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Providers asking for deposit

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2 hours ago, goodguy69 said:

I can even understand the need for a deposit on the 60-90 minute dates. As the ladies don't just loose that 60-90 minutes. Looking at things from the ladies point of view, I would bet that most ladies block out at least 2 hours of their time for a 60 minute date. So those 60-90 minute dates would easily turn into 2-3 hours of lost time on the ladies end, and that is a lot of lost time that would be hard to make up (and how many calls were turned down because their time was already scheduled).

I would say we need to do better, but I really doubt, (and hope), that those of us here reading this, are the issue.

 

Just my $0.02

Typo, ---are not the issue.

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Honestly I wouldn't mind if the provider was someone very well established and local; or through a means I could dispute should she no show although that's a paper trail a mile long; or if there were an escrow service to hold funds until both parties have met up with each other and mutually agree. I mean honestly I totally get where you ladies are coming from given the insane amount of total weirdos who flake out or deliberately screw with you because they can't admit that they need therapy but there's stress on our end too. I actually do think there's a lot of merit to the idea but I think it should be a two lane street we can both use to our advantage.

Until I see someone I respect like Laci or CSG or one of the well established providers here endorse the practice I will assume it's a scam tho. 

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16 hours ago, Good Shepard said:

I have contacted a couple of providers recently who have asked for a deposit.   Is this a red flag? I understand why they may want a deposit but have never been asked before.

Didn't happen to find one offering "layaway" did ya. :unsure:

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5 hours ago, goodguy69 said:

I would say we need to do better, but I really doubt, (and hope), that those of us here reading this, are the issue.

 

3 hours ago, goodguy69 said:

Typo, ---are not the issue.

You had it right the first time.

... doubt those reading are the issue ...

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4 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

 

You had it right the first time.

... doubt those reading are the issue ...

Thank you sir, I need to have coffee before i post from know on

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Thinking back to some of the small parties (Super Bowl, Halloween, etc) I’ve attended, a deposit was required.  These funds were used to book the venue and for party supplies.  Granted, these were well established ladies and you could make deposit arrangements with any of the sponsors.

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18 minutes ago, goodguy69 said:

Thank you sir, I need to have coffee before i post from know on.

You need more coffee 😜

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On a nationwide level, deposits have became more prevalent for the higher end providers.

With all the Internet shutdown changes, it brought out a new pack of internet games

Timewasters, picture collectors etc getting their kicks off the ladies adjusting to loss of income .

Here in Colorado, you are fortunate to have this site as well as the use of P411 etc.

However there are many states and cities without such good client bases and it is a much tougher approach by now and men that prey on desperation for humor 

Travelling Ladies, may ask for initial deposits to secure a trip

I would not recommend paying one to anyone that isn’t established though 

 

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22 hours ago, Sexy Francesca said:

I need lots of coffee and still can’t type! Stupid phone issues! 

Franacesca, there are days when I can't type on a phone or a standard keyboard.  That is when I go looking for the set of "error correcting fingers" I've lost.  ;)

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On 11/13/2018 at 8:44 AM, tide32 said:

Didn't happen to find one offering "layaway" did ya. :unsure:

Great play on words😊

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PayPal is not smart in my opinion (for what it’s worth) charge backs often come with a fee! Also, the merchant must dispute the charge backs or they’ll run the risk of losing thier merchant services.  Would love to talk to this smart business lady tho!  Ladies we need a class I am totally fascinated by other business practices! Not that I plan on implementing them. Just love hearing about what works for others no judgement until I understand and know from another’s perspective😊

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I require deposits for new friends for appointments over 90minutes. Only because I've made an entire day around longer appointments only to get NCNS'd. For tours, if you are wanting 2hours or longer a deposit is required. 

But, I am established and have absolutely no intention on not holding up my end of the deal. If men would stop the bullshit and the game playing, I wouldn't have to take deposits. Statement above is NOT targeting everyone. Just speaking out of frustration 

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when there's reports of NCNS, short pay or things like that I do require a deposit. 

Also, if I'm touring I require a deposit as well... many fantasy bookers out there and at least need to make sure the cost of airfare and hotels would be covered before arriving in case a ncns or last minute cancelation.

 

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On 11/13/2018 at 1:43 AM, johnnybgood said:

Understand it from the ladies perspective, hate hearing about all the missed appointments but I'd never pay a deposit unless I'd already met the provider before...

If you have previously met a provider then why you need to pay a deposit?

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On 11/12/2018 at 10:55 PM, TheFinerThings said:

Think of it as extended foreplay.

Sounds good to me.  Hunter, when can I bring my deposit over?

Right... that was hot 🔥.

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I payed once a deposit when I saw a out of town girl. But I did do my research on the girl. And she was well worth it. And from what I’ve seen with some of the higher end providers that travel it’s not that rare

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Well certainly a interesting conversation.

Pay half now and get 30min extra.

Cool discount sorta like bogo.

Buy one get one free.

Where do l sign up.

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If you require a deposit and my ATF ladies don’t, well, I guess you’re just out of luck Sister! We’ll just meet someday. It’s not personal, it’s the market.

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Most definitely not, regardless of how "well established" she might be. Same goes for rides, help with a room, etc. A fool and his money are soon parted.

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On 11/12/2018 at 3:34 PM, Good Shepard said:

I have contacted a couple of providers recently who have asked for a deposit.   Is this a red flag? I understand why they may want a deposit but have never been asked before.

When I rent a Uhaul truck, I leave a deposit so they know I'll return it in the condition I left with it. The U-Haul truck doesn't tell me how fast or slow I can go. It doesn't tell me to turn left or right, or scold me when I don't turn in the direction it likes. The U-Haul truck doesn't tell me when to go forward or back up.

The U-Haul truck has a time limit on it but I usually have it for an entire day. As long as I pay for it, the truck is mine to use as I please. It doesn't object when I want to go somewhere for a while and then come back. The U-Haul truck might know my name and where I live but after I've returned it, it doesn't retain that information.

The U-Haul truck doesn't care if I'm young or old, tall or short, skinny or fat, or the size of my... hands.  I can rent the size of the U-Haul truck I want and I know the price going in, it doesn't charge me more as we drive along. When I'm done using the U-Haul truck, I drive it back where it was, turn it in and never worry about it trying to retaliate against me if I write a bad review about the experience.

If escorts for more like U-Haul trucks, there would be less bad reviews and better experiences.

 

The Wise Old Owl

I still know how,

And where to drive.

It just takes me longer to get there.

(I've got the map.

I just can't read it anymore.)

 

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There is a recent review out there, although it is redacted, it sounds like the guy gave a deposit and then never heard from the lady again. However, it was a new lady with no positive review history.

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3 hours ago, The Wise Old Owl said:

If escorts for more like U-Haul trucks, there would be less bad reviews and better experiences.

This is, literally, the worst analogy I've ever read...

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17 minutes ago, pfunk said:

This is, literally, the worst analogy I've ever read...

LMAO

 

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Yep I have to agree with Pfunk on this one. Maybe he meant Budget instead?

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13 hours ago, The Wise Old Owl said:

If escorts were more like U-Haul trucks, there would be less bad reviews and better experiences.

 

here here......

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6 hours ago, Mr.Pink said:

here here......

Well, if you think a human being is equivalent to a truck, just buy a real doll, and leave escorts for others, like me. You should be very happy.

https://www.realdoll.com

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8 hours ago, pfunk said:

Well, if you think a human being is equivalent to a truck, just buy a real doll, and leave escorts for others, like me. You should be very happy.

https://www.realdoll.com

On 11/26/2018 at 10:11 AM, The Wise Old Owl said:

When I rent a Uhaul truck, I leave a deposit so they know I'll return it in the condition I left with it. The U-Haul truck doesn't tell me how fast or slow I can go. It doesn't tell me to turn left or right, or scold me when I don't turn in the direction it likes. The U-Haul truck doesn't tell me when to go forward or back up.

The U-Haul truck has a time limit on it but I usually have it for an entire day. As long as I pay for it, the truck is mine to use as I please. It doesn't object when I want to go somewhere for a while and then come back. The U-Haul truck might know my name and where I live but after I've returned it, it doesn't retain that information.

The U-Haul truck doesn't care if I'm young or old, tall or short, skinny or fat, or the size of my... hands.  I can rent the size of the U-Haul truck I want and I know the price going in, it doesn't charge me more as we drive along. When I'm done using the U-Haul truck, I drive it back where it was, turn it in and never worry about it trying to retaliate against me if I write a bad review about the experience.

If escorts for more like U-Haul trucks, there would be less bad reviews and better experien

 

I'd rather bang the uhaul truck.

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8 minutes ago, Mr.Pink said:

I'd rather bang the uhaul truck.

No surprise there. Be sure to post a review 

 

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