Laci French

There will be no more donations

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What’s sad is that he is supposedly well known here and has a 411 wow.  Sorry violet that this happened up you.  If you need anything please reach out to any of us. 

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What an asshole. Still being fairly new, its guys like this that make it difficult for me to schedule with the more established ladies here.

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10 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said:

* ILL TAKE THE POINTS FOR OUTTING THIS DUMB FUCK! JUST SAY THE WORD @Violet Lovely

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Personal Attack. The author has attacked another User; ...  Don't post Private one on one correspondence to the public forum. Do not accuse anyone of wrong doing or call for the "banning" of other Users. You are welcome to make a suggestion, encouraged to Report a Post or PM and voice your concerns privately.

 

* This will result in a Suspension.

Again the better choice is---> to Report a Post or PM and voice your concerns privately.

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6 hours ago, acmb2017 said:

This is wrong on many levels. Worst is he knows who he is and probably will change his handle regardless at this point. I hope he is caught whatever handle he uses by the ladies.

Well then, there will be no pussy for this dude either. Plain and simple. We ladiesdottend to warn our sisters.  As it should be.

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Sorry to hear about this,  i would gladly contribute a few bucks to a go fund me or something to help this girl out

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Based on "there will be no more donations" he probably planned this, as a hobby exit. I doubt he was planning any more appointments.

He knows he is outed, to escorts, now. 

He is a criminal. He stole from Violet. He's also probably mentally ill. Why else make such a dramatic final statement? He is risking his real life job, friends, etc.

Personally I'd love to meet him, and pound his face.

If any of you ladies need any help, or backup, I'm happy to help!

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This is a reminder to all of us to make sure we take care of that pesky business part first.  

Tis the season to be holly jolly and drained, not bah humbug and blacklisted.  

This community rocks with the support for Violet and this is why I love every single one of you.❤️

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5 hours ago, tide32 said:

This is why the first thing I do, after I get my hug, is put the donation in plain sight. Am i missing something here?

Can't remember every getting my Happy Meal until I paid.:lol:

When they are regulars and seen a quite a few times I would assume there has to be a lot of trust between them

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9 hours ago, Violet Lovely said:

I thank all you for your support!!
Anyone who wants this man's info to protect yourself, don't hesitate to pm me!

 

Violet, I am so sorry this happened to you.  Some people are just plain jerks and this sounds like a major criminal act.  This is stealing on a number of levels.  People on both sides of this equation deserve to be treated fairly and with respect.  For me, this deal is based on mutual trust.  When something like this happens, it makes me both angry and sad.  It breaks trust, endangers one's health, and is wrong, wrong, wrong.  You are a lovely lady (and I mean Lady with a capital "L" and no pun intended) and I know you are strong enough to rebound from this, but it never, never should have happened.  If I keep going, it will turn into an official rant.

I am glad we have some people in our community who are tight with one another and look out for one another....both ladies and gents.

Violet, reach out if you need to.  You've got support here.

 

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9 hours ago, SabrinaLynn aka KatieCreme said:

But it's not okay to only communicate with certain ladies!! EVERYONE needs to know about this asshat!!

I sent you the info. Check your twitter dm. 

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Like Daddy* said: "Son, when you go to see a young lady, be sure to drop the donation right away, wherever seems right.  Someplace will seem right.  And smile, son, flash the pearlies."

 

                                                                                                                                                                  *Just kidding, it wasn't my Daddy

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My heart goes out to you Violet what was done to you is Criminal and Despicable there are many people here who are willing to help you as it should be with many who care. Please take care of yourself you are special and important the person that did this to you will get what he deserves

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Not much I can add. So very sorry Violet. But, once again, in the middle of the darkness, we see what an incredible community of caring, supportive and loving individuals make up TOB. 

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Violet just read his thread.  I am glad you are alright. What the ladies are doing is only fitting and right.  No violence as it only begets more violence.  He is outed to the ladies only and that should be enough to end his hobbying days.  Newbie friendly ladies beware and check your boards to be the safest you can be. 

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4 hours ago, timesnewroman said:

Sorry to hear about this,  i would gladly contribute a few bucks to a go fund me or something to help this girl out

+10000. Count me in.

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33 minutes ago, coolhand luke said:

Violet just read his thread.  I am glad you are alright. What the ladies are doing is only fitting and right.  No violence as it only begets more violence.  He is outed to the ladies only and that should be enough to end his hobbying days.  Newbie friendly ladies beware and check your boards to be the safest you can be. 

Red is absolutely the important part.  Very sorry Ms. Violet, and any other lady that has been treated so inexcusably shitty.

There are some truly f**ked up people out there, on and off this board.  Sadly there are a lot of new and largely clueless ladies to still prey on.  Scary when it is obvious they can get to ladies that have experience and know what they are doing.  If only an evil genius could devise a bio weapon that only takes out assholes.  Sounds like a DC/Marvel plot.  Hmmmmm.  There would be a lot more wide open spaces. :cool:

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2 hours ago, BadBoy said:

Like Daddy* said: "Son, when you go to see a young lady, be sure to drop the donation right away, wherever seems right.  Someplace will seem right.  And smile, son, flash the pearlies."

 

                                                                                                                                                                  *Just kidding, it wasn't my Daddy

I thought you were daddy! 😉

Didn't you, or one if our other fun friends here have a daddy post awhile back??? 😂

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I've been around on TOB a number of years...I've heard some horrendous stories..about outing....wifes being  uncontrollable, families getting sucked in..............

  BUT NEVER HAVE I HEARD OF SUCH A FUCKED UP THING To do to one of our sisters!!!  Pardon my language...

 Ladies...there is ways of rewarding such behavior, I mean that in the most negative fashion. Let nothing be said or done on this board.....There is a time and place for everything.We will stick together and survive !!!

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wow  Violet, I just read this and am sad + horrified this happened to you.   I am glad you are alright!   Karma is going to kick this guy's butt hard...no doubt about that.

be well and safe :)

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 Violet is one of the most awesome women I’ve ever met and I’ve already reached out to her privately.  I share everyone’s anger at his criminal actions and there’s  not much I can add other than I am so amazed at the level of concern in this community and the swift and devastating reaction to those who would violate it’s trust.  I would rather have a finger cut off than lose my oks and references.  Behind my house and car they are the most expensive thing I own! I don’t know why he would, but if he thought he was going to get away with this and then move on to try it with others he has been given a huge wake up.  Anyone else lurking around who may have been thinking of trying something similar or who was contemplating a “dine and dash” now knows what’s in store for them if they do!

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Wow, this has got everybody all fired up. If this was a dude who got ripped off,  it would have been all of his own fault.

Admittedly, there was a significant  amount  of alcohol involved and sounded like some memory loss.

I wonder what this guy remembers.

I'm also sorry you had this bad experience Violet because I have had a couple bad experiences in this hobby, but I would never discuss it here.

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20 minutes ago, Mike940370 said:

 

Wow, this has got everybody all fired up. If this was a dude who got ripped off,  it would have been all of his own fault.

Admittedly, there was a significant  amount  of alcohol involved and sounded like some memory loss.

I wonder what this guy remembers.

I'm also sorry you had this bad experience Violet because I have had a couple bad experiences in this hobby, but I would never discuss it here.

He remembers enough to know that he didn't pay for time recieved, nor did he plan to after the fact per his response.

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Has anyone private message this guy to see if he has a different opinion on what happened, or what did not happen?

 

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24 minutes ago, Mike940370 said:

Has anyone private message this guy to see if he has a different opinion on what happened, or what did not happen?

 

He didn’t leave the donation and when asked in a text message his response was “there will be no more donations”.  

What side of his story do we need to hear? 

 

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1 hour ago, Mike940370 said:

 

Wow, this has got everybody all fired up. If this was a dude who got ripped off,  it would have been all of his own fault.

Admittedly, there was a significant  amount  of alcohol involved and sounded like some memory loss.

I wonder what this guy remembers.

I'm also sorry you had this bad experience Violet because I have had a couple bad experiences in this hobby, but I would never discuss it here.

That is flat out bullshit.  

Our community always stands for what’s right and it doesn’t matter if provider/hobbyist. I know on many times is ladies have gone to bat for some awesome gentlemen.

 

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24 minutes ago, Laci French said:

He didn’t leave the donation and when asked in a text message his response was “there will be no more donations”.  

What side of his story do we need to hear? 

 

I wonder. Please, let’s all consider another possibility for just a moment. Guilt has been swift on the Forum today and I have certainly participated. Could our information be incomplete? What if the guy actually and sincerely remembers leaving his donation? What if he’s just a dumb drunk and was so fucked up that an honest mistake has been made?  What if his words, to him, mean “I already left you a donation, what are you talking about”? What if we are blasting this guy over a complete drunken misunderstanding and a lousy failed attempt at humor? 

Texting is not the best form of communication, at least, not for me. This definitely could be “flat out bullshit” Laci, but if we are wrong, it certainly wouldn’t be the first or last time I’ve seen a texI, post, or e-mail go completely wrong, even here in TOB land. I hate alcohol abuse and know first hand of its ability to completely ruin things for everyone. The drama and confusion can be devastating. The destruction can last for years. If I’m full of shit here,  I completely stand by my previous comments, but what if? I hope I don’t kick the beehive here but let’s all ask ourselves, is this completely impossible? Could it maybe be nice if these two unfortunates could actually have a sober conversation and leave the phones for their original intended purpose, a real live chat? Love to all, Just saying...Your Devil’s advocate...

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