inadifferentvoice

Are relationships overrated? Fell hard for a married woman.

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38 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

What I am trying to say is sometimes we need to sit in  our our own stew of self-pity for sometime before we can finally step away to see our personal lesson within all that’s transpired.

Sending reiki! ❤️ 

Kali, I agree.  I think we sit may sit in our stew long enough for some self reflection, and then, we can become open to possibilities.  And for me, sometimes it takes stewing long enough that I am willing to listen to the people who care about me.

2 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

All words of Wisdom Hunter!  Hot air wasted on deaf ears! :(  Thank you for the vote confidence in me! Guess, I am not cool enough LOL! :D  

And you are definitely cool enough.  In fact, you are so cool, you are hot !!  ;)

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She finally called me and explained why she broke up. Apparently, it has nothing to do with the husband but it's all my fault. She doesn't like that I use too much profanity and that I make to many jokes about porn. Ok? 

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I’m  glad she gave you closure and hope you will be able to move forward.

 

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1 hour ago, inadifferentvoice said:

She finally called me and explained why she broke up. Apparently, it has nothing to do with the husband but it's all my fault. She doesn't like that I use too much profanity and that I make to many jokes about porn. Ok? 

Advice: take that for what it is, honest feedback. Use it to learn and grow, not wallow.  Or, as others said, wallow as much as you feel like doing, then learn from it. Both of those things can be changed if you want to change them.

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What happened yesterday is yesterday.

Take her call for what it is and move forward.

You won't be happy if you stay in yesterday

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10 hours ago, inadifferentvoice said:

She finally called me and explained why she broke up. Apparently, it has nothing to do with the husband but it's all my fault. She doesn't like that I use too much profanity and that I make to many jokes about porn. Ok? 

Now that this thread has run its course, it might be a good time to point out that this is, very possibly, the absolute worst place in the world to get relationship advice, or even to get a little sympathy.  Hey, what did you expect, this is a hooker/trick board, not a family psychologist's forum.

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On 11/10/2018 at 6:55 AM, Melissa Sterling said:

Sarcasm...kinda... Because bitches be crazy!!!

Ok, in seriousness,

She probably didn’t want to risk everything for you. If there’s a single doubt in her mind, she probably needed to cut things off and do it suddenly. My guess, the hassle of divorce with littles was more hassle than she thought was worth.

Personally, if you’re deeply, passionately, completely in love and know without a shadow of doubt you found your soulmate....nothing stands in your way. NOTHING! I blew up my entire life for this very thing. BUT if I’m being truly honest, if I had dependables, who counted on me then I might be reluctant. I however and so glad I do not have that worry as mine are grown adults. 

To the OP,

big hugs! Closure is important and I’d reach out to ask for lunch just for an explanation. Key is to not get emotional. You’re hurt, but she’s likely hurting as well. The question then becomes, how far are you willing to go for love? Maybe she needs to know that from you. 

Just my .02.....free of charge. 

Ms. Sterling has such wisdom...on this topic and so many others.  Heed her words.  

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