"Ass"umptions

[Calisurfgirl]

Recently, while reviewing the topics, contributing comments and personal experiences I wanted to provide some helpful advice to all hobbyists/providers. The title of this topic is assumptions. There is a widely used phrase that most have heard at some point in their life. Whether they have been on the giving or receiving end is a moot point. "That making them (assumptions) makes an "Ass" out of "You" and "Me". 

So why "assume", that every provider or hobbyist are the same. General respect and approach is a tool that should be widely utilized not just in this occupation for some and hobby for others. Gentlemen, please give thought to what I am going to say next!! If you went to your employer tomorrow wanted  to negotiate your salary, stating that even though you have a great performance and track record you should get paid less than your worth how would you feel? Or stated some of the others that have the same employment title in other companies make half of what you make. You would be insulted and probably upset. Because you as an employee have exceeded expectations, standards, etc. NOT ONE PERSON IS THE SAME!!! Exception only by DNA/appearance are identical twins for the most part. 

So approach a provider, (KEEP THIS NEXT PART IN MIND) that you are SEEKING, with the respect you would expect. Providers, not all hobbyist are the same. If you want to achieve a reliable, safe, better level of clientele be consistent. Know you're worth. There is a definite difference between an Escort and a Provider. The baseline for both is Companionship. If you are going to provide services that both parties are mutually comfortable with provide THEM to the best of your ability. 

Hopefully, hobbyists will understand that after reviewing a providers profile, reviews, and forum stats what type of provider they are. Most people in todays society even research the type of phone they want to buy before purchasing it so how is this hobby/occupation any different?

Edited October 25, 2018 by Calisurfgirl

[Mr.Pink]

If this is seriously "your" business, you should have a professional website with your expectations..... not some goofy looking pictures with Snapchat filters.

[Calisurfgirl]

31 minutes ago, Mr.Pink said:

If this is seriously "your" business, you should have a professional website with your expectations..... not some goofy looking pictures with Snapchat filters.

You may have the wrong listing or provider, there are ZERO snapchat filters.. Occupation of choice while in medical school due to the intensive amount of academic hours, clinical hours, and attributed amount of additional studying required to become a MD. This  is not "Long Term" career path. Not judging those that choose to due such. 100% sure that you can emphasize since you are a MD. Right? That prior sentence is not literal. You can throw sticks and stones. It still does not change the fact that there was a FEDERAL LAW PASSED that you are very much aware of since you have "7 Dots" located underneath your name which makes you familiar with the association with TOB. Also you have earned those "dots" not because of the reviews you have provided but instead for the active positive participation on this very FORUM. 

Edited October 25, 2018 by Calisurfgirl

[Mr.Pink]

On 10/24/2018 at 8:34 PM, Calisurfgirl said:

You may have the wrong listing or provider, there are ZERO snapchat filters..

I noticed you removed your pictures that had em. Most businesses I know take credit cards. 

[Calisurfgirl]

Thank you, my merchant processing company would definitely agree. 

[Bootsce]

Pink. The OP is asking for a little respect. Like that song Aretha sang to Matt Guitar Murphy...think you could throttle back a bit?  Maybe, I don’t know...show a little respect? 

[pfunk]

5 hours ago, Bootsce said:

Pink. The OP is asking for a little respect. Like that song Aretha sang to Matt Guitar Murphy...think you could throttle back a bit?  Maybe, I don’t know...show a little respect? 

Mr Pink is a troll. Probably not gonna change. 

[Ryann]

On 10/24/2018 at 8:34 PM, Calisurfgirl said:

You may have the wrong listing or provider, there are ZERO snapchat filters.. Occupation of choice while in medical school due to the intensive amount of academic hours, clinical hours, and attributed amount of additional studying required to become a MD. This  is not "Long Term" career path. Not judging those that choose to due such. 100% sure that you can emphasize since you are a MD. Right? That prior sentence is not literal. You can throw sticks and stones. It still does not change the fact that there was a FEDERAL LAW PASSED that you are very much aware of since you have "7 Dots" located underneath your name which makes you familiar with the association with TOB. Also you have earned those "dots" not because of the reviews you have provided but instead for the active positive participation on this very FORUM. 

 

[Ryann]

Hell ya....

what she said 😬

[Calisurfgirl]

41 minutes ago, Ryann said:

Hell ya....

what she said 😬

Thank you, great minds and women think alike. All of the women here and else where.  Beautiful, intelligent, and intuitive person(s).

[goodguy69]

47 minutes ago, Calisurfgirl said:

Thank you, great minds and women think alike. All of the women here and else where.  Beautiful, intelligent, and intuitive person(s).

Yes you all are.😊

[tide32]

On 10/24/2018 at 8:03 PM, Mr.Pink said:

If this is seriously "your" business, you should have a professional website with your expectations..... not some goofy looking pictures with Snapchat filters.

For one, l love her pictures. I see a zest for life in them that if nothing else make me like her even though we haven't met. Respect is just a given.