously, there is a problem.

That said, I realize everyone has their preferences, and their specialties...some like a fast food drive-thru and others enjoy dining in 5-star restaurants. Fortunately there are plenty of options to suit everyone's taste, so if both you and the provider have done your due diligence, you will likely be a good fit, and not be disappointed with your experience.

This may be one of the reasons, you'r considered a top tier provider. Just my openion.

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The definition of insanity; doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.  

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1 hour ago, tide32 said:

This may be one of the reasons, you'r considered a top tier provider. Just my openion.

Thank you darlin'! :wub:

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2 hours ago, milehijas said:

I don't book less than an hour because I don't like to rush, especially a first meeting. And if a gentleman schedules an hour, then we spend at least an hour together, sometimes a little more. Personally, in 10 or 15 minutes, we're just starting to get the formalities out of the way and getting to know one another and that's why I don't like 1/2 hr. appts.  I have never ushered anyone out the door early, b/c I believe in delivering what's been agreed upon. And I never want anyone to feel rushed. If I'm running late I will add the time to the back end of the scheduled appt. To under-promise and over-deliver, as they say, is always better than the other way around.

If a gentleman leaves before the scheduled time is up, it should be their choice, not the provider's, unless as someone said previously, there is a problem.

That said, I realize everyone has their preferences, and their specialties...some like a fast food drive-thru and others enjoy dining in 5-star restaurants. Fortunately there are plenty of options to suit everyone's taste, so if both you and the provider have done your due diligence, you will likely be a good fit, and not be disappointed with your experience.

This is why I do not offer anything less than a hour.

I do not like to feel rushed. The gentlemen should never feel rushed either. 

This is a very expensive Hobby, gentleman work their asses off just to have a meeting with Lady.

It's always nice to enjoy the time together. Chemistry Works in a lot of different ways but you have to give it a chance.

I have to hand it to the ladies and the gentleman that can do these 15-minute speedy rendezvous.

 I don't have it in me for that type of meeting. 

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3 hours ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

Quit projecting, watch, and learn, "grasshopper".

Hey, youngster, that's my line, go get your own metaphor.

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Well, you prematurely busted your nuts. How is this her fault or problem? Shoulda paced yourself. If you can't get that second shot, I suppose you could stick around and play Scrabble 'til the hour is done.;)

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I suspect that most guys vastly overestimate their stamina and staying power. 

Based on their porn-watching habits, they're thinking: man, I'm gonna pound this bitch into the ground for an hour straight. 

In reality, they turn out to be 3-minute heroes, bust a nut quickly, then sit in a corner, crying like little Baby Jesus.

...while the provider goes: so, what do you want to do, we still have 57 minutes left.:lol:

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1 minute ago, 2Big said:

I suspect that most guys vastly overestimate their stamina and staying power. 

Based on their porn-watching habits, they're thinking: man, I'm gonna pound this bitch into the ground for an hour straight. 

In reality, they turn out to be 3-minute heroes, bust a nut quickly, then sit in a corner, crying like little Baby Jesus.

...while the provider goes: so, what do you want to do, we still have 57 minutes left.:lol:

Lol you are on point with this shit!

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4 minutes ago, mountainrider33 said:

The one's that pull this don't offer anything under 1 hour.  I seen one that did this and she went all out to try and get me done and out in 15 minutes.  Then she was on the phone setting up the next guy.  

I sure hope you explained that whole situation in her review.

You know you're paying for the time that you're there.

What is she going to do get pissed off if you tell her to put her fucking phone down?

I have my music streaming through my phone and it's turned on do not disturb. If sometimes there is an interruption in tunes I'll say "I'm sorry I have to fix my music" but that doesn't mean I'm going to sit there and book my next meeting.

That is just bullshit. 

There are plenty of other things to be doing like a massage with some nice oil, let's body slide a little bit, chitchat, suck my toes, I don't care but  get off the damn phone and pay attention this is time well paid for!

 

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12 minutes ago, Kandi Apple said:

I sure hope you explained that whole situation in her review.

You know you're paying for the time that you're there.

What is she going to do get pissed off if you tell her to put her fucking phone down?

I have my music streaming through my phone and it's turned on do not disturb. If sometimes there is an interruption in tunes I'll say "I'm sorry I have to fix my music" but that doesn't mean I'm going to sit there and book my next meeting.

That is just bullshit. 

There are plenty of other things to be doing like a massage with some nice oil, let's body slide a little bit, chitchat, suck my toes, I don't care but  get off the damn phone and pay attention this is time well paid for!

 

Out of reps, but this deserves one.

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I just want each of you that’s continui this thread to ask yourself how it would feel if it was directed at you. 

Just a little respect. 

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14 minutes ago, Laci French said:

I just want each of you that’s continui this thread to ask yourself how it would feel if it was directed at you. 

Just a little respect. 

With all do respect Laci, I know that you are one of the providers that takes pride in what you do. Your heart is always in the right place and you make good decisions. Everyone feels happy when they come in contact with you.

The time you spend with gentleman is a time well spent because it's enjoyable, not because it was forced but because your chemistry is able to reflect off of anyone's personality. 

Most ladies are not out to just take advantage and cut time short because the gentlemen made one pop.

Creativity comes into play when that happens, and more than likely it may happen again but sometimes not. It's a nice thing when the gentleman still leaves with a smile on his face knowing that they had a great connection with the lady that they had just spent time with.

I personally do not get off on under dogging any lady or gentleman on this board. 

I do get pissed off from time to time don't get me wrong.

I'm only human just like the rest...

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 This thread wasn’t meant to dog one provider but to kinda let the providers-know we should be able to get the time we pay for and not be shorted, 

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