Sweet Ashley

Missing escorting after retirement....

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A very different sort of a happy ending than I’m accustomed to reading on the Board, This is an amazing story on so many levels. Kudos for making what must have been a very challenging life adjustment for both you and your exceptionally understanding husband. You’re the real life Julia Roberts character, Ashley.

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Sweet Ashley was one of my ATFs......

I only saw her a couple of times but she was a gem!!  I believe I even gave her a gift of high heels...

Anyway, it is wonderful to know she is doing well...

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I had the pleasure of knowing Ashley for several years. As I mentioned in a previous post, she set the example for others to follow.

When She told me she was leaving, I went to the basement and pouted for a week.

Nothing but good memories......😘. Thanks for checking in once in a while.

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On 10/17/2018 at 0:20 AM, Sweet Ashley said:

I love my husband (wife) more than I miss that part of my life though, and I have no regrets about retiring....

I miss ....

I also get to live vicariously through their adventures ....

Ashley 💋

Dear Ashley,

What a great post and it is so good to hear from you again.

So much of what you wrote resonates with me although I'm a client, not a provider. I've excerpted only some of that above.

Yet I still visit during stages of my life, although what brings them on I still don't know.

I'm not even sure that I'm retired. I still look at the listings, the reviews, and proceed as if I'm a hobbyist, although I never seem to book any appointments in the end.

There is true love in this pursuit, in spite of our best intentions. I'm glad that you recognized it and felt secure in your dream to act upon it.

I wish you and yours all the best in life, love, and luck!

--OT

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OMG did we have some great times

Hi Ashley😜

miss you bunches

glad to hear life is being good to you!!

💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

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Might I also add that my close family and friends know what I do/my profession and they are not so approving....

Reading this gave me much needed insight and reassurance on how one should really feel about this industry. I know my time with my clients are private and mutually unique. There is a stigma about this industry and what it entails but no one except for us clients and providers truly know the emotional connection we have with each other. Although there are times I feel overwhelmed or to be quite Frank, exhausted and fed up with this industry and the clients, there are other moments that redeem my love and appreciation for what I share with everyone.

I have met some unique, amazing, wonderful, intelligent and funny gentleman during my time. Even though I know my retirement is looming, depending on life of course, I have thoroughly enjoyed being a provider and in many ways I've enjoyed clients jumping 1in the role as a provider for me. I've spent countless hours by the fire or snuggling up in bed talking and getting to know a total stranger only to realize that they're not a stranger at all they were just a friend I hadn't met yet.

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I just came across this great thread, and wanted to chime in. So, I am lucky enough to still visit with a couple of ladies who no longer are active or on this Board. Of course I compensate them for their time. They still enjoy getting together for intimate rendezvous' which is so wonderful. They are not in any kind of committed relationship, nor do they want to be active again. My question is this, how many of you gentleman (if any) still visit with ladies who have since left the scene?

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I finally had to make an account because of this. I'm on a long break and like you said I miss the excitement and the rush. I to once fell for a girl half hours turned to hours and it didn't matter the time she made herself available. I was new back than and got scared and stopped visiting. After several months I couldn't take it and tried to reconnect however she had retired ;( gl Ashley you seemed like you would have been lots of fun ;)

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ONE of my regrets about this hobby is I was never able to make my schedule work so I could see you.  

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3 hours ago, mustang said:

ONE of my regrets about this hobby is I was never able to make my schedule work so I could see you.  

😢 Now, that sucks. Guys, dont wait too long to see your dream girls. Sometimes, providers have been around for awhile, and you think you've got all this time to wait and make it work...then they're gone in the blink of an eye. 

I was sad to here about a couple ladies retiring while I was gone this summer, I can only imagine how some of the guys felt. I'm glad their lives are going great though. 💙

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On 10/21/2018 at 7:41 PM, Hunter VanDyke said:

😢 Now, that sucks. Guys, dont wait too long to see your dream girls. Sometimes, providers have been around for awhile, and you think you've got all this time to wait and make it work...then they're gone in the blink of an eye. 

I was sad to here about a couple ladies retiring while I was gone this summer, I can only imagine how some of the guys felt. I'm glad their lives are going great though. 💙

Well said, I know I have made that mistake

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On 10/21/2018 at 8:41 PM, Hunter VanDyke said:

😢 Now, that sucks. Guys, dont wait too long to see your dream girls. Sometimes, providers have been around for awhile, and you think you've got all this time to wait and make it work...then they're gone in the blink of an eye. 

That happened to me.  I waited too long to see a lady who caught my eye and ended up only getting see her twice before she moved to California. That bummed me out because she was awesome!  Fortunately she moved back a few months later. Lesson learned though!

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On 10/19/2018 at 10:10 PM, Kissit40 said:

I just came across this great thread, and wanted to chime in. So, I am lucky enough to still visit with a couple of ladies who no longer are active or on this Board. Of course I compensate them for their time. They still enjoy getting together for intimate rendezvous' which is so wonderful. They are not in any kind of committed relationship, nor do they want to be active again. My question is this, how many of you gentleman (if any) still visit with ladies who have since left the scene?

I see two friends that are no longer active on the board, have known them both almost 10 years. 

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On 10/17/2018 at 1:03 PM, carpediem-6586 said:

Sweet Ashley was one of my ATFs......

I only saw her a couple of times but she was a gem!!  I believe I even gave her a gift of high heels...

Anyway, it is wonderful to know she is doing well...

Mine too, my other atf, what a great gal and glad to hear that she is doing well.

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On 10/17/2018 at 0:20 AM, Sweet Ashley said:

Hi Everyone!  I want to respond to Celeste’s post in another thread about missing escorting after retirement because I can relate to her feelings. I hope you don’t mind that I respond in a new thread, Celeste 😘 

I have been “retired” for 11 years now. I retired because I fell in love with one of my clients and we got married. It was mutual and we are still very happily married, so yes, client/provider relationships CAN work! 😜 I love my husband more than I miss that part of my life though, and I have no regrets about retiring.  I would never give up my husband or the amazing life we now have together. I just want to make that clear 😍

But like you, Celeste, I can’t help but look back with fond memories on my escorting days. I do miss it at times!  I miss SO many things about it. I miss the excitement of it all....

The excitement of meeting new clients, and the thrill and comfort of seeing repeat clients who became my friends.  I miss hearing my clients interesting stories and sharing experiences with them.  I miss the fun times I had with SO many of my clients, as well as other providers. 2 Girl sessions were fun!!! 😜💄💋 I have SO many stories I could tell....good,  funny, HOTT, sad, and even bad and scary stories. One thing I know is that everything that happens makes a good story no matter what, and I can look back on all of them and either smile or breathe a sigh of relief. During my 5 years of escorting though, I am thankful  that I only have 3 bad or scary stories I could tell.

I miss the power of seduction I had with so many men. The feeling of power and control escorts have over a client can be addicting, and I don’t mean that in a bad way. There’s nothing like the thrill of getting dressed up and having a client appreciate your beauty and sex appeal, and desire to be with you. The feeling of being adored is intoxicating!

I miss the gifts I would sometimes receive, whether they be a bottle of wine, flowers, perfume, lingerie, or jewelry.  It always made me feel so special that a gentleman would go that extra mile for me.

I miss getting to see new places, whether it be a posh hotel I’ve never seen or the inside of a client’s home. 

I miss the parties and the meet n greets.  We had some really good ones back when I was working, didn’t we?!? 😜

SO much of escorting is fun, but I also miss the business aspect of it. The flexible schedule, the autonomy of being my own boss, and the money.  I won’t lie, I can’t help but sometimes miss making the same amount of money that I could make in a day or two that it could take someone to make in 1 to 2  weeks working a normal job.  Money is a powerful thing!  

Even before I became an escort, I was fascinated by that lifestyle for years. I am still fascinated by it.  I am glad I did it and I wouldn’t change a thing! ❤️ I am still in contact with a few of my good friends I made through this industry, and I am thankful for that and for their friendship.  Besides making lifelong friends, I also get to live vicariously through their adventures! 😜

Ashley 💋

 

 

Awwww....Sweet Ashley!!! One of Denver's TOP providers from the past. What a nice surprise to see this. 

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Oh man, what a lovely name to see!  Once of my favorite memories is meeting with you and a lovely curly haired latina whose name escapes me right now.   Glad to know life is good for you!

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I just saw this post. I love it. Everything you said rings true. The power and seduction, the fun and new experiences. Wishing you all of the best ❤️ 😘

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