Posted October 10, 2018 4 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said: Okay, if you must know, my name is Johna. Johna Smith. There...you all have it. Do what you want with it. Lol See now. I feel closer all ready. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2018 1 minute ago, tide32 said: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0tJGk4ofc18 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2018 I have a question that has a little different twist to this topic. So hypothetically you are interested in meeting a Young Lady that is not on this board with reviews, etc. You do the typical research, Tineye and Google on the pics, Google her phone number, etc. So hypothetically this simple search turns up some RW info. Very specific info that put together with something she told you during a conversation leads you to believe it to be accurate. So here is my question. Do you tell the young lady about this? Maybe even show them what you found? Or do you just forget it? Ladies I would like your opinion. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2018 I recently had a first-time experience. I met a provider and she said "now that we're meeting in person, I'm 'Johna'." I introduced myself using my real name (which happens to be super generic, so I don't have a problem giving it out). TBH, it made no difference to me but it seemed to make her more comfortable. After that, the night progressed as expected. To each his/her own, I guess. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2018 I had LinkedIn suggest I add a provider to my network...D’oh! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2018 I had a lady from right here TOB call me, Probably returned my call, and I called her by name, she said "why did you call me that?" I said , "That's the name that came up on caller ID" She said, "oh, I did'nt know that, thanks for telling me" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2018 4 hours ago, daaacz said: I recently had a first-time experience. I met a provider and she said "now that we're meeting in person, I'm 'Johna'." I introduced myself using my real name (which happens to be super generic, so I don't have a problem giving it out). TBH, it made no difference to me but it seemed to make her more comfortable. After that, the night progressed as expected. To each his/her own, I guess. John and Johna must be a common real world name in our community. 😂😂😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 11, 2018 On Wednesday, October 10, 2018 at 2:07 PM, ilovewomen said: I doubt if that’s her real name. Take off the “a” and you have John Smith. Shit, played again. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 12, 2018 Mutual discretion, real identity happens once in awhile and I think it's special. One article that may have meaning to some is: written back in December 2013, "12 reasons why escorts should only book married clients" (google it) and look at #5. The trust has to be there. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 12, 2018 1 hour ago, Du said: Mutual discretion, real identity happens once in awhile and I think it's special. One article that may have meaning to some is: written back in December 2013, "12 reasons why escorts should only book married clients" (google it) and look at #5. The trust has to be there. I agree that mutual discretion is key, as I have had this happen, and I do think it is special when it does, however as I have told the ladies that have trusted me enough to divulge any of that information, wheter intentional or accidental, (as I never ask for it). I will take any of the information that they choose to share with me to my grave. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 14, 2018 I don't care what a girl's real name is. I probably know the names of a half dozen or so but would never use them. They are whoever they say they are. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 15, 2018 I think we should all remember that we're actors in the movie of hobbying and keep to our script-given names... no good comes from attempting to mix the two... if her RW info does ever get exposed and you know it, sure it's helpful to inform her so she can pull those loose ends together, then it behooves you to forget it. I've never felt comfortable asking for - nor using, if it inadvertently came out - her real name. That's just not on. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 19, 2018 I value my friendships ive made throughout my years. Never regreted letting the ones i let into my personal life! For me it makes it real and thats important for me!! Many of you on this board are very dear to me and you all know who you are! Xoxo thanks for great friendships!!!! 😜💙🤪❤️😃👍 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 What's the point of this thread? If I saw a lady here and all of a sudden she starts a topic named " knowing his real name", I'd think, OMG, I found a psycho. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 3 minutes ago, Mike940370 said: What's the point of this thread? If I saw a lady here and all of a sudden she starts a topic named " knowing his real name", I'd think, OMG, I found a psycho. Apparently everyone already thinks you're the psycho. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 Oh, btw, if you know her real name, congrats, you're hot stuff, but u dont have to brag about it. Was this u goodguy69er? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 I have no need to brag about anything if that is what you are trying to infer, mikey. Just giving my viewpoint on the topic, if you don't like it, you don't have to read it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 10 hours ago, goodguy69 said: Apparently everyone already thinks you're the psycho. We don’t think he’s psycho. He is just a fucking troll that wants to create issues and piss everyone off. And he does it because he can hide behind the anonymity of of the internet. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 10 hours ago, Mike940370 said: What's the point of this thread? If I saw a lady here and all of a sudden she starts a topic named " knowing his real name", I'd think, OMG, I found a psycho. Don't worry about it, Mikey, it's just the grown ups talking. Why don't you just go down in the basement and play with Rosie? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 Mikey needs to be sent to timeout. Maybe write 10,000 times “I will learn how to respect the ladies”. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 We, my regular provider and i, know about each other. We respect each other, in fact I think we are freiends. Due to illness we haven't met physically since April, but we've kept in touch, email, and as soon as I can get out without help she Wil be my first outing. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 16 minutes ago, pointymoustache said: We, my regular provider and i, know about each other. We respect each other, in fact I think we are freiends. Due to illness we haven't met physically since April, but we've kept in touch, email, and as soon as I can get out without help she Wil be my first outing. Here’s hoping your health improves quickly 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 44 minutes ago, pointymoustache said: We, my regular provider and i, know about each other. We respect each other, in fact I think we are freiends. Due to illness we haven't met physically since April, but we've kept in touch, email, and as soon as I can get out without help she Wil be my first outing. She definitely gives you a goal to get better. I hope you two get to meet soon. 🙏🤗💋💙 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 21, 2018 3 hours ago, ilovewomen said: Here’s hoping your health improves quickly I can only echo this sentiment. Get well, friend. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 23, 2018 On 10/21/2018 at 1:13 PM, pointymoustache said: We, my regular provider and i, know about each other. We respect each other, in fact I think we are freiends. Due to illness we haven't met physically since April, but we've kept in touch, email, and as soon as I can get out without help she Wil be my first outing. Sending you some healing thoughts. Hope that outing happens soon and that meeting her will make both of your days (or evenings or nights) very, very special. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 26, 2018 I have done a lot of work for a lot of ladies in the industry, which led to me knowing their real names. Most of them I was not seeing as a client, though... and I actually would prefer to not know any of the real names of those I do see. It makes me a bit nervous, afraid I might screw up and call them by the wrong name at the wrong time or in the wrong place. I get the appeal for some - it feels like a significant measure of trust has been imparted (and, it has!). Which makes you feel 'special'. But, if I am seeing a lady as a provider, I personally am not looking to blur the lines and pretend that she is anything other than a provider. I am not looking for a girlfriend or a wife (one is more than enough!), and while I enjoy feeling a friendship/camaraderie with a provider... I don't need it to include her real name. That's just me, though. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 26, 2018 I am a provider that ended up marrying one of my clients. I feel like some people: Its none of their business my real name,etc... Others I can get super comfortable with and dont mind. And Im easy to lose cause I travel like a touring gypsy. Therefore I think if I wasnt on the go driving hours on end everyday then I would care more about sharing my personal info. My girlfriends didnt know I have had my puppy over 7 years and kids even though we traveled together for five and a half years. And some of my clients know more about me then I know myself. But really no one but my daddy could tell anyone five things consistent about me. So thats the beauty of letting some in about a personal detail. It becomes a challenge for them to understand me and get close while achieving a victory with each detail till they find out its changed again. The thrill never ends for those ones!! But none have known me for five years straight they know me a few times a year for two and then I drop off the planet and come back afew years later. So whatever they know wont ever do them any good if they wanna use it against me. Doesnt stop them from trying though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 6, 2018 From a work point of view,I know the names of hundreds and hundreds of mainstream models, strippers and porn stars and nude models. Is it one of the perks of being a mild mannered reporter ?? Probably, but I am well trained in not using their real names in public (conventions,clubs,etc ) and NO way would I ever use or out their names in a public forum such as this.Its called giving them RESPECT. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 6, 2018 7 hours ago, JRWolfe said: ...Its called.... RESPECT. It's a noble concept, no? And one if exercised uniformly across these dating communities would make the whole experience even better than it already is... can you just imagine... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
