Posted November 29, 2018 TRIGGER WARNING!!! This is my opinion every provider has their own way and I’m not here saying it’s wrong. I am so sick of having to type this out to those who are new. so my hope Is can send this out to those saying (sup, hey/are you available,wya,ect) to this and not have to explain. lady’s please chime in as it’s 2am as I wright this and I may miss things. ~~How to text or email a provider 101~~ Introducing your self name (one that they can call you) ,age, screen name if you have one, reference, reviews and other information that will help the provider determine your not LE. what time and day do you want your appointment. if you are looking for a right there and then appointment please be aware that it’s going to take a little time to check your information. So be patient. Have specific questions about services? Please Ask if you can inquire in more depth 1st and 2nd be smart try not to be to break the Rule of thumb. -The Rule of Thumb- ——DO NOT TALK SEXAUL OR AGREE TO SEXUAL ACTS Till THE APPROPRIATE TIME. — — Should you fallow the rule of thumb you will protect you and provider from trouble. Ask about Asking a in-depth questions before you just put it out there. Be Curtis Only send pictures of your naked self if and only you are asked. lastly remember we are people not mechanical beings. We have a life out side of this work so we may not answer right away. If you are okay with us contacting you later when we have time please let us know that when you 1st reach out!!! Ok that’s all I have for my tired brain today. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 this subject comes up quite often, I think you ladies are just gonna have to either deal with it or ignore them! When they don’t get reply’s back they will realize how to contact you correctly. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 1 minute ago, stevie-2249 said: this subject comes up quite often, I think you ladies are just gonna have to either deal with it or ignore them! When they don’t get reply’s back they will realize how to contact you correctly. We just have to deal with it? Um NOPE. P.S. how rude! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 6 minutes ago, MeganMarie4u said: We just have to deal with it? Um NOPE. P.S. how rude! No you don’t have to deal with it!!! Ignore them period! Do you honestly think your gonna educate all the men out there how to contact you correctly? I doubt it! Thousands of guys trying to find ladies and different websites to find them, so you have a choice ignore them or see them, and maybe educate them during the session? Get as mad as you want, it’s your business to run as you want. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 36 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said: No you don’t have to deal with it!!! Ignore them period! Do you honestly think your gonna educate all the men out there how to contact you correctly? I doubt it! Thousands of guys trying to find ladies and different websites to find them, so you have a choice ignore them or see them, and maybe educate them during the session? Get as mad as you want, it’s your business to run as you want. Its not about educating every man.... but every man that reads this can learn. Which means less bs we have to ignore. I get it.... its our business.... and if we want to continue to educate prior to meeting..... WE CAN! Happy Thursday lovely! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 Just now, Mr.Pink said: Who's Curtis? Champa's brother. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 I personally don’t reply to “hi, sup, are you available, how much” It just smells like newbie. In life you only get one chance at a first impression. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 1 hour ago, jasminewaterss7 said: I personally don’t reply to “hi, sup, are you available, how much” It just smells like newbie. In life you only get one chance at a first impression. That's not fair. I'm just a dumb ass man lucky unough to be able to wipe my own ass. And that's only because my mom showed me how. Boy do I miss her. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 1 hour ago, tide32 said: That's not fair. I'm just a dumb ass man lucky unough to be able to wipe my own ass. And that's only because my mom showed me how. Boy do I miss her. Our momma's really are our best friends. I'm so fortunate to still have mine. I'll do anything for that beautiful woman, and I try my best not to ever take her for granted. Cherish her memories. You seem like such a great human being. That says a lot about her. I'm sure she's a proud momma. ❤❤❤ 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 I could be wrong, but I’m guessing the guys that need the education the most don’t read these threads. But I do appreciate the time it took you to write it, because I’m never against a refresher course. I’ve been guilty of stupid questions when I don’t use the big head first. 11 hours ago, Calik8 said: TRIGGER WARNING!!! This is my opinion every provider has their own way and I’m not here saying it’s wrong. I am so sick of having to type this out to those who are new. so my hope Is can send this out to those saying (sup, hey/are you available,wya,ect) to this and not have to explain. lady’s please chime in as it’s 2am as I wright this and I may miss things. ~~How to text or email a provider 101~~ Introducing your self name (one that they can call you) ,age, screen name if you have one, reference, reviews and other information that will help the provider determine your not LE. what time and day do you want your appointment. if you are looking for a right there and then appointment please be aware that it’s going to take a little time to check your information. So be patient. Have specific questions about services? Please Ask if you can inquire in more depth 1st and 2nd be smart try not to be to break the Rule of thumb. -The Rule of Thumb- ——DO NOT TALK SEXAUL OR AGREE TO SEXUAL ACTS Till THE APPROPRIATE TIME. — — Should you fallow the rule of thumb you will protect you and provider from trouble. Ask about Asking a in-depth questions before you just put it out there. Be Curtis Only send pictures of your naked self if and only you are asked. lastly remember we are people not mechanical beings. We have a life out side of this work so we may not answer right away. If you are okay with us contacting you later when we have time please let us know that when you 1st reach out!!! Ok that’s all I have for my tired brain today. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 But this kind of info was very helpful when I was new, so thank you. Now let’s hope the new crowd is smart enough to find it...some of them will be! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 12 hours ago, Calik8 said: TRIGGER WARNING!!! This is my opinion every provider has their own way and I’m not here saying it’s wrong. I am so sick of having to type this out to those who are new. so my hope Is can send this out to those saying (sup, hey/are you available,wya,ect) to this and not have to explain. lady’s please chime in as it’s 2am as I wright this and I may miss things. ~~How to text or email a provider 101~~ Introducing your self name (one that they can call you) ,age, screen name if you have one, reference, reviews and other information that will help the provider determine your not LE. what time and day do you want your appointment. if you are looking for a right there and then appointment please be aware that it’s going to take a little time to check your information. So be patient. Have specific questions about services? Please Ask if you can inquire in more depth 1st and 2nd be smart try not to be to break the Rule of thumb. -The Rule of Thumb- ——DO NOT TALK SEXAUL OR AGREE TO SEXUAL ACTS Till THE APPROPRIATE TIME. — — Should you fallow the rule of thumb you will protect you and provider from trouble. Ask about Asking a in-depth questions before you just put it out there. Be Curtis Only send pictures of your naked self if and only you are asked. lastly remember we are people not mechanical beings. We have a life out side of this work so we may not answer right away. If you are okay with us contacting you later when we have time please let us know that when you 1st reach out!!! Ok that’s all I have for my tired brain today. You seem to have covered the bases with your original post! Good content that hopefully some guys will see and pass on to others. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 1 hour ago, TheFinerThings said: But this kind of info was very helpful when I was new, so thank you. Now let’s hope the new crowd is smart enough to find it...some of them will be! Also let’s help others find it! Personally will be sending it to those who need the help. if we all do that maybe we can help the community become more educated ❤️ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Our momma's really are our best friends. I'm so fortunate to still have mine. I'll do anything for that beautiful woman, and I try my best not to ever take her for granted. Cherish her memories. You seem like such a great human being. That says a lot about her. I'm sure she's a proud momma. ❤❤❤ I hope she was. It's funny the things you remember. Picking strawberries, her cutting up green beans in her apron. Little thing the ya wouldn't think people notice. These are the things that make us who we are. I heard somewhere, "we are who we were". Funny 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 4 hours ago, tide32 said: That's not fair. I'm just a dumb ass man lucky unough to be able to wipe my own ass. And that's only because my mom showed me how. Boy do I miss her. That was down right scary. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 20 minutes ago, tide32 said: It's funny the things you remember. Picking strawberries, her cutting up green beans in her apron. Little thing the ya wouldn't think people notice. These are the things that make us who we are. I heard somewhere, "we are who we were". Funny Brought a tear to my eye, brother. I love those memories! ^^^^^ Also, I hope Cali gets her wish, and two dozen newbie clients read this thread! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 29, 2018 (edited) Dealing with these kinds of guys is like pulling thistles. For every one you educate, 2more pop up. If you run an ad...they are going to call...forever. Knowing that helps you deal with it and establish procedures for contact, and for letting it go. Now a more immediately helpful suggestion to you and perhaps other ladies. Do a google search on " how to contact an escort". You will find LOTS of pages and articles on that. Look them over and pick the one that most resonates with you. Anytime a guy makes "stupid contact"...just send them back the link to that article....done! Edited November 29, 2018 by Admiral C Blad splelling skilts 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2018 1 hour ago, pfunk said: Brought a tear to my eye, brother. I love those memories! ^^^^^ Also, I hope Cali gets her wish, and two dozen newbie clients read this thread! Lol My thought is just keep shoving it down the newbies throat that they will get it so hard that it becomes one with them!? Some members on this bored do this too and it drives me crazy in the bad way. Lol (as for moms. it’s those memories on hard days that really make me glad that she is still alive and close by. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2018 10 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: Who's Curtis? Haven’t you been fallowing him? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2018 Great post Cali, and this kind of information was great when I started in the hobby. The thing is, if guys would just act like gentlemen instead of knuckle-draggers, i think life would be so much easier for the ladies. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 30, 2018 Thanks for posting this. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 1, 2018 Thank you Cali! I think we do need a a newbie guy "how to sticky" Read the listing is #1--to do that click on the listing title---then click on the eyeball to the left--that will open the body of the listing. If the lady has a website review it. If she says text, if she says call, call. Do what Cali said give an into with particulars. Not following protocol could get you blocked or not taken seriously. Joining the board 5 minutes ago and having a board handle does not equal screening. We don't know who "LIFEISGREAT" is. We need to screen you for our safety. If you are not comfortable with that, call a lady who does not screen. As you visit ladies you may be able to gain some references that will allow you to book with greater ease. Be respectful---Speak how you would like someone to speak to your mom or sister. The end 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 1, 2018 27 minutes ago, Audrey Astor said: Thank you Cali! I think we do need a a newbie guy "how to sticky" Read the listing is #1--to do that click on the listing title---then click on the eyeball to the left--that will open the body of the listing. If the lady has a website review it. If she says text, if she says call, call. Do what Cali said give an into with particulars. Not following protocol could get you blocked or not taken seriously. Joining the board 5 minutes ago and having a board handle does not equal screening. We don't know who "LIFEISGREAT" is. We need to screen you for our safety. If you are not comfortable with that, call a lady who does not screen. As you visit ladies you may be able to gain some references that will allow you to book with greater ease. Be respectful---Speak how you would like someone to speak to your mom or sister. The end +1 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
